i am here for her

@verolop29 (1096)
United States
March 30, 2012 8:20am CST
I saw my friend last night for the first time in a week and she has a lot going on for her which isn't good. I tried talking to her but she never txt back so last night my daughters and i went to their house because her girls were out for the whole school week-they're going back to school today. the reason why she kept them out was for their best interst, their abusive father wants to take them away from her and he is a bad man. this friend of mine told me some of the things he did to one of them while her twin sister was in the NICU nick-u..and its something no baby should ever go thru. she filed for divorce and now he is raving mad. i am scared for her and i am scared for myself. the police knows about him and what to look out for and i hope that that is enough to keep him away.
3 responses
@shooie (4989)
• United States
30 Mar 12
If she hasn't already she needs to file a restraining order. Be there if she needs you but don't but in unless you are asked. Just remember if he is that mad and you get involved without your friend asking you to you put your family at risk as well. Stay safe and prayers to your friend. Tell her to reach out to her family for help as well. I know there are also shelters that take in women and children.
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
30 Mar 12
yes friend she has done that and she told the authorties that he is a know killer(he's in the Army) so they are prepared. today we are looking for pepper spray. i will keep that in mind-to not butt in-! she lives with her family and they know. they also which is a good thing live right across the street to a cop. so everything seems to be ok
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
30 Mar 12
thanks for the prayers friend, they are always welcome!
30 Mar 12
thats awful! hope everything goes ok for your friend and her kids!
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
31 Mar 12
thanks! there is a lot more terrible things he did to them as infints but its so bad i cant bring myself to write about it...
@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
This is really bad! I hope for your friend's safety. It is better to have other guys who can stay with them and protect them from the abusive father. I hope police will have their job done in here. It's hard to have such family issues like this and you know how the father can hurt you loved ones.
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
31 Mar 12
It is awfull and i do feel for her. She is very jumpy and wont let her kids out of her site until she was sure about their saftey. I dont blame her though..if my spouse was in the military-like her- i wouldn't want him anywhere near them if he shows signs of being mentaly not there. I have heard stories of ppl going thru just what she is going thru but his case is a little different. he doesn't want help. and she has tried to help him several times, he just doesn't want it.