Do you notice about age when you love?

Vietnam
April 13, 2012 10:18pm CST
When you fall in love, do you notice about age of your girl/boy friend? I see that nowsaday, age is not important when they love each other. Most because true love and other is have diferent purpose such as: money, assets, to revenge... What do you think about that?
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
16 Apr 12
Age should not be a factor, but it does cause problems sometimes. If you are in love with someone that is ten years older then you are, those ten years are a big difference in how each of you view the world. Sometimes it works out and other times it does not. But true love is true love.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
19 Apr 12
But all in all, there is someone for each and everyone of us.
• Vietnam
17 Apr 12
Yes, true love is not deicate age.
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• India
16 Apr 12
Hello friend, Yes I notice that everytime. Lets casual friend its so important. And try to notice that. A long age different relationship is sutiable on tv. Nice to meet you.
• Vietnam
16 Apr 12
Nice to meet you! Could you become my friend. I will send you a friend request. You and I are casual friend? LOL Thank for your post. Have a nice day!
• Vietnam
16 Apr 12
LOL, you and I already have become friend.
• India
16 Apr 12
Hello friend, Yes my friend we are allready friends. Have a nice day.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 Apr 12
i think age nowadays should not matter much in the society - when it comes to love, when it comes to work or career building. it does not matter what your age is really because nowadays, people are more open to the idea of what true happiness is... happiness is not about building or leaving a family of your own when you die. its about finding happiness in anything.
• Vietnam
16 Apr 12
I think that when we fall in love we should care a liiter of age. Because if we love a man or woman too old and he/she die when we are young, it is very bad. LOL Thank for your reply. Have a nice day!
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
16 Apr 12
I don't think age really matter in Love. There are so many couples in this world where man is almost the double age of the lady and even younger man has got married with the lady who is elder to her after falling in love with each other. It is the understanding and both liking each other, with confidence and faith on each other plays the importance role in their love.
• Vietnam
16 Apr 12
Yes, many couple have deep difference age but they fall in love with each other and then they married and have a happy life. But with me, i will care littler about age when i chose my girl friend. Thank for your post. Have a nice day!
• China
15 Apr 12
I will a little focus on the age ,I like to choose husband some years older than me or around my age ,but of course I still think true love is no age boundary, but m life is simple I will not meet some person 30years older than me and will have some resonance with me ,they of course have wife. My husband is 1year older than me , but I know some people they married with people 10years distance or more ,they are still happy. So I think it dose not matter about the age ,if you two are truely love ,you can go to marriage hall. Money ,assets ,maybe we should not consider it too much ,mention to revenge ,I think people should forgive and stand in a step back and the broad sky. wish Jack shall have Jill.
• Vietnam
16 Apr 12
Yes I agree that age is not important but I care alittle a bout my girl friend age. Ofcouse true love is not dedicate about age. Thank for your reply. Have a nice day!
• China
15 Apr 12
Well,emotionally,i do not think age is a problem between the love.However it is undeniable that age does cause many problem:experience,values,and even the friend group,etc.,which may cause the problem between each other.
• Vietnam
16 Apr 12
yes, I think that age is not matter but two person if they have deep diference about age, they will have many thing diferent like you talk: experience, values...and it í hard to they share with each other. Thank for your reply.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
hi, yes indeed, nowadays people never thinking of the age of their lover,regardless if your lover is younger than you or even elder than you,because when you feel love you will never notice the age because the important is the love what you feel to each other and of course the respect too even both of you have different ages.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
15 Apr 12
I will consider if a boy friend is too old for me, i mean the different of age is bigger than 18. Of course, when being in love, age is not really important, but i only look for love for marriage, then i have to think about later. The different of age is too big, it means, two person living in two generation, then the thinking, life style, ..are so different and it is not easy to be suitable when living in one house. However, it is my opinion only. if you guys fall in love with one who is too old with you, i always wish you guys a happiness life...^^
• Vietnam
16 Apr 12
Yes, I do the same if a girl friend too old for me. Yes, I agree that age is not important as your feel, your love... Thank for your reply.
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
Hello friend, when you inlove to someone no matter what age your partner the important is they love each other and all the problems they come the solution for that is so easy to both partners inlove.
