I Love You..Reply to "Sorry"

Philippines
April 28, 2012 1:23am CST
I was so upset last night. I and my partner had an unusual quarrel. Just after an exchange of angry words, we both kept silent. I just shut my bedroom's door and cried silently. Yes, we slept in separate beds that night. In the morning, He told me "I am sorry, hon." I just replied, "I love you". Sometimes, it is really hard to nourish a relationship without a quarrel at times. Misunderstanding arises in an unexpected moments. If you are not guarded then you will get lost in emotions and thought. Good thing that we just got calm right after a high pitched words exploded. I just do not want to say more so I simply give my "I love you" when he said "sorry".
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10 responses
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
28 Apr 12
Reply like you is also a smart way to keep you guys closer and avoid arguing again. I may learn this point from you. I just remember that when I and my boyfriend debate, when one of us say sorry and one say no problem, but arguing is still continuing and non-stop, it is not good and may ruin my day also. next time i will try to talk like you, and i hope our arguing maybe end after that sentence. Have a nice day!
• Philippines
8 May 12
Yes, you may try it! Hope it will work with you. Thanks.
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
9 May 12
For sure it will work. Men like sweet words.
@ladygator (3469)
• United States
30 Apr 12
I think thats a wonderful way to end the argument. The most creative one that I have seen also. I think that it really shows how much the two of you love one another. One time with and ex of mine, while he was fussing at me and trying to argue I just kissed him. And then each time he opened his mouth to keep arguing I would plant another kiss! He ended up laughing and that ended it right there.
• Philippines
8 May 12
There is magic in saying "I love you" and even more magical when it comes with a kiss...So, sweet and sometimes cute scene huh!
@GemmaR (8526)
28 Apr 12
I don't think that it is a healthy relationship if there aren't some arguments sometimes. We need to argue to help get our feelings into the open and as long as we resolve our differences this is the most important things. The fact that your partner said that he was sorry for the way he treated you shows that he respects you and that he feels bad about the way that he had treated you. This is good as long as you both learn from the things that have gone wrong, and make sure that you never make the same mistakes again.
• Philippines
8 May 12
Yes, arguments and a lot of differences can make a healthy relationship. Just be wise in handling those odds so to really be in a healthy affair even if negative things try to get along the way.
• India
28 Apr 12
If your husband did not say sorry than could be problem for both. But he understand the situation and showed his love and care to you. That's why he said sorry to you. Enjoy your life with these little moments of life which are very important in married life.
• Philippines
8 May 12
A million thanks, my dear friend. Yeah, I will enjoy every moment with my husband.
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
wow so sweet..!im happy to hear that you immediately ok. That is how love is.I reality that is already happening. I just remember to my husband when we always quarrel because of everything. maybe i am just sensitive enough so we always quarrel.But if i did that mu husband always saying sorry to me. It is really like that.Just enjoy love to our husband because it is really that anyway.
• Philippines
8 May 12
You are right jinky. Enjoy your marriage too.
@WakeUpKitty (8707)
• Netherlands
28 Apr 12
The thing about a quarrel is that we see it as negative. But shouldn't be a good sign we can fight with the ones who are most close to us, that we can be who we are without the fear being rejected? It's normal to have different opinions, points of view and it's normal to show what you stand for. And yes there will be feelings of hurt and it will take time to get over it. But if love is there it will make us stronger and more self confident. I love you says enough .. sometimes we also just say too much and make things worser as they were at the start at all. You responded wise, I hope he will see that too.
• Philippines
8 May 12
You are right Wake! Many words might get us to a worse scenario and it is just wasting to keep exchanging words in angry. So, to bring peace between us, I just replied quick that way. Thanks for agreeing to my point.
@woody5_16 (171)
• Egypt
29 Apr 12
u make the right thing but some time when u begin with"I love u "before they say i am sorry they begin to blame you of not solving the problem and instead of that u just said i love u they consider this as u are unresponsible but this not for general i just talk about some situation so take care dont make him feel like that and hope u be together for last :)
@toniganzon (48524)
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
I don't like hearing the words i'm sorry from the person that i love. Love means you never have to say i'm sorry. It's inevitable that couples won't fight sometimes. It is a part of relationship. It helps the relationship grow. As long as you know how to patch things up and make things lovelier after each fight.
@Cherish14 (2695)
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
saying sorry can be hard to say especially when you are sincere.but i understand how you feel. when my boyfriend says sorry, i would tell him "I Love You" too. but he also understands that i am sorry that it happened. those misunderstandings are what help us grow more mature and keep he relationship stronger.
@marguicha (90184)
• Chile
28 Apr 12
I know firsthand that you can never say enough times "I love you" specially after a quarrel. We all know it´s easier to quarrel with the person who is near you than to go out seeking someone to fight with. And quarrelling is part of loving as discusions are important to get to know what you both think. But when things get out of hand, the magic words are jsut those: "sorry" and "I love you". Good for you!!!