What is your life attitude?

the life  - the life is choosed by ourselves
China
April 23, 2012 7:42am CST
I went to a friend`s home to help her recruiting students for her school these days .During these days,we talked about many topics,such as the concept of love ,the plan to the future ,the attitude to the life and so on.I consider we should live our lives with fulfill our responsibility to our parents ,our children and our friends.If we do all of things for ourselves sake only ,we can`t be human beings.However ,some people don`t agree with me .they think our lives should be controlled by ourselves without any factors from others and as long as we could live our lives well ,we can ignore others` feeling at some extent .Your thougts
7 responses
• Russian Federation
23 Apr 12
i think that everything depeds on us. we decide what we will be in the future. if not we will do something better for ourselves who will? nobody. that is why my opinion is that.
• United States
30 Apr 12
Yeah what we think and feel has a very big factor on how our life can go. It's important for us to have a positive attitude when we are addressing different situations in our life. We've got to work for the things we want or that we want to change. Because like you mentioned no one else will.
• Russian Federation
1 May 12
yeah. i meant it. :) great explanation.
@obe212003 (2302)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
Positive thoughts attract positive energy, it is a very well defined proven action-reaction sequence. The power of the mind creating creative thoughts would surely tend to cause positive results. It is in you, within you, and only you can dwell on this regardless of anyone else. If you would be able to focus on good thoughts, good emotions and good feeling towards yourself, then your attitude towards life would also affect the lives of the people you love.
• United States
30 Apr 12
I agree with you. We like to be around those who are positive. We feel the opposite towards those who are negative. Keeping a positive attitude helps us in so many different ways. It's important for us to strive to deal with things in our life with a positive outlook.
@annierose (18021)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
I wouldn't be where I am now if not of my family. They are the one who takes care of me and helps me reach my dream. If they did not help me to finish my studies, I guess that I will just be a liability--always depending on them with my needs and wants. Now that I am have a good job and earning a good amount of money monthly, I do not want to spend that fortune with me alone. Although I have many things I want to buy, many places I want to go but I think that if I will just spend my money all by myself, I won't be happy. I love showing gratitude to my family. I want to help them the best I can. That way, I can be happy too. I feel happy when I see others happy and not only me who is happy.
• United States
30 Apr 12
I'm glad that you have such a wonderful and supportive family. I'm sure that they help you through so many things. It is so nice to have close family and friends that we can count on. This is something we need to treasure and show our love towards those who really love and care for us. It is a great thing that you use your resources to help your family. That is something we should be happy to do. I agree with you. I as well feel happy when I'm able to help others have happiness in their life.
23 Apr 12
The very fact you asked us to respond to your point shows you care for the community. No man is an island. You can't live all by yourself. You need friends and admirers around. You need and crave for recognition from people around you. In fact, this is one of the psychological requirements of a man. this forms the basic lesson of management. Let me tell you one more thing. All of us have split personalities. One is our true self, the second is what we want others to think of us, and the last is what people actually think of us. You want to live life to win approval and recognition from others in the community you live, work, play and do other things. Live your life the way you want but within the circle of good behavior drawn by the community around you. Lastly, it's incumbent on you to help others less endowed than you. Your day is never over until you help some one who can never repay you. Help others, care for others, and finally get a WOW from others.
@annierose (18021)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
I got inspired by your post beloved39. I almost forget something until I read your post in which you says that "Your day is never over until you help some one who can never repay you." I think that it is one of the best things humans can do to others. Help others who can never repay us. Most of the time, we people tend to help those whom we know can also give back to us the good things we give to them. By reading your post, it reminds me that what counts is that you do good things without expecting anything in return.
@BigMoney25 (1257)
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
My life attitude is staying positive at all times no matter what because everything's gonna be fine as long as you believe they are going to be. Also I prove others that I can do what they say I can't. And also I focus on my goals instead of focusing to criticism. I also do not compare myself to others because I am unique and there are things I can do that they cannot do that's why I don't consider these people that much they do not affect my life anyway.
@shylade (3137)
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
you are right by saying many things and persons affect our life and there is no way we can't evade that because we are human with feelings. as for me, i am not just living for my life alone. i am living for my family, my husband and my son. i am living for my friend, my co-workers and my boss. in one way or another, i can't deny the fact that they are parts of my life and when one is gone, my life will never be the same.
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
23 Apr 12
To my opinion everybody had to live his/her own life. It's normal to grow up, to raise your kids and let them live their own life by their own rules. Everybody is responsible for his own life and deed. The meaning of life is, according to me, to develop yourself and be one with you (body and soul).