• Vietnam
14 Apr 12
yes, love is not discriminate age your partner. But i don't think that nomal if a man about 20 love a woman about 60. LOL have a nice day, my friend!
14 Apr 12
Love has nothing to do with age. But I always aware about age when I think about to love someone, because age has the impact to the mindset of experienced.
• Vietnam
16 Apr 12
Yes, i agree that age is not important factor in love. But we must care littler about age when we chose a boy/girl friend because diferent age make different expierence, Thank for your reply.
• Philippines
15 Apr 12
Well for me age doesn't really Matter at all. It's a matter of maturity levels and how you feel, care, love, understand and how comfortable for each other that's all that matter most and loving the person unconditionally that all really matters at all.
• Vietnam
16 Apr 12
Yws, I agree with you that age is not matter. I care about apperance, feel, care, love like you. But i care little about age. lol
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
14 Apr 12
I don't. Of course everyone have their preferences, but it's not like they monitor everyone's ages if they only get together with people who are of the same age. I myself see myself being attracted to guys 8-10 years older than me. One can make ideologies about it (that I'm really mature for my age or I need a big brother type boyfriend and other stuff), but I think it's the way I am :).
• Vietnam
16 Apr 12
Yes, you have notice about your boy friend, and i agree with you. What you think if you become girl friend of a man who is as old as your grandfather? (Just kidding.) Have a nice day!
@yuriyang (70)
• United States
14 Apr 12
I agree that age gap don't matter at all as long as there is a deep connection to it.
• Vietnam
14 Apr 12
Thank for your reply. Have a nice day.
@superbadx (484)
• Malaysia
14 Apr 12
Well, this is my most honest opinion. Most girls do not care about age, in ascending or is sweet talker, money, and appearance. While most guys actually care is the appearance of the girl. But there is a percentage of people, girls and guys that really do care about love. They search for someone who cares about them, dedicated to their relationship, and all the love stuff. But for me, the love stuff and the appearance stuff is really 2 different things. But to answer your question about the age, no one is actually thinking about it because it is not that important. To live in the world nowadays, we need money. For satisfaction we would need the appearance. Where's the age would fit in this world ?
• Vietnam
16 Apr 12
Yes a agree with you! Age is not important when a person in love. They care about appearance, money and sweet talker. That mean a person who have good apperance, sweet talker and much money have deep attraction? Have a nice day!
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
I think it's still better if we're someone a little older than us, someone more responsible and mature. But then, age doesn't really matte 100%. My boyfriend now is actually younger than me. I used to date older guys and this is actually my first boyfriend who is younger than I am. At first, I was not okay about it. But he is so mature and very responsible than I am. He acts and thinks more mature than any of my ex-boyfriends.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
I think when someone falls in love, age would not be a hindrance unless of coarse if the other is to young, what I mean is under age. Some do fall in love to someone who is much younger than he/she is. Of course when two people fall in love they must be both matured enough to know what it means to be loved.
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
I'm quite particula with the age of the guy I'm dating. I usually go for older guys, those who are I guess in the maturity level equal to my own age. You know how they say that a girl's maturity level is higher than a guy's? And that a guy's maturity level is like 10 years lower than a girl's so if you want to have a sensible relationship, you go out with someone relatively older than you so that ur maturity levels match? I've found this to be true in all guys that I date. I never had a sensible relationship with guys my age. But all the guys I've dated who are 8-10 years older than I am always work out. They understand my quirks, and I appreaciate their sens of responsibility. My husband is 8 years older and I really like the father figure in him. He's takes very good care of us, and he always understood my sentiments no matter what kind they are. He also offers a lot of good insight so I get to learn a lot from him.
• China
14 Apr 12
For me ,the time to love is late . I`m a homesexuality ,but I don`t know the fact until 21 years old .Since I realize I`m a homesexuality ,I don`t dare to love any boys because the pepole around us will be contempt of me .Thank for the God ,I dare to persue my love now .
@tkonlinevn (6345)
• Vietnam
19 May 12
Age is only important if there is a too far distance between you and your partner. My husband is younger than me 3 years old. This is not problem with us. We passed this easily.
@jgirap (210)
• India
14 Apr 12
no, we don't consider as we are blind in love