you have yours, now what about mine?

@jazel_juan (15767)
Philippines
April 29, 2012 3:05am CST
I am referring to my hubby this time, this afternoon we went to this cellphone shop and he purchased new batteries for his phone and new well as charger as he needs those for his phone..and i told him i need a new phone as well as i need a personal phone where i could use for family and close friends...because my current number - only one number, where both family,friends and work uses to contact me. Which i find difficult as even during sundays clients texts me and it is a hassle sometimes.. but when we were at the store, he was at the store he was able to choose what he needs and immediately said, now lets go home and i was like i haven't chose my phone that i want. He then said, we can still go look for the right phone on tuesday as it will be holiday here... and he then left the store! I honestly got upset and trying to keep mum since i do not want to get mad...and here i am still upset. But well mylot helps me loose some steam.
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@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
Uh uh...hmpfffffff!!!!! okay fine, I know and I can understand the feeling so here's a big hug for you Well, I remember my ex-hub. Actually he is almost a perfect husband, yes almost perfect. He never raise a voice, never lift a finger. He always sees that I have/got all what I want - he is a good provider. But......but....okay...a womanizer So,I suggest dear, be thankful that your husband is still with you. I know how hard it is when he seems to ignore your feelings. But I am sure he doesn't mean it. Maybe he is right, you can still go back tomorrow since it is holiday and have more time to choose your new phone (^_^)
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
oh womanizer..that is bad, as my dad was that way.. i know how it feels anyways yes i just shut up as i do not want to argue further, i love my hubby i also hate arguing so i would rather keep mum about it again and the feeling just passed.
@lynboobsy11 (11346)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
Hi jazel, I'm sorry for what you felt, but before I give my opinion on this I want to know something. Before leaving the house did you talk about this about your phone that you will buy after he will get his battery? Because if it does well you have the reason to be mad at him. But if you only brought up this to him on the store maybe he was just surprised and he has no time to give you to choose what phone you want. As my experienced with my ex I learned that men are selfish and inconsiderate sometimes. Most men want us to be straight and be frank on what we want to say, they have no time for our tantrums and childish way. So now since it was past and he did say that you will back on tuesday just trust him that he will go with you getting your phone. Cheers
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
i sure do hope so he comes with me as he promised..but then again i might buy it today! its payday
@lynboobsy11 (11346)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
Ohhh good luck and enjoy your new cell.
@veejay19 (3592)
• India
30 Apr 12
I think you should be a little more patient,jaz.Its a good thing you kept mum and did not throw a tantrum like a small child.Wait for tuesday and then remind him as husbands have a convenient way of forgetting.Since its a holiday you will get more time to browse for a good model of your choice and if you don`t get one in a shop you will have sufficient time to visit other shops and hunt for it.
@douiya (66)
• Indonesia
30 Apr 12
most of man has a very big ego than women. They listen to what their partner words but don't care about it. So patience is the most important thing you have to keep the relationship move on. And for this case, i think you shouldn't depend on your husband often, you can go buy what your need by yourself.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
i actually do not depend on him but since i value his opinion and he is a wiz a those matters like technologies, i want him to come along with me when i buy.
@thesids (22358)
• Bhubaneswar, India
29 Apr 12
hi jazel I would have to sleep hungry tonight But maybe your hubby needs to really spend some good time with you on Tuesday and hence he came up with this thought. Or maybe he thinks that you will be decided by Tuesday which make and model to buy! See there can be so many options.... and I am always positive, you know. So give him time until Tuesday... maybe he surprises you with some kool handset from his salary as I guess Tuesday would be May 1st - special day for may who get bonuses etc!
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
i do not think so thesids, he is someone who are not fond of surprises.. hahahaha plus i do not think he will be getting a bonus now as he is in a government office and he isn't a regular yet..
@applefreak (3131)
• Singapore
29 Apr 12
i'll have to say your hubby is way too much! i'd have blown my top if i were in your position. there is no way i'm going to leave the store without getting what i want. why waste another trip on tuesday when we are already here at the store? some times when partner and i goes shopping, we'd split up and go hunt for what we are looking for. in this case, he'll be looking at the accessories while i'll be looking at the phones. this way, we won't have to wait for each other and we'll both get what we wanted. on a side note, i used to have two phones - one for personal use and one for work use. however, i find it a real hassle to carry two phones around with me. so in the end i'm only using one phone for both work and personal. with one more phone, you clients will still test you on sundays.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
I would prefer having two phones now, as on sundays i will the option of turning it off rather than leaving it on..and i could have the personal one open.. well i didn't really blown, i still got hold of myself though, it is a hassle to argue and argue again. i get tired that way.
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@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
29 Apr 12
I think you are most mad at yourself because you did not say what you needed. Ask yourself why you did not stay in that shop and picked out your phone! Also promise yourself you will be at that shop at Tuesday as soon as they open! And don't do this to you ever again! Men are selfish so be selfish yourself if you want a share too.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
i guess i am as i didn't speak my mind just so to avoid arguments
• Philippines
5 May 12
Well, it's really nice to be organized sometimes. It should help you organize your calls between loved ones and clients in business.
@Kojigirl (188)
3 May 12
Sounds like a husband to me, always about them and nothing about you. When I'm in a foul mood in a situation like that, I'd let him leave and then go about choosing my phone. If he does go with you on Tuesday, take all the time you need and drive him crazy waiting for you to make up your mind. He wasted your day, you should waste some of his. Either that, or make sure you get exactly what you want after going through EVERYTHING that you find attractive. Good luck
@alberello (4755)
• Italy
30 Apr 12
Well, often it happens to all of us, perhaps unconsciously to sin a little selfish. I think in your case, she was in urgent need of a new phone and thus has neglected your request. However, I think we all should not ruin our personal relationships for these things! You two arguing and clarifications, too, soon you will have your new phone.
@alberello (4755)
• Italy
30 Apr 12
Well, often it happens to all of us, perhaps unconsciously to sin a little selfish. I think in your case, she was in urgent need of a new phone and thus has neglected your request. However, I think we all should not ruin our personal relationships for these things! You two arguing and clarifications, too, soon you will have your new phone.
@williamjisir (22903)
• China
30 Apr 12
Since your hubby says that you will come to check a new cell phone for you next time, I guess that he means what he says after the holiday you are having. Therefore, jazel, please don't feel upset. I am sure you will soon get a new one for your family and close friends. Be happy, jazel.