One night stand

Malaysia
April 10, 2012 2:44am CST
This guy really weird and asked me out to talk about my decision for one night stand. I did not go out and I reply him with the answer why? He said he never tastes older woman before, I am 31, therefore he said if I want, then he can make me happy in one night. I totally rejected this guy who want to take advantage of me. I am glad I am doing the right thing.
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25 responses
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
wow, that guy is really weird. he has a thick face to ask you for a one night stand. if i was in your place i might have slapped him on the face. lol! if he wants to taste an older woman, he should just went to clubs and find one. lol! It's good that you rejected that guy. he just wants to experience how to make love with an older woman not to get into a serious relationship.
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• Malaysia
10 Apr 12
Yeah, this guy is very cunning, I might say, he mention earlier that he don't want to responsible, its just one night stand, no money, no gifts for doing with him. What the ****?
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• Philippines
10 Apr 12
maybe that guy is just playing cards with girls! no responsibilities? What kind of man is he? he just lives for s**.
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@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
He's not a guy.. he's a little boy. :)
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
Hahahahahha That was weird! If it was me, I will tell him OK let's meet up and will bring friends with me and bust his balls. hehehhe Nah, that's dangerous. You did the right thing that you rejected the guy.
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@nicegilr (214)
10 Apr 12
you should not broke the heart ..
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• Malaysia
10 Apr 12
Broke the heart of who? Me?
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@almond24 (1250)
• Hungary
10 Apr 12
I agree it's weird. It can be annoying that he asked you out for one night, but remember it's just how he sees the world. Probably an immature guy who wants to experience. At least he was honest enough to tell you what he wanted, it's good you made the right decision.
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@almond24 (1250)
• Hungary
10 Apr 12
He could actually avoid sexually transmitted diseases and HIV if he wanted to, but judging by his attitude there is a big chance that he doesn't care about it.
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@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
Oh my gosh! There's no greater insult for me than to be asked for a one night stand! I mean, do I look that desperate???! It was good that you shoved him off like that else I wouldn't have any self-respect for you anymore!! Whew! Those men just give me the rage to cut off their privates! hehehehe... Anyhow, I have my fair share of experience of being offered that before. Though the reason was never because I was older. But mostly because they thought I was yummy and would like to take me for a ride! Duh, there were even some who offered money for a few hours of 'being' with me. I would also shove them off by telling them that I'd pay them more if they'd just leave me alone. I would also go ranting and insulting them until they are too humiliated to stay beside me. I don't think these boys should be tolerated. I think they're the diseases of this world and the main reason why sexually-transmitted diseases are spreading like wildfire. It's up to us 'mature' ladies to zip them up and let them live their sorry lives. Good for you! Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
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• Malaysia
10 Apr 12
Yes. By posting my discussion here, I can know different opinions and views from mylotters about this incident. The whole idea of getting me into the trap is troubling me some days ago. Thanks fellow mylotters for your comments. Very appreciated.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
talk about being thick! why would he do that? wow. amazing.
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@Extourmed (191)
• Bulgaria
10 Apr 12
Well, I think that if your thinking about the offer, you may think about reconsider it. We're all human and s*x is a human act, so don't think you're doing something wrong, if you're single, why shouldn't you had one night for yourself. Night that will make you take all the pressure out and just enjoy it. The decision is yours and know that whatever you do you're doing the right thing. Hope I had been useful.Good Luck.
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@toniganzon (49922)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
He wanted someone older? Tell him to ask me instead! Just kidding. I've never had any one night stand experience and I'm really curious what happens after that. Do we say thank you and never ask for each other's number. Or just leave in the middle of the night? That guy sure had a lot of guts to ask you if you're into it. I've been invited at a bar by one man but it was very subtle. He just asked me to visit his room if I wanted to. No discussions of what we will do there but of course it's understood.
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@alberello (4755)
• Italy
10 Apr 12
Well, I must say that sometimes people do some of the strange reasoning. The fact that this guy has to please go with someone like you, after all, still does not surprise me that much. I am a man of 37 years. I never had any romantic relationships and probably at times I also feel to be gay. This does not create any problem for me. Anyway, back to talk about your case, how come you gave a flat refusal to this person?
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@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
10 Apr 12
I have to admit the boy is bold, but a little disrespectful towards you. Take it from a guy, a guy you agree to have a one night stand with will probably(and I'm not saying "definitely" because I have a flexible mind)never respect you, maybe just maybe he will be nice to you but never respect you. At least I wouldn't. I would probably enjoy it but I could never trust or be with a woman who agrees with that. If it happens at a party after drinks and whatnot we can talk about it and see how do both of us stand with it. I don't mean to offend you or anything, if you are looking just for fun and nothing else you can go with it, but if you want respect from him I suggest you stick to your decision.
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• India
10 Apr 12
If I was in such a condition as your brother I will surely give the ones what he need and I will make him, never to ask such things to girls and I will teach him the power and the courage of an brother. I am sure that he will never do it again
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• India
10 Apr 12
This kind of things are bad for todays women and soundsll very discouraging and every step must be taken on the part of women to so that they may not fall inw tgem trap of crazy dogp
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• Malaysia
10 Apr 12
wow, what a silly and rude kid that you met. there are many kid nowaday asking for one night stand via internet, especially from skype also. when you see someone you don't know adding you through the social network, you have not to add them to you, because they are weird enough. i met a guy too via skype, also asking me about those thing, it is so curious to want to know, what is actually in their brain? haha =) if want to find someone to try out the feeling, just go to those nightclub and look for them, but not from internet. if they still hunting around the internet, just hope that they will meet someone terrible from internet, lol^^
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@blake4d (13)
• United States
10 Apr 12
It sounds like you did the right thing, and did right by yourself. Good job.
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@ybong007 (6659)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
That guy deserved a slap on the face. Asking women their age is rude so referring 31 year old woman as old should be considered an insult.
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@laken02 (3067)
• United States
11 Apr 12
i agree totaly one night stand are very bad, and niw that im older i know what i want in a man.. if my hubby ever leaves me.. i will be very picky as to whom i even date as well becasue i dont have time now to filter out all the losers as i love being married and settled down .. so i would never do that .. good thing you got morals.. and it shows have a great day and good luck in the future
• Malaysia
11 Apr 12
hey, you are good too! How are your health now?
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@laken02 (3067)
• United States
11 Apr 12
happy  - making friends makes me happy
well thanks for asking, my bi polar is doing good for me i find if i stay busy i can control it better then if i set and feel sorry for myself and then i get all depressed and that starts a cycle of lows and i dont want to live or participate in life things so now im super busy with house work and my lot and starting a new job on wekends so im good there and my othe rhealth issues is due to bad eating and not enought good stuff for iron as i keep low iron.. have a great day..
• Malaysia
11 Apr 12
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
13 Apr 12
Wow, it was really bold of that guy to say that all that he was looking for was a one night stand and I think that you were definitely right to reject his proposal. I know for me, I've been around the block a few times in my heyday (that would have been when I was between the ages of 19 and 21), but there was never a time that I jumped into bed with someone thinking that it would be a one night stand. I only actually ever had one of those and it wasn't my choice to never see the guy again.
12 Apr 12
thats disgusting. i'm glad you told him no!!
@champoy186 (1638)
• Philippines
12 Apr 12
Good job you didn't accept his invitation. You had a good decision for yourself. Have a nice day!
• China
12 Apr 12
wow,What a crazy guy you have met,you made a right decision.