Starting a discussion

@Seppy1984 (2145)
United States
April 6, 2012 6:44am CST
Well this topic is on what do you do when you start a discussion? I respond to discussions for a reason. They are very interesting and when they relate to my life or when I can help them out. Well how do you feel when you respond to someones discussion and you worked so hard to give them your tips and ideas or figure you can give them what happened to you that is related to their discussion in hopes of helping them but yet they never come back to their discussion to respond to everyone's comments or to even do updates on their discussion? I feel like sometimes maybe my opinion and the others who responded isn't worth a cent to them. When you start a discussion do you respond to people's responses or do you let your discussion just go free without checking on it? I like to come back to my discussions as often as possible, although I will say I'm not a saint at it. I have started a few where I kept going back to the discussions and then stop in the middle of responding to everyone. I do try very hard to give each individual a response because I want them to know I appreciate their time and hard work on a response to my discussion. Are there other Mylotters out there that are like me and tries to respond to people's responses on their discussions?
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
7 Apr 12
Well, a lot of times when I am starting a New discussion here it is about something I have recently been experiencing and wanting to share with others, or from things going on around the world I felt worth sharing, or sometimes just some random thoughts. I love being able to communicate with people from all over the world and share in their life, and they share in mine. I feel it is one of the Best places on the internet ever.
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@Seppy1984 (2145)
• United States
7 Apr 12
Thats about when I start discussions too, I have to say so far I think my best one even though there was not alot of responses would be the one I started about Facebook and Teachers. I too feel this is one of the best places on the internet because its nice being able to communicate with others and making great friends along the way. The earning extra knowledge is a big time plus too when your in need of advice or in need of wanting to help others with advice.
@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
7 Apr 12
I'm new here, but I have responded to a few discussions where no one has commented back on MY comment. I think it would be nice if people came back to their discussions to respond to as many people as they can. The only reason I feel that a person does not come back to their comment is because maybe a person does NOT get paid "just" for commenting and doesn't want to waste their time. Otherwise, why put a discussion out there only to have people comment, and then not bother to come back and check it. Maybe people are only interested in starting discussions because starting discussions "pays" better? (I don't know anything about the pay, like I said, I just started.) Does mylot "alert" a person in some kind of way when another comment has been posted on their discussion? If mylot DOES "alert" that there is a new comment to a persons' discussion, then to me it seems kind of rude not to come back over and over again and respond to the comments. I mean, what is more important than that, starting ANOTHER discussion that you are not going to pay attention to? Or that you are only going to pay attention to for a few days, and then forget all about THAT discussion and move on to the NEXT one? I just don't get it. I have seen discussions that are MONTHS old that I want to respond to, but it seems like no one comes back and checks on them, so it would be a waste of my time to put all that energy into responding to something that may not even get read.
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@Seppy1984 (2145)
• United States
7 Apr 12
Hello, welcome to mylot!. I too think it would be nice if people did comment back on their discussions even if they only have time to do a few responding. Mylot does alert you of any responses left on your discussion through email, but I at times wonder if people make an email account just to sign up for places that can earn ya money and never go back to their email. I on the other hand just got back into mylot about a month ago because I did not have any internet but I was able to check my email though my phone and I have a special folder in my email noted as mylot. Which is where I have about another 700 discussions I can comment on. I try to do that at least once a day with doing 2 discussions in that folder. You are very right on the wasting time part but you could always respond in the hopes of maybe another responder commenting on your response. I have done that many times through a discussion I never wrote. If lets say you responded in the same discussion I did and your response caught my eye and I liked your responses I will first leave my response to the discussion starter and then come back to your response and leave a response to your response. As for earning I'm gonna jump off the high edge and say you make so much for starting the discussion but I wanna say the real earning is from responding and commenting back! Oh another big plus that needs to be remembered is also quality and quantity. Which seems that you do great with both and also another big tip that helps when responding trying to keep the response at least first relating to the discussion which I feel you did a great job at . All in all I hope this all helps you out in the learning of the earning part. Now back to the main part, I agree there is no sense of starting a discussion especially one where your asking advice and such and never come back or to even come back and never respond. I mean really how do we know if any the tips or advice helped if there's no responses. I have to say if people learned what this site is all about then we would have it made because then we could all help each other in everyday life problems.
