I don't want to start a family

Hello Sweetloveforever, they are wonderful indeed but very hard to manage unless you are strict. my brother tried not to and they ended up being and looking spoiled.maybe i will find and have a girl if am ready, both financial and maturely.you gotta make sure that person is something that you're and comfortable with. you're still young and you can have one when you're ready

Hello rewardsinlife, Yeah a lot of people are, they think they can just start a family and then things will work out from there. No, it's not, some people do work it out but there's always the struggles, and one of those struggles is budget and how you manage time to spend it together. peace is first priority than money

Yes, I got the dream I wanted. It has turned out the way I planned. That is for sure. Yes, I am very proud of my boyfriend. I am very lucky to have him. Oh no things didn't work out with the kids father. He is my now estrange husband. We have been separated since Oct 2009 when he hauled the kids and me to Ohio where my family lives. We were living in Florida at the time. He still does. Says he was sending us to family cause he was having troubles at work. But come to find out he moved another chic in shortly after moving me up north. He is a deadbeat dad. Really half a deadbeat, as he does pay half the support he has been court ordered to do so. He hasn't seen the kids since Feb. 2010.

Hello rusty2rusty, thats good enough for you got the dream that you wanted. wow, that's good to know that you have a boyfriend that accepts your kids and loves them the way he loves you. so, things didn't work out with the child dad's hun? there are better guys for and am sure this boyfriend of yours is one of them

that is very true...well maybe its not yet time for you fall in love and live a married life so enjoy it while your still single...

Hello Johndur, indeed having children is part of the human cycle but a lot of people are doing it now a days. I am not sure though right if i want to make that decision, love making should always connected with relationship, marriage and pro creation. anything excluded is obviously with out a purpose

Hello Cricket127, thank you am glad some one advised me not to worry about it yet though. well, I wouldn't know, i don't know my own future or my destiny to boot, i can't predict my future just yet. besides, i don't think i'll ever find out just yet though, i wish i could some day. thank you

Hi! Sure not a problem. :-) Some just want a family early and some choose to wait. I know that I chose to wait and I am glad I did. If you want to know for certain, can you volunteer somewhere and see if you are really meant for kids and/or pets? I know you didn't mention it but some people take in pets and grow just as close to pets as they would kids. Just and idea. :-)

Hello jvincent, I don't know really about this being responsible and doing my best to be a good parent. when that time comes, no more being on just myself alone and my life is literally not my own anymore.as for good morals and conduct, maybe i will do my best to improve first and my life before i can settle, but not now. have a nice day

To raise a child with good morals and right conduct, you must also have those qualities. So that your children can look up to you as a good model and a good father.

Hello savypat, well, the great wedding i believe is the start of a new life both happiness and misery. I m kinda happy most of the time, i really don't want to be the kind of situation where you only want to have a wife and kids just to be happy i think i need to be a happy person first before i can get married or something

Hello Jazel_juan, Well, that's probably sums it up, unfortunately I am not surely for it right now. it scares me some how but i may not be able to be consistent on being a future dad. but that's not on my concern for now though. the fact that you're life is not your own ones you are parent is something am not into now. i won't rush, maybe some day time will come though. have a nice day

Hello shylade I don't know when is that gonna happen though, and i know for now how hard to have kids. but probably i would do improve myself first so that i would not be able to feel hard in being a future parent. well, in my situation right now, it's not a good idea to have kids at all.have a nice day

Hello Jeanneyvonne, I am single and even though i am sad as of the moment in the long run am blessed for being single. because the commitment of being a father is never easy but if you are at the right mature moment, then you will find it enjoyable. besides, a lot are getting married i don't know if i can really put myself into a married situation. have a nice day

Hello Cherish14, yeah we all have priorities now than just living a life and getting married. but my life isn't stable right now so i will do my best to be stable before i could start thinkin of settling down . have a nice day and good luck with your plans there

Hello Bhabycatch, well, that's what you think hahaha (joke). that depends on the situation if ever happen to have some one who would love me.besides, what's to look for now since it's scaring too for me still. well, my niece and nephews are still kids, i wish they can do better than their parents did knowing they are all intelligent

Hello sjvg, I don't want my future kid to live a life where I am not ready to be a parent. though, it's nice to have some one of your own, i know that it's not easy and you have to compromise. don't worry, you'll be alright here and since you got two of these song and they can be your cheerleaders when you're depressed

Hello Shybear88, maybe it's not in my head now because of the past experience with my nephews, it's not a play thing or a hobby which you can get tired of, it's a life commitment. this isn't what i had in mind as of the moment though am somewhat aware on what's like to be a parent, but something i lack so that's why i don't want to have one, and that is "more maturity" and preparedness. maybe some day. thanks

Well taking care of someone else kids is a lot different then your own. Because well you can give them back at the end of the day or a few days. Its totally different with your own. Even though you can't get ride of them you never really know whats it like till you are a parent. You don't need to be to have more maturity there are plenty of parents that are not but they are still good parents. I wasn't prepared for either of my pregnancy but that doesn't mean I'm not a good mom. I do what I do best with my babies. Some times children make you a better person because you have them. That is why it takes 40 so weeks to have a baby so you can think about what will be best for that baby weather its with you or someone else. You can never prepare to be a parent to a child its impossible even the people that are the most mature and have waited for the right time in there life where they have everything. I'm 23 and soon to be a mother of 2 little ones. I wouldn't trade it for the world. I do agree that being a parent isn't for everyone and nobody can make someone be a parent if they do not want to be a parent. its a choice that every person makes. If they want to do it or not. You never know like you said maybe one day you will when your a bit older and more ready or maybe no. Either way if you happy that is what matters.

Hello Hatley, Some people work it out when they rush in, as long as they are in love and knows what to do. bu this is different times and it's no longer that good of an issue now because of the financial burdeen that people experience now a days.well, a lot of people plans ahead now compare before and that's why they are even more successful.

Hello Tess_quinain, I don't know really why I feel this way, when I was a kid i used to be the most loving person in the family that ended up being taking and focus on myself. it seems that you're a family type person, of course, one of the things that completes a woman is having a child of their own.have a nice day and best wishes.

Hello toniganzon, hahaha i don't think guys are my perspective lolz i am straight after hahahawhile reading this response i thought you were preferring to a woman, or maybe a typo mistake? lolz. or maybe you thought am a woman? haha. well, am still not interested in marriage, i need to make most of my life and have security before i could think about that.have a nice day

Hello alberello, wow, i can't believe i heard that from you, there must be some problems that you haven't into solving. maybe but i hope i don't end up there too you know. i don't think i was born just to end up in a psychiatric clinic unless i am becoming incapable lliving in the society. besides, it's not in my head to start a family yet. have a nice day

Hello CaptainAlbert, wow, you want to go to Australia and then permanently stay and move to finland? i see no one a lot of people go abroad and prefers to settle their lives and family that way. yeah, education and healthcare aren't good enough here any more compare to other countries. have a nice day

Hello doroffee, some people in my country get's married lesser than your age and it's really hard to believe they just in there to start a family with out preparation. Any one who is not ready for parenthood can lead to obvious bad parenting. being a parent is something that people are prepared for. same here, discipline and education would be hard with all the influences of the world.. have a nice day