March 26, 2012 12:14am CST
Hi do you also share your blogging strategy to your fellow blogger. I don't mind sharing it unless they will ask for it but if not I don't actually suggest. I had this bad experience that I suggest something to a blogger friend to improve his blog but he take it offensively and I can feel that he stay away from me because of that.
26 Mar 12
You are very helpful. The problem with this is not all people will appreciate our genuine effort to help. They sometimes think that we're bragging too much. Yes. They will also get offended. That's also my attitude before. I can say I'm worse than you are. I am not saying that you're bad, not really, airkulet. I am not one of them who will get offended when you offer help. Like you, I have also learned my lesson. I am no longer very helpful.
26 Mar 12
Oh! I'm sorry to hear that. You wanted to help, but you were mistaken. Other people tend to consider our constructive criticisms destructive. If I were you, I would explain to him my real intention. I would emphasize that he's wrong, that I was just trying to help. If he remains stubborn, then that's the time that you stop explaining. Let him live his own life.