How often you call and text your lover or spouse?

United States
April 5, 2012 8:37pm CST
That just make me envy my co - worker, she married her husband for over 10 years as she mentioned. Every break time, or whenever she got a chance, she will text her husband, or call her husband "what's up". That just romantic, I don't see much of it from couples who married over 10 years. So, I was curious ask her how many times she actually call or text her husband per day? She told me that at least 10 times text or more, and 3 to 5 times calls. Her husband just want to hear her voice sometimes. That is amazing. So, even you are not married, but in love with someone currently, how often you text or call your love? You call because you want to hear her/his voice or you text because you want to know what they are doing?
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19 responses
@cloud31 (5811)
6 Apr 12
Not so often but we usually talk over the net.Sometimes we exchanging call when we are free but not so often as we speaks over the net.Its more convenient cost less and more convenient.
@annavi23 (6306)
• Philippines
8 Apr 12
Hmmm... so you have a partner now, huh? I hope the best for you dear!
@ehlsie27 (49)
• Philippines
6 Apr 12
I think people who are really inlove with each other are like that. Some people say calling or texting each other so often makes them fed up. However, I don't believe in that view. I think if someone is truly inlove, it doesn't matter how many times you call or see each other. It's just every time you the person you love, you will feel that your love is renewed.
@Jotomy (6351)
• India
8 Apr 12
I will get very rare call from him, i feel sad sometimes. If i want to give a call i get afraid to do so. But always thinking about him. What he will be doing whether he had meals in time or is he busy in his work and so on. If he makes a call i feel so happy.
@asliah (11148)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
hi, i envy my co-worker because his boyfriend always called her and text her time to time,i wish my boyfriend do the same thing to me,sometimes when my boyfriend didn't call or even text me i one day,i will feel anger and disappointed to him.
@rashme317 (250)
• Philippines
16 May 12
. hmm we communicate many times a day ,specially when we're both not busy with our works, we call each other just to say i love you , kididng ,we just want to hear each others voice , :)
@sk66rc (4261)
• United States
23 Apr 12
My girl friend & I talk to each other when we need to... I don't like disturbing her at her work & vise versa... I work retail so I don't have regular hours... Sometimes I'm working when she's off & she's working when I'm off... I'll text her if I'm going out or something & that's that... She'll do the same... We'll talk when I get home or when she gets home...
@syoti20 (5295)
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
We texted each other and make a call when one of us already reach our home. So that we are informed if one of us already safe from danger of the streets. You can never tell when and where things might go wrong. So we try to be alert as much as possible.
@Cherish14 (2695)
• Philippines
7 Apr 12
hi there, my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 years now and we still call and text each other as much as we can. he is in the states right now and so we always try to communicate with each other, and yeah just to hear each others voice makes our day already hehehe. we sometimes call or message each other to check up on each other. we are planning to get married maybe in 2 years and i hope everything goes well and even better.
@Cherish14 (2695)
• Philippines
7 Apr 12
hi there, my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 years now and we still call and text each other as much as we can. he is in the states right now and so we always try to communicate with each other, and yeah just to hear each others voice makes our day already hehehe. we sometimes call or message each other to check up on each other. we are planning to get married maybe in 2 years and i hope everything goes well and even better.
• Japan
7 Apr 12
Hi kingparker, Me and hubby do the same way too. We actually text to each other the whole day and on lunch time we exchange call to hear each other's voice. It is romantic that way because you get to update each of you and talk like a bfgf too.
7 Apr 12
If my partner is at work or out somewhere I really only call her if I need to ask her something. Same goes when shes here and im out or working or whatever. We don't feel we need to talk every spare second we have. To be honest if she called me 10 times a day it would probably annoy me after a while when the 'cute' factor wore off. When she goes home to visit her grandmother or mother I will usually call her more often to make sure shes alright and to ask how her family is, what shes doing that day etc. I haven't went home with her yet, shes originally from Bulgaria. But thats due to me not seeing her in person, being able to touch her and so on. Sure hearing her voice is a bonus but even just talking about how the weather in Bulgaria is is just as fun
@cutepenguin (6457)
• Canada
6 Apr 12
My husband and I call or text maybe once or twice per day. More if we actually have something to say, but sometimes just to check in. We see each other a lot because we have unusual work schedules so we don't do as much texting as we could.
• Slovenia
6 Apr 12
we text each other 3 times or 2 times a day, he's got quite a busy schedule, works from mornings to 10pm, so we barely get much time to talk, so it would be mornings, sometimes afternoons and evening, just telling eachother what we're doing and of course not forgetting how much we love each other. Though its a long distance relationship, so obviously that's key to our relationship pretty much - communication.
• United States
6 Apr 12
I rarely ever call or text my boyfriend because right now he is looking for a job and he doesn't have a cell phone. We talk to each other a lot on Facebook.
@inklady (28)
• United States
6 Apr 12
OMG. This gal needs to get a grip. Calling 1x a day is pushing it, but 10x or more - This woman needs to pickup a book called Co-Dependent No More!
@Extourmed (191)
• Bulgaria
6 Apr 12
Well when I read this discussion I thought about my mother and father at the moment. My father's 63 and my mother's 58. They got married when my mom was 18 years old - that means they're married for 40 years. And I couldn't not know that they call each other like 10 times a day and maybe 5 of this 10 times they call each other just to hear what the other is doing. I think that's very impressive and romantic if you add the fact that they're married for 40 years, because that isn't slightly at all. Other romantic thing I knowtice about them is that when my father's at night shifts my mother always call's him 3 or 4 times before she goes to sleep just to chat with him because she knows that he's really bored at this middle of the night because he's a security at one place. That's true love I guess :) .
@yanzalong (10171)
• Indonesia
6 Apr 12
That depends on the distance. If I am very far away from her,I will definitely send her many SMSes. My kid smsed me often times when I was out of town for several days.
• Philippines
6 Apr 12
Me and my husband always together but when he goes somewhere else or just like what you said if we girls have a chance to tex, we really send a message. Just like me, i used to send message to my husband, once i send a message i really want an answer right away if i know he's not busy but when he's at work i know when i could send a mesage. Thank God my husband understands me and he don't get annoyed to received alot of messages from me lol
@ShyBear88 (18618)
• United States
6 Apr 12
Before me and my husband where married we texted it every chance that we got. I don't really like talking on the phone because normally I'm way to busy to talk because I was working so it was easier to text between doing things and the same for my husband. I never counted how many times we text year other every day since we got together but I know its a lot. Most days its about 3 times or more after we got married because of the fact my husband now has a different job where he can't use the phone that office since well he is on his work phone and only gets 3 breaks a day and some times he works through two of for extra money. But he always sends me every day I love my ladies. Some times he'll just ask who our daughter or all 3 of us since I'm pregnant. Its nice to get those messages every day it tells me that he is one wanting to know how my day is and also because he really cares and love me so much he doesn't like to go with out knowing what might be going on.
• United States
6 Apr 12
I call him over ten times a a day. We talk for hours as well.