How to handle difficulties in life

United States
March 24, 2012 4:06pm CST
Hi mylotters, I just want to you if how you handle difficulties in life. We can read some articles online but it is more interesting to read some view from real people in this community. In life we all have difficulties in life and it just depends on us on how to handle them. There are people who became very sad and often ended with severe depression. Some of us just laugh out loud and ignore them telling ourselves that life must go on. Some people became full of hate because of what they been through in life. And above all, some are being patient, trust in God and find more ways to solve the problem. Can you share your ideas and views? thank you.
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12 responses
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
24 Mar 12
When ever you are in difficulty, pat your heart with your right hand and say " ALL IS WELL", YOU will get the courage to face the difficulty.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
24 Mar 12
I like that ....very much jagjit
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
25 Mar 12
Thankyou very much, can we be friends sweet heart
@smilemoon (766)
• United Arab Emirates
24 Mar 12
by making balance I think. Say away from exagerating. Never laugh too much. Never make joke at people. Being satisfied do alot.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
24 Mar 12
I am a firm believer in that there is a reason for everything, and I do believe in good and bad there is a reason, a part of life..so to get me through I try and find what I can learn from every experience. As an example I was always a very insecure person and not very good at handling sickness but when my father passed away somehow I found an inner strength and then had to look after my mother who had alzheimers, after my mother passed away I found my-self volunteering in a nursing home helping others, so I believe everysingle thing that happens to you there is that reason, usually with big things like losing someone special in your life, it is usually a life changing event for the person left behind, maybe a change that had to happen, life is strange but while we are here we just have to do the best we can and try and be happy.
• India
24 Mar 12
that is easy. first think about this is that difficulties are an example to learn some lessons not more then that. If we think that difficulties are evil then it will hurt us, just don't think about that. take as dream...
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@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
hi, actually it will depend upon the person on how he/she will handle it,and also on how heavy or difficulty is it,sometimes if i cant resolve it i am just pray and ask God what should i do and ask for a guide,sometimes i want to go far away to my place to escape from my difficulties.
• Philippines
24 Mar 12
Truly, life is full of difficulties that we need to overcome. It is one way for us to grow in all areas of life. We cry, we rejoice, we plan, we take action, we win. Difficulties are not something we dread but something we can welcome in our life so we can learn lessons in life. Of course, we don't pray that we'll always be in difficult situations but when they come, we are ready. Handling difficulties is having a positive mind, that these are part of life. It is not something to destroy us but to keep us strong. That is, if we face the difficulties that life throws in our way.
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• China
25 Mar 12
here is my opinion 1.Talking with your good friends, that can share your sadness and your difficulties 2.by storing the bible words in our heart,and when you need the words, it will come out of your heart and to help you. 3.talking to God and give the burden to him,he will solve all your problems if you like to let him to do it.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
25 Mar 12
I think that we all handle difficulties different, and usually different each time or with each situation. There are times I've handled the difficulties in my life more gracefully then others. I am havign a difficult time now and wanting to move out, but instead of worrying over it I've resolved to just earn over it. I come online and earn as much as I can while I also do so at work. I pray to God and ask for his help and know I receive it with each passing day. I try not to worry over others and there worries but I do pray for them as well.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
20 May 12
I mostly pray and ask God for guidance. After I pray, I laugh at it and try to forget it. I'll handle it once I can. It's hard to hide and handle difficulties, but we all know that we can make it. Friends and family also are a good support for us to succeed with this difficulties.
@joystick (1675)
25 Mar 12
I find this discussion rather hard to answer.My friend, who I have known for a very long time, is really ill at the moment and it is her health that will never get better.After seeing my friend the other day, it has made me ask, that if there was a god at all why do he inflict pain, as well as suffering on people.This friend of mine is the kindest person you will ever meet.My friend has not become full of hate, she is depressed and you can tell that, all she wants is one day with no pain, just so that she can do something that she enjoys, just one day and the worst thing is, she knows the only day that will happen is when she is no longer here.
• Vietnam
26 Mar 12
Hello spee... Yes, life is very difficult. If we don't fight, we will fail. In my life, i try to decrease stress by listen music or sometime i walk alone. We all want to have a good lkie, right? Have a good day.
25 Mar 12
it is very difficulty question to answer,everyone can face the problem,the problem is different,you just listern the others idears ,but you do not allow other's idear suggestion to do.you can depend on your attitudes,and then however action you will take, the result come out.it is a relation.so the life is equale,we should have the positive attitude toward the problem,and then you will feel relax ,quiet and confidence.Good kuck!