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@Lucas818 (377)
March 26, 2012 12:04pm CST
Dear myLotters, Do you think that is it normal that two person whom in a relationship that sometimes facing a situation where both have nothing to say, nothing to talk about? It might not happen very often but it is still happening. Do you think this is a problem? Or tend to become a problem eventually? How can we prevent it?
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• Trinidad And Tobago
26 Mar 12
I would say yes, but truth be told we women are talkers so I don't see how it's even possible that there's no conversing between two people, men usually wish we'd shut up lol, but I digress. Yes it happens, and I don't consider it a problem except for if the situation persists well yeah, its then becomes a problem. I believe it can be solved by taking some private time together, get away from things that can be distractions and make the effort to talk to each other. Quite often you tend to find if let's say the woman is a homemaker, she's busy with the house the kids and her husband who's been at work all day, when he comes home he just wants to be quiet, that can promote the lack of conversation. Or you have situations where both parties are employed and neither has anything to say because they're both tired. So time apart with each other should readily solve this issue.
@Lucas818 (377)
27 Mar 12
You're right when a situation persists then it will turn to a problem. That's what I'm worrying of. I'm just afraid that when both of us realized, it will become too late.
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
If it is a long-time relationship, there's nothing wrong about it. It's actually good to have some silent time together just for a while. It is never a problem to me and my boyfriend. We often see other couple not talking too much either. Sometimes it sweet when we just don't talk and just stare at each other. And it seems like we're talking in our minds but we're not and we'll smile. It's sweet. If you're in a new relationship, that may means you're not yet confident with each other or you're shy. You will develop being comfortable with each other as time goes by.
@NailTech (6890)
• United States
26 Mar 12
It can be a problem if you can't think of anything to talk about anymore for a long time. I have even seen some people resort to arguing due to the fact they really don't have anything interesting to say to each other anymore, and that is so sad. Just use your imagination, say something funny out of the blue that will make them laugh, at least you won't be silenced anymore. Read her a joke, give her a compliment, buy a small pressie for her and you can talk about that.
@Markudo (55)
• Brazil
26 Mar 12
Everyone has something to talk about unless you spend the whole day at home doing nothing! Just read some books, watch some movies, read news, and there you go, subjects! Hope I have helped Best Wishes