How to make your kids calm?

@ifa225 (11098)
Indonesia
April 28, 2012 6:46am CST
So these three musketeers of mine always fight each other. Anything could be the matter of the fight, like watching TV, eating something, sleeping in the bed, toys… They really make me frustrated. It is tiring to be referee all the time you know... So any tips so they want to share each other
4 responses
@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
hi, i am still single and no kids yet,but i already had niece and nephew,yes they are sometimes fighting each other and we need to stop them fighting each other,to calm them we will send the other one go outside of the house and the other one will stay inside.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 12
Hi Asliah I did that too but the different is, I send both go outside they will cry and promise not fighting again but kids just kids
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
2 May 12
I only have one son. So, I have never experienced, faces, quarreling children. I do not know what advice I can give. Perhaps, you have to give a lot of sense, to your children, to understand each other, and share. It is not easy. Because, mostly children, will not budge. Perhaps, you give more understanding to your oldest child.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 12
Hi indah, I often do that, say sharing is good, stingy is not good but even I told them 21 times per day, they just keep fighting and fighting sometimes I want to give up and just leave them let them deal with that without my interfere
• India
30 Apr 12
Always have a good relation with you kids. Try to become a good friend to them. Try to spent with them for the simple plays with them. They are really so simple but this gives them a real love and care then you expect. This is the only some thing you can can do for you kids. If you practice so the kids will become so friendly to you, so at this time you can just tell them " Good friends never fight each other " and ask them never to do it. Becuase of you friendly manner they will surely hear words.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 12
Hi Wonderboy, Sometimes I wonder they can be a good friend at one time but be a very bad enemy at another time maybe that is something that we can't avoid it be friend and be enemy too
@GemmaR (8527)
28 Apr 12
I think that the first thing we all need to understand is that all children will go through phases of being angry, because that is just what children do. At the end of the day, the only thing we can do about it is to try and cope with that anger when it happens. If they're just having a tantrum, the best thing to do would be to ignore them unless their health was in danger for any reason. If a child doesn't think that they're getting any attention from their behaviour, then they're not going to carry it on anymore because it just isn't worth it for them to do so.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
28 Apr 12
need a big effort to ignore all the things that they do..unless i was not there when the fight blew up. but maybe i have to do this trick one time so they stop it