teenager

Philippines
April 30, 2012 4:49am CST
hi to all ,,what if the girl is 26 years old and the guy is 17 years old only .it is possible to have a relationship ?it is not awkward ?im hoping to my co mylot member's are give some of advice...tnx
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
I have nothing against age difference when it comes to love. However on this matter, the boy is too young and the girl is almost 10 yrs older then him. I don't think this kind of relationship will work, or be accepted by the society. If only the boy is already matured enough..let's say the boy is 30 and the girl is 40, I think that is reasonable enough. But in this case- sorry to say that the girl should think twice before pursuing such relationship. I don't want to sound judgmental- just expressing my opinion here.
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@vaishnavc (556)
• India
30 Apr 12
Well my girlfriend is older than me.But only by a few months.And i don't think it is awkward or anything. But the age difference that you mentioned may be a little too much.Don't you think?After a little what if the guy looses interest and goes after younger women?
• India
30 Apr 12
Hello friend, Few months is acceptable. But few years is not acceptable my friend in a relationship. This relations are not stay for long day. Have a nice day.
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
there is one factor that should be taken seriously... the boy is just 17- not even a full matured young man. So, I hope the girl will look at this matter seriously.
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@ajithlal (14568)
• India
6 May 12
I think there should be limited age for people getting married and to get into relationships.
• Russian Federation
30 Apr 12
i think that it is fachionable to have the difference betwwet ages. there are a lot of celebrities that were dating with it. and they did not fell awkward. they just enjoy their life. and do not care what people say. live for yourself only :)
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@ajithlal (14568)
• India
5 May 12
I also think age does not matter in love. I think what that matters is how mature a person is and how good a person able to think in his or her life and how a person can make others feel in their life.
• Russian Federation
5 May 12
yes, i agree with you. ;) age is not important. and i wish you all the best and be happy ^.^
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• India
1 May 12
Here there is a huge age difference between the lovers. In most of the cases such long differences on age will not be accepted by the family members but these things are ignored by the couples.
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@WakeUpKitty (8707)
• Netherlands
1 May 12
everything is possible it depends on the people involved, their life experiences, life style, interests, education etc etc.. it also depends on what each of them see as a relationship. The older you get the less age difference will be an issue btw.
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• Philippines
30 Apr 12
hi scorpio, they say age doesn't matter when it comes to love some people might react but does they comments are important? if you think you both can handle the situation and love each other it's enough happy mylotting
@djbtol (5500)
• United States
30 Apr 12
First of all, let's assume that she is not the teacher of the young man. That gets quite messy. I don't think the age difference will be any issue at all in the bedroom. However, in real life there will certainly be different perspectives on life issues. Important to give the relationship a trial period to see how you work together and if you can handle the influences of those around you.
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• India
30 Apr 12
Hello friend, It is not possible in the real life. It is only possible in the alegory writings and films. Have a nice day.
• Russian Federation
30 Apr 12
why not possible? i have heard about celebrities. the difference was about ten years. and they were happy together. :) everything is possible. have a nice day. :)
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• China
4 May 12
It is a very good love ,it dose not matter the girl is 26years old and the guy is 17 years old. It will be very magical and beautiful love legend for others. In the music history,Johannes Brahms(1833-1897) who is German ,fall in love with the woman 14 years older than him whose name is Clara, Schumann's wife, Brahms so love her and take care of her and never married. In my country ,there is the famous novel by Jinyong(Louice Cha)named [Divine Eagle,Gallent Knight], talk about the forbidden love between Yangguo and his master xiao long nv. So great martial story. For true love ,age is nothing.
@ajithlal (14568)
• India
1 May 12
I think it is better to waiting until two years at least before having relationship. I think most times teenagers make quick decisions and regret in the later part of their life. I would suggest you to make sure you have been matured enough to get into relationship and emotionally stable.