Do You Use Your own Name in your facebook account

Indonesia
March 29, 2012 1:42am CST
Facebook is a place where we can meet new friend and reconnected with old friend. One of the way to meet old friend, is by searching their name or look out their name in our friend friendlist. Some time it hard to find old friend because some time they use nick name and not real name. Some actually use strange name that are not their nickname. As for me, i use my realname so people can easily find me. What name do you use in your facebook account?
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43 responses
• United States
30 Mar 12
on my facebook i am using my real name that way my family and close friends can find me and we can reconnect. now i know a few people that only know me by my nickname but i tried to look for them myself to save all the hassle. it bothers me when people use their nicknames because there are still people that i would love to talk to again and i am unable to find them (but they could not have a facebook to that is a possibility lol)
• Indonesia
30 Mar 12
Well yes, people who like using their fake name and nick name will be hard to search. But usually people like that is the one whose active searching for friend, so it might end up that he / she is the one who have many friend. Thansk crazzydolphin for the comment.
• Indonesia
31 Mar 12
Well yes, i know a lot of people who like to add people. But i do know a few reasong why they do that. Most people who like to add people randomly, usually are people who want to promote something. It is either their product, blog, link, or other thing. Thanks for your respond.
• United States
30 Mar 12
yes it makes it very hard but i can understand why they would do it. this way only the few people that know it will be able to find them and add them as a friend. yes i know someone who did nothing but add friends like crazzy because he wanted to see how many friends he could get and now he is blocked from adding for a long time (i dont remember how long) now he is unable to add anymore so the people he does know (me) he cant add for a while. i dont see the point in to many friends lol. your welcome and thank you for the response :)
@JDaw2006 (428)
• United States
30 Mar 12
I also use my real name. But I didn't think abou it until now but I use my married name. So none of my old high school friends wouldn't be able to find me anyway. I wonder if you can change your name. Do happen to now if you can or not? I don't like when people put a nick name as there profile name cause If they post something it takes me a few mins to realize who it is that just posted it.
• Indonesia
31 Mar 12
Well i know for sure you change your name in facebook. But before you change your real name from your marriage name, make sure you tell your husband first, and tell him the reason. Don't want anything to causes misunderstanding with your husband. Thanks for your respond.
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• United States
30 Mar 12
wow i said i use my name also but until you posted this i didnt realize i also use my married name hahaha. i think that you can go to your profile and edit it and you should be able to change your name but i could be wrong. may be someone can help you out a little better on that 1 but it wouldnt hurt to check that out :) it does make it haarder to figure out who posted lol
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@JDaw2006 (428)
• United States
2 Apr 12
Crazzydolphin - Yeah that is very true. I have seen a few of my friends put their first name then their maden name and then out to the side in the little things they put their married names. I will deffanetly try and see if i can change it just in case i am missing friends because they dont find my name on facebook. Lordcaocao2025 - That is very true. That would cause me and my husband alot of arguments if i didnt even thoug i didnt mean anything by it. I would still put my married name there though. Thanks for the post back.
@shaieen (257)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
Same here! I also use my real name as I don't find it any useful using nonsense characters on my facebook name. It will just add complication to my friends if they search me on the search bar.
@shaieen (257)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
Yeah, I have friends on facebook who use Korean names on their name. Sometimes I find it so hard to find them, that's why I just browse on my photo albums to see their names tagged in my pics :-) Um, no. my real name is Cheyenne. shaieen is just a screen name ^^
• Indonesia
31 Mar 12
Oh i see, nice to meet you Cheyenne. Yes it is hard when you search people using strange character, especially foreign character. I Cannot read it, and i don't even know how to write it. Well thanks for answerring my quetion my friend. Have a nice day and a nice week end.
• Indonesia
30 Mar 12
Thanks for sharing shaieen. Yes it is easy to recognize people when they use the real name. I also found annoying when people using their name with nonsense character, it will make it hard to read, and i think also hard to write. Also is your real name is shaieen?
