My last night with mama

@pahak627 (4198)
Philippines
April 8, 2012 6:08am CST
It was a night that I wish I had extended my stay with her. It was about 6:00 o’clock in the evening when I went to my parents’ house for my daily routine to help my sister change mama’s clothes. The oxygen regulator was on her so I asked what happened Mama and my sister answered that she had a little difficulty in breathing in the afternoon of that day. Then they took the regulator and let her ate. Then after that, we changed her diaper and clothes. We observed that she was so weak and when we rolled her over while changing she can’t carry her arms. She was really weak. We really didn’t know that it was already her last night. If I just knew, I would had been with her until her last breath. I was even surprised that when I was informed I just took it calmly as if I had expected it. Until now, as if nothing happened. I could not believe but right in front of us Mama is inside her coffin. Lord, please take her to your kingdom.
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Apr 12
My condolences my friend. Sad to know that your mother passed away. I felt the same feeling when my mother also passed away, we back 4 years ago. I can't believe when I received a call from my father. If we returned back the time, the words you said I also did, to spent my time with her.
@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
9 Apr 12
hi julyteen, thanks and glad that you're back in mylot. How are you?
@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Apr 12
Little bit busy at the moment because I almost finish my contract here and I don't want to continue for another years. I decided to make an exit of the country although my Boss want me to stay. How many time they ask me and offer something but not enough for my experience and educational background. End of this month I will be in the Philippines once again.
@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
7 May 12
hi julyteen, it's already four weeks that passed. I guess you're already in the Philippines or maybe you already returned to the mid east already.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
Sorry to read about your mother. My deep condolence to you. You are lucky that at least until last day you were with her. Her memories will remain with you forever.
@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
Yes, her memories remain, wherever she is now she will always remain in my heart.
@litvillegas (1275)
• Philippines
14 Aug 12
Hello pahak627 I'm so sad to hear that. My condolences.. Loosing someone you love is not really easy.. I wanna share this Bible text to you hope you will be comforted by our Sovereign God's promise. "All those in the memorial tombs will.. come out"- John 5:28,29. Don't hide your feelings to your friends. Let them know that you are totally hurt. They can give you all their supports. Pray for strength and surely God will help you all the way..
@laken02 (3067)
• United States
9 Apr 12
i am so sorry for your loss.. i lost my father in 1999. and it was very rought for me for a couple of year until i got use to the idea then every year it got easier i still miss him to this day.. but he is in a better place and i hope to meet him there one day and it will be a great reunion as i have not only a dad in heaven uncles, aunts. grandparents and friends... so what a day that will be .. blessings to you and your family, once again sorry for you loss..
@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
Thanks. Yes they are already in a better place prepared by our Lord for them. At least they already rested in peace. No more pains.
• United States
9 Apr 12
i'm sorry for your loss. i'm sure God heard your prayer. let that give you comfort in yor time of grief. just remember the good times you had with your mother.
@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
9 Apr 12
Thanks and Yes, I will always remember the good times that I had with my mom.
@Archaiwy (599)
• China
9 Apr 12
My mother hasn passed away.And i have been regretful till now. Exactly, i didn't attend to my mother in her last days. I thought she was healthy and she would live for more years.But i was mistaken.i couldn't forgive myself.I ask Lord to forgive me.I would be kind to others.
@pacobid (71)
• China
9 Apr 12
I am really to hear that your mother slept away.Gob bless you.
@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
9 Apr 12
thank you.
@maezee (32570)
• United States
8 Apr 12
I'm so sorry about your loss. It's never easy, I know that. My condolensces...
@pahak627 (4198)
• Philippines
9 Apr 12
thank you.yes it's not easy.
@else22 (4319)
• India
8 Apr 12
You reminded me of the last night of my mother.I can the pain you have been undergoing after your mother departed from you.I am telling you about the last night of my mother.She had been on bed for eight days and her condition was worsening day by day.On the night of June 7,2006 she was unable to talk,turn sides on bed and turn her neck.She was just staring at us with her tired,wrinkled eyes.My younger sister cleaned her mouth.Suddenly we heard gargling of cough in her throat and I asked her to spit it immediately.She did not,because she could not.After asking her repeatedly to spit the cough,I threatened her that I would leave home for ever.I was not at all aware of her inability to lower her head and spit.She looked at me angrily.My younger sister let her on her bed and soon she was fast asleep.I was thinking that she was fast asleep,but the truth was that she had gone into coma.The next day she left us and the world for ever at 4 pm.