i am confused
April 18, 2012 6:29am CST
there is a girl i am dating for the past ten years,she has not been faith to me,i realised that she is going out with another man,anytime i asked her who the man was she will not respond to my to my question,many times the guy had sent her many messages to show that he loved her and he would like to marry her.the question is should i still love such a person?
• United States
22 Apr 12
No you should not because shes been unfaithful. Thats the only reason you need. If you two were to get married it would be very likely that she will cheat on you. Based on that you have had a 10 year relationship you need to know why she is cheating on you. Ask her, pressure her,and do not let up until you have an answer.
19 Apr 12
We cannot control your love towards that girl, but we can suggest on what you can do. I suggest that you stop seeing or dating that girl. If you don't, you'll just keep hurting yourself. What's more is that you have been dating her for ten years! Always remember that there's always a limit to what you can endure. I hope you think these things through, especially since it's a serious matter. I wish you all the best.
• Trinidad And Tobago
18 Apr 12
Ten years is a long time but sometimes you just need to know when to let go. If she's with someone else leave her let her be. Because if she's acting this way I don't foresee her trying to change her ways anytime soon. Should you still love her?? You're always gonna love her, the question is should you stay with her and to that I say no. No matter how many years you're with someone, cheating should not be tolerated in any way,form or fashion.
18 Apr 12
it depends on you if you can take the fact the she has not been faithful to you. but hey, is she supposed to be faithful when you guys are still dating yet? are you guys into a serious relationship now? because if you guys are, then maybe you have the right to get jealous of the boys that surround her.