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 12
until now iam not using the real name in my facebook so sometimes my college friend and my senior high school did not expect that the nickname is me.. but after they become my friend, they realize that its me.. i dont think it is important for using the real name and real photo in our social media.. we still connect with them, without must using our real name.. i never see too any rule from facebok for pushing us using the real name in our account..
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 12
i dont think i want to be friend with my boss in my facebook.. even i never make any status for attacking my office maybe.. its weird for me, for being my boss as my facebook friend..
• Indonesia
1 Apr 12
Facebook never make a rule that we need to use our real name there. But... if you are using facebook, with many friend from a client, co-worker, Bosses, business partner and even customer, THEN i think you need to use real name and real picture, that way it will give you and your company more credibility.
• Indonesia
2 Apr 12
Well for some people it might like taken a freedom from them, but for other people it might be a chance. Being facebook friend with your boss will make you noticable ny the boss. The management will recognize you and it will be easier for you to grand promotion. It all depend on your view. As for me, i don't have my boss in my facebook account, but i do have co worker and a few business partner there.
@laken02 (3065)
• United States
2 Apr 12
i do use my real name as a matter of fact, i like alot of my friends use my married and madien name as well. so people that dont know me by my married name will be able to know who i am as well.. i know if the woemn dont use there madien name it would be hard to find them if you did not know who they married.. so i use both names on my facebook..
@laken02 (3065)
• United States
4 Apr 12
well i dont use my middle name and hardly anyone knew it anyhow i use my first name and then my maiden name and then my married name.. hope that makes sense i seen alot of other people do it and it made sense to do it too,, and it does help in finding people you use to know by the old last name becasue if your not in touch with them for years and they get married and posted on facebook ther married name you would not know them ... so we use our maiden names as well.. makes sense to me..
• Indonesia
4 Apr 12
Well yes, it is really make sense. And it is make it easier for people to find you. For those who know you before you married, and for those who know you when you already married, they will still have an easier way to find you. Thanks for your respond my friend.
• Indonesia
3 Apr 12
Oh i see, well how do you actually use two name at facebook account. Do you have two facebook account or do you use your maiden name as your middle name and your married name as your last name. Using real name is sure make it a lot easier for friend to find us in facebook.
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• United States
31 Mar 12
I use my real name for my Facebook profile. I see a lot of people on my friend list often change their names to weird things. Sometimes they will have their name with a strange middle or nickname in between. I agree with you though, I think it's more easier to find someone who has their real name on there.
• Indonesia
1 Apr 12
i do hate what they do with their name and i mean is what you said when they do have their name with a strange middle or nickname in between. It make it harder to read and hard to understand. Off course they can do what ever they want with their account. But sometime i just angry.
• Indonesia
2 Apr 12
Yes, it is sure annoying. And i do angry sometime, but i usually keep it my self, because i have no right to tell them what to do with their facebook account, especially since it doesn't really give me any bad effect. Thanks for your respond my friend.
• United States
1 Apr 12
It doesn't anger me, I just find it kinda annoying and childish sometimes, but like you mentioned it's their profile so they can use whatever name they want.
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
Yes, why not, right? Like what you said, it will be easier for other to people to find us and for us to find them too. I don't like it when people in Facebook use different names. It's not necessary.
• Philippines
3 Apr 12
But still, how could we search their name and find them in the Internet if they're not using their real name, right? Like before, I was searching the name of a classmate when I was 9 years old and I could not find her. And after a year, I found her through mutual friend but she's not using her real name and the only good thing is that I identified her through picture but everything would be much easier if only she used her real name. Haha. Sorry if I'm hard-headed.
• Indonesia
4 Apr 12
Well yes, if their name is hard to find, then the only solution is to wait for them to find you, or maybe you get lucky and see their picture on facebook on one of your friend status when he / she make a comment on it. Or the most easiest way is try to search their old phone number and ask them right away. Off course it is only possible of their phone number is still available.
• Indonesia
30 Mar 12
Well although it seem not necessary for you autumndreamer, but some people could see it as necessary. They might find themselves don;t want to be add by some people but they still want to enjoy facebook, so in order to be not added by them, they are using fake name. Thanks for your reply, autumndreamer.
