I will miss him

Philippines
April 21, 2012 2:19am CST
I like him and i know he knows it,he will go to the other country to work and he will be back after 4 months, i will miss him so much. We are not in a relationship and i dont know if he feels the same way to me. What i know that I like him. Is it okay if i will tell him personally that i like him and i will wait for his return.
16 responses
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
For me, I will tell him. Maybe he knows that you like him.
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
yeah, i know that he knows that i like him.i can do it...lol
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
Yes, go for it!!!! Good luck! You never know, maybe he like you also..
• Australia
23 Apr 12
Hello! I feel very sorry for you because yearning for someone who may not return your feelings is very painful indeed. I personally don't think you should say anything to him, but I think you are going to anyway :-) If you do, then be very sure you are prepared to be let down and that (emotionally) you can handle his answer. It may be that he is waiting for you to say something to him, but is that really the kind of man you want? When a man knows what he wants he usually goes for it, and nothing will stop him. I hope you don't get hurt - good luck!
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
Well you got to take risks somehow i guess. You might regret not telling him how you feel. If you feel uncomfortable telling him in person, then tell it to him through email or text messages before he leaves..so atleast you might have an idea how he feels about you. Go! if he does not reciprocate, atleast you were brave enough to do it and you won't be wasting time thinking about him and you can move on ..and if he also feels the same then you should be happy about it and even if we leaves the country, you can talk to him online more and maybe a relationship will bloom.
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
thanks for the advise.i will do it on.it's better to know what's the real score right? you're right,if we are not meant to be,it's about time to move on.
22 Apr 12
I totally agreed you should tell him. He may have feelings towards u too!
@leighz (457)
22 Apr 12
I agree, setting proper expectations is very important. Especially that he will be out of the country, a lot of things can happen. He might fall in love with someone else out there, while you wait in vain. Once you've settled the score, then you can keep constant communication, who knows both of you will be able to overcome one setback in a relationship that is being away from each other.
@airasheila (5459)
• Philippines
22 Apr 12
Good day Chelogirl, With reference to your discussion, well, it will be better to at least tell him slightly what you feel. So you will know what will be your status. As there are times, we tend to hide our emotions and not divulging it somehow, then we end up regretting. I believe you can do it and say really what do you feel.
• Philippines
22 Apr 12
yes, i will let him know that i like him, come what may,i will accept whatever the result.
• India
22 Apr 12
Hello friend, I think you like him. So you told him very first. I think he also like you. Best of luck. Have a nice day.
• India
22 Apr 12
Hello friend, I agree with you about this matter. But have you ever face same problem in your life friend? Nice to meet you. Waiting for your reply.
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
Don't waste your time go and tell him!!!
• Philippines
22 Apr 12
thanks for giving me the courage
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
I think it's okay. You better tell him that now when you still have the opportunity. It's going to be rare chance to do it when he is already working in the other country. Good luck on, chelogirl!
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
thanks for all the good advise.it's now or never
• Philippines
17 May 12
If he knows that You want him... trust your self. you both can do it
• India
22 Apr 12
Hello friend, if you like him that say him otherwise may be late. Nothing want to say. Just carry on. Nice to meet you. Have a nice day.
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
22 Apr 12
When you are not sure that he likes you too, then should wait more for a while. if he does like you too, then it will be so nice for both you guys...but what happens if he does not like you, then everything will be bad, he may run... 4 months is not long time, during that time, you can know he like you or not...then you will go to the final decision to speak out your feeling or not. Best luck for you!!!
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
It is not everyday that we get the chance to meet someone that can make our heart beat the way only love can do. It's not everyday that we are given a chance bump into one person who can make a rather ordinary life a lot more exciting to live for. Only few people are given a chance to experience that, and you are lucky that you are one of them. Love is not always a two way street, but there are infinite possibilities for someone who is brave enough to take the risk of letting this love out in the open. Yes, it can be a tad too daunting to make the first move or to confess what you are feeling towards someone because you are a girl. But there are things worth doing. There are things worth defying the definition dictated by the society. And those who are brave enough to try, those who are courageous enough to take the big step, are the ones who most of the time got what they want in the end. I suggest, you take the risk because true love are meant for the brave. I hope you may have your well deserved happy ending with that person you love.
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
That's the dilemma if you're in a female's position,which is of course where you're in. Its so hard to tell that someone that you like them because of the possibility that he might be cold with you. But it depends. Analyze your situation. If you think he's that kind of guy that wouldn't be affected by issues such as this, then go. If you know him that much, you can somehow predict what his reaction would be. If you can't take it anymore and you really want him that much, you may take the risk to tell him. Take this chance. He might meet someone overseas and you might regret this in the future.
• India
21 Apr 12
personally, I think those 4 months are your lifeline :) wait it out and at the end of it, you'll know what his absence does to you and if you can cope with it. and when he comes back, you'll automatically know what you want. trust me, you'll then find the strength to do what you gotta do :) good luck!
@alberello (4755)
• Italy
21 Apr 12
Yes, I can perfectly understand that, even if you are not yet involved in a romantic relationship, the distance often makes these tricks. Speaking for myself, I can say I have never had a relationship, and never think of it. Basically speaking, women do not interest me and so I want to stay single for life. For this I do not know exactly what can make you feel really bad when two lovers are far apart. But I know well how it feels when you are away from my own family.
@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
I remember my friend who got very close to me and to my family during his visit in our country. I love almost everything about him. When he was here, we always took a walk outside, go to beautiful places, talk and laugh together. He is a very sweet person too. He is not my boyfriend but we are like loves because we walk hand in hand outside and he is really a gentleman. He stayed with us for 2 months and within those 2 months, I feel something especial for him. When he went back to China, I really feel the longing to be with him again. I know that maybe he knows what I feel for him and he even says those 3 magic words to me before he leave. Actually, I still feel that I have feelings for him but I don't know if I have to say it to him or not. He is younger than me in terms of age but he looks more mature than I am physically.He is now studying in Singapore. A friend told me to tell him the truth. If he loves me too, then it will be a good thing and if he is not, then I should start to move on with it.
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
I think you should go tell him before everything is too late. I bet he knows about it already. Maybe both of you never had the courage and enough time to talk about those things as of yet. But since he's leaving the country, I guess you should go tell him about it. Just be careful not to expect too much on it though, just be open to anything that could possibly happen. If he tells you that he shares the same feeling towards you then the feeling is mutual. Maybe you guys could start there if this will be the case. But then again, don't expect much. Hope this one helps. ;)
@HomeBase (1054)
• United States
21 Apr 12
Yes, TELL him. He will have something to look forward to when he comes home. If he likes you the same way, he will be so excited to see you when he comes back. Pay attention to your gut feelings. If he really likes you, you will know it. Don't force it. If he does NOT like you, then let him go. There are PLENTY of young men out there.