What are the things girls look in a boy or a person she love or want as bf?

@ajithlal (14569)
India
April 28, 2012 9:09pm CST
I always wonder how to make a girl happy. What are the things girls look in a boy or a lover or a husband?
7 responses
@ShyBear88 (18618)
• United States
29 Apr 12
Every women is different and wants different things out of a partner. Me I was looking for someone that isn't me. I couldn't stand being with someone that reminds me or me. I wanted someone that would fight and challenge me and that is what I got. Me and my husband we don't always see eye to eye which is okay because we do love and enjoy each other. I like the fact that we don't like or love the doing the same things that we have differences. But as much as there is differences we do have similarities. I wanted a guy that would make me smile and laugh, drive me crazy some times. A good man to be with and have kids with and all that I wanted I found in my husband.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
17 May 12
I think most woman loves smile and laugh of the men and the way they treat them.
@ShyBear88 (18618)
• United States
17 May 12
I didn't say I like the sound of a guy laugh or smile. I said for me I need a guy that could make me laugh and smile and that is what I have.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
27 May 12
I think most probably it differ from people to people.
• India
29 Apr 12
Hello friend, I am a girl. I think a girl wants that a man who loves her very much. Actual I want that my lover only loves me. Have a nice day.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
29 Apr 12
I also think most girls want their men to love them very well and to love them unconditionally.
@Bluedoll (17039)
• Canada
29 Apr 12
I think that is what most people want. They want to feel special.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
29 Apr 12
I also think that all people wants their lovers to make them feel special.
• United States
29 Apr 12
it is always hard to tell what every girl wants in a man because every girl looks for something a little diffrent in diffrent people. i am married now but i have a husband who is sweet and caring and he always tries to help me when he can. he will do whatever it takes to protect me :) he really knows how to treat a girl :) there are a lot of small things that i look for in a guy but those are a few of the things i have found in my husband. since i am married it is a little harder for me to say "what i look for" but no one usually finds the person they are looking for but something that is close enough and someone that will make them happy for their whole life :) hope this helps atleast a little bit. is there anything that you look for specifically in a girl?
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
29 Apr 12
I like a people who cares and love and does not make me feel lonely.
• United States
29 Apr 12
also the person needs trust :) that should be a number 1 thing that you look for in a girl. if you can not trust them then i do not think the relationship will go far but i could be wrong but that is just my opinion :) i understand that and to me that is the best person to look for :)
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
14 May 12
I think trust plays a lot in the relationship. I think being faithful to the partners are something that shows the personality of a person.
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
we woman likes a gentleman. we love to be treasured. we love to be cared.we like to understood. we want efforts even if it small efforts that we would notice that the guy treasures our presence.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
1 May 12
I think most woman loves the guys to really love and care for them in their lives.
• Philippines
2 May 12
yes indeed. we are have a very soft heart that's why we long for caring and understanding.
@lynboobsy11 (11346)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
I don't know what are the things but, I think if you fall in love with the one who pushes your heart sometimes it doesn't matter what are the qualification you are looking for. Of course as much as possible you want to have a Bf/gf that are perfect but every person has it's own characteristics and you can't choose if the person who loves you don't have the one that you are looking for.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
10 Aug 12
I think most probably girls look for people who treat them well and also make them feel good.
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
29 Apr 12
I seldom hear that is what men want. It seldom show also. Perhaps because men and women think different and it's hard to communicate at all. I think most women want to be taken seriously and not only be accepted/wanted because of their looks. Also they do want quality time, attention, been seen as an individual, taken seriously, feel they are loved. It has to be showed. If you have to ask for it and get a respons like: you know I love you, it's not enough.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
28 May 12
I also think both men and women are different. Most men looks for women who will be there for them and supports through through their life and also supports them emotionally.
@GemmaR (8526)
29 Apr 12
Everybody will be looking for different things from their relationship depending very much on what stage of their life they happen to be at when they're looking for that new partner. For me at the moment I want stability. If I was looking for a partner, it would have to be somebody who had a job and their own car so that I would not be the one who had to do all of the driving. They would also have to want children, as this is something that I am wanting to do in the next couple of years. If somebody had the same kind of life plan as me, I see no reason to rule them out at this stage.
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