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• Philippines
6 Apr 12
I have my own fb and it is named after me. But seems like there are a number of persons who have the same name as I am so it would be hard looking for me then. I have no inclination as to I am using my own name for I know of my integrity as well. For me I think that others would use an alias to hide from someone or is hiding as of the moment.. well, each of us has his or her own story to tell..
• Indonesia
6 Apr 12
Well yes, i agree with you jingbautista. By the way,i think you might make a doubles post. So i comment only on the first one, and i ignore the other one. Is it okay for you? Anyway, yes i agree every person in facebook have every story about why they choice to use fake name in facebook or why he choice to use his own name in facebook. It is their right to choice so.
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
29 Mar 12
i haven't a facebook account but i think now facebook ask to all users using your real name in my opinion is not good enough for privacy and things related to it...so in many cases social network can break your privacy and so you can't prevent the consequences t all when you join a network like that..
• Indonesia
30 Mar 12
Well the best solution of protecting your privacy is to never upload anything that can be used to inform other about your secret. Anyway tinyllenium, why do you not have a facebook account? Do you not really like social networking site? have you consider trying it?
• Italy
30 Mar 12
yes i consider to try facebook or social sites but i think right now i haven't much time to dedicate to them and even facbook sounds strange in my opinion these big networks are useful to control different people around the world knowing their interests,thinking and attitudes!!
• Indonesia
30 Mar 12
I don't think facebook is something that use to control people around the world. It is more a place for sharing and connecting with people, either it is people that we close too or old friend that we lost contact too. It is more like a communication device. You can do whatever you want with it, it is not controlling you.
@MandaLee (3756)
• United States
30 Mar 12
Yes, I use my real name. Using your real name is a requirement in order to open an account. Have a great weekend!
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 12
@mandala lee ; so do you think you must using your real name in facebook? it doesn`t the requirement of facebook registration it was same with mylot.. we don`t need use the real name here
• Indonesia
1 Apr 12
Yes adhyz82, you are right. Facebook doesn't require us to send our proof of identity so they will never know who we really are. It is not their business to force us using our own name. The same thing also apply for mylot, forum and many other social networking sites.
• Indonesia
31 Mar 12
I don't think using your real nameis a requirement in order to open an account. I see a lot of people using nick name, fake name, or even nonsense name that only the owner account understand what the name meaning ( or even him / her don't understand what it meant ).
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
i use my real name on facebook. some of my friends use their nicknames but some people use names that seem to be none sense hehe like some people would use curses as their names on facebook. well it is none of my business anyway but it is annoying sometimes. and also i usually don't add people on facebook even if i know them.
• Indonesia
30 Mar 12
Well yes, i see a lot of strange name in facebook. Some contain curse, some time contain how beautifull or handsome they are. Some is the name of their idol. Some even nonsense that i cannot understand what it mean. That is the way people enjoy facebook, it is strange but it is real.
• India
29 Mar 12
If you have the real name then it is easier for us to understand that who he is.I also do this type of thing as by seeing the name I don't even go and see who he is if he has a name which I can't recall.
• China
30 Mar 12
of cause i did but i combine my name and my english name together cause it is easy for my friend find me
• Indonesia
30 Mar 12
Oh so you actually have two name, the local one and the english one. From what country do you come from, from what i know, usually china people have two name like you are talk about. Please tell us more about that my friend. have a nice and happy day Catherineyang.
• Indonesia
31 Mar 12
Well thanks Catherineyang, just as thought. Well you have a very interesting culture. In my country, china people also have two name. One is the China Name, the other is my country name. But usually people called them using their china name, since it was what their family use to call them.
• China
30 Mar 12
Haha you are excellent exactly i am from china my facebook or Email adress are the same So my Chinese friends call me Yang and Others call me Catherine Anyway have a nice day (-_-)zzz
• India
29 Mar 12
All my relatives and close friends know my nick name, so I made my facebook account with my nickname. Whenever I send a friend request to any school mate, I message them my school name so that they can recognize me and accept my request. Now all my class fellows who are in my friend list know my nickname also.