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
6 Apr 12
If you research the profiles of people who habitually never come back to comment in their own discussions, you will usually find that their main purpose in being here is to "make money". It is very sad to see so many people who clearly have NO idea what MyLot is and how it works. It is quite true, of course, that YOUR opinions and those of the others who responded aren't worth a cent to them (at least, as far as earnings are concerned). What they fail to understand is that they will ONLY earn anything worthwhile if they come back and comment on (and thus show their appreciation of) your opinions. To be honest, it doesn't usually worry me too much when people don't come back and comment on my responses. It's their loss, not mine, and, besides, many other people may also read and appreciate what I wrote ... in fact, it has happened many times that someone else has commented favourably! In my own discussions, I will comment on nearly all the responses but I do tend to ignore those where the person clearly hasn't made any attempt at a quality response or where they are simply repeating - I don't mean copying, of course - what others have said.
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@Seppy1984 (2145)
• United States
6 Apr 12
I never thought of researching profiles of the people who habitually never came back. You just gave me a great idea. I too don't respond to others who don't attempt to make a good quality response. Its hard to respond to those type of people. The way I see it, money making is the icing on the cake...lol. I enjoy Mylot itself and honestly even if they didn't pay or never did I would still come to mylot because its great to make friends and communicate on everyday life topics.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
7 Apr 12
Well, i think no matter in raising a new discussion, or respond to others' posts, we all should have a reason. Or else, we can only write out some meaningless, low quality posts, don't you think so. Of course, some people want to earn more here with large guatities of posts, therefore, they try their best to responde as many discussions as they can, and they often raise some meaningless topics. But i think most mylotters are not this kind of people. And most posts are worthy raising and discussing.
@Seppy1984 (2145)
• United States
7 Apr 12
I like both of your responses, I gotta say I always try to start meaningful discussions. Also I will admit sometimes I get bored and just wanna talk with someone so if something pops into my head that I think will get a discussion going with someone on here I will post it. Also I have to say saumitraawasthy has a very good point. If you don't comment on your discussions then it is nothing. I like commenting because of the reason of getting everyone's opinions on the topic. Also aprilsong has a great point too that most posts are worthy of raising and discussing. I just wish I could become of more interest in more topics here.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
6 Apr 12
I agree with you! People are missing a lot when they never check back to read the responses to their post. Usually There is more to my discussion than I can put in the post, so I look forward to the responses, hoping that I get a chance to broaden the topic and to expand my views somewhat.
@Seppy1984 (2145)
• United States
6 Apr 12
Thats my reasoning too also to come back, cause if you were to keep typing and make your discussion super long then no one will wanna read it. Now if you keep it medium length but very detailed then you will get responses and then when you comment you then can continue more on to what they said and onto what else you wanted to post.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
6 Apr 12
When I start a discussion it is always my intention to comment on every single response, but sometimes it takes me a long time to get back to everyone. I have started discussions where I have only written comments on the first pages. I still didn't manage to comment on the responses on the last pages, but I intend to get back to those discussions and finish the comments. Some people only start one discussion and finish all the comments before they start the next one. I often start more than one discussion at the same time, and sometimes I am not able to keep up with all of the responses, and it takes me a long time to get back to everyone. I enjoy commenting on the responses, it is a chance to get to know people better and discuss the details of the topic. I think that it would be boring to start a discussion and just leave it without comments.
@Seppy1984 (2145)
• United States
6 Apr 12
I agree it would be boring, I tend to try to do one discussion a day because of my slack of having enough time to comment back to everyone! So this way with one discussion up I have more of a chance of responding to each and every comment. I too enjoy commenting back on responses for the same reasons that you have. In fact I have made many new friends that way. I just love Mylot its the best place to be able to communicate with people.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
6 Apr 12
I try to do this as well sometimes. If the response is really well put or something I agree with. Although I don't always get around to doing this. . Happy MyLotting!
@Seppy1984 (2145)
• United States
6 Apr 12
I try to so hard although I will say sometimes I have the habit of starting like 2 or 3 discussions at once and that's when I run into the problem of trying to keep up with all of them especially if each discussion ends up with like 4 or more responses each. Now I'm trying to stick to one discussion at a time or till it seems that the one discussion doesn't get anymore responses.