• Indonesia
30 Mar 12
Oh i see, i know some people actually more known by other by their nick name instead of their real name. This is true, especially for those who still in school. People in school was famous because their nick name instead of their real name, but this is rarely happened in office or work environment.
• India
31 Mar 12
Yeah that's true! In offices and at work places people are known only by their real names.
• Indonesia
1 Apr 12
Well although most of the time it is true, but there is some cases where people know a person in office by their nick names. This usually happened because the nick name is very interesting, or the one who has the nick name really use them to introduce themselves to other.
@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 12
I was used to using my real name as I made facebook purely for finding old friends and stuff. but I changed it to name my new friends know me. they will find it easier to find me with my nickname instead of my real names. as for my old friends, those who still keep in touch with me knows that it is me. as for the rest I don't really. but yeah I know what you mean by some people use strange names that are not their nickname well, worse, instead of name I thought it was a sentence lol.
• Indonesia
1 Apr 12
Oh so you are one of the person whose more popular with the nick name than the real name, kyrararen. I know what you mean about people who use strange names, and i also seen a lot of people ( mostly young people in high school ) using sentence as their name. Thanks for sharing this with us.
• Indonesia
4 Apr 12
yup that't correct. I am the one who is more popular with nick name than my real name (even though I must say that my real name is easier to remember). since I use it a lot in different occasions. that;s why my buddies will find me easier with it.
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
Nope. Even since when I started signing facebook, I give no information to my name, address and work. The only correct information I posted is my birth date but I still hid this one on my profile. My friends know me well but to those old friends whose looking for me, they can't find me. But on the other hand, I will be the one to find them, if I can remember. I even don't have my own picture in the album. This is just my way of telling that I don't entertain strangers, only friends.
• Indonesia
1 Apr 12
Oh i see. Well using fake name and using not your picture, it usually end up in reject when you add a person. I usually reject people who i don't know their name and don't recognize their picture. Off course you need to sent message to them first before you add them, but usually they will have to investigate first to see who you really are.
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
At first I used my real name but later on when friend requests flooded in my notifications, even those I do not know were adding me. So later when I feel that my old long lost friends were on my friend list I changed my name in to a nick. :-)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 12
Oh i see, well if the one who add you is those who you don't know, then it most likely they add you not because of your real name. It might have something to do with your other profile. Mostly people who added other take interest in the profile picture, maybe you should change your profile picture instead.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
4 Apr 12
Yes I use my own name in facebook but friend why you are asking this you want hacked my account or to make me as friend. I not use nick name but since my account was hacked I changed my profile name and now there I not use real name.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
2 Apr 12
I, like you, on Facebook I use my real name and surname. Since I have nothing to hide, I find it quite absurd to use the nickname, on the social networking world number 1. That said, however, I see that there are still people who want to hide behind a nickname, instead of use their own name. That said then, each free to do as he prefers!
• Indonesia
3 Apr 12
Well i don't think it is really absurd to use fake name or nick name, although i agree if they use strange character name that it's hard to read and cannot be understand what the meaning is. Every people have their own reason to not use their real name in facebook.
@aghiuta (525)
• Canada
30 Mar 12
I use my real name,since i am interested to connect with people I know,and that are too far away to visit with.I only accept that kind of friendship requests.I managed to reconnect with old schoolmates and members of the swim community from my old country. If some people use fake names ,too bad,can't contact them...
• Indonesia
31 Mar 12
Well yes, using fake name will make you hard to find when they search you using facebook search. Using real name, on the other hand will make it easier for old friend, people from the past, even current friend, to met you on facebook. Thanks for your respond friend.
• Indonesia
4 Apr 12
not, and I think it is not enjoined to wear the actual name on facebook .. :-)
• Indonesia
4 Apr 12
What do you mean about it is not enjoined to wear the actual name on facebook? Can you tell me more about what that meant. it seem i don't really understand what you said. Maybe because i don't really understand english very well. Please share it with us my friend.