Feel sad and angry
By wongchoiyee
@wongchoiyee (7413)
Malaysia
April 30, 2012 9:31am CST
I am mistreated and disrespect by my supervisor and the other office staff since I work in this market research company, I wonder is this working life that everyone has to go through? May I change to working for myself, I don't make much money online, all I know is typing like this on mylot. Sometimes I seem wanted to end my life since all I can do is tolerate and tolerate, forgive and never forget, I feel is this karma or is there something wrong with the people nowadays? Do you bullied weak people in the office, I know I am not that capable but as long as I do my work, can it be forgiven. I don't know why people always find fault with me and I am sad and angry now. I can't do nothing. Mylotters you all tell me, what can I do now? I am in bad relationship with my brother as some of you know, he has moved out with his France girlfriend last year, when I called him for help, he did not take my calls. On the other hand, my mom always there to remind me like a radio everyday she will said if you don't work you will be a beggar. But sometimes I can't make myself go to work as she said because I have depression and she don't want to understand. I feel want to die sometimes as I can't do nothing to my life except following commands, I want to be on myself from now on, tell me how can I do that?
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10 responses
@factorial (977)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
Oh! I'm sad to hear your story... BUT NEVER END YOUR LIFE PLEASE... life is still beautiful...
Try to look for other job. By the way what course did you finish?
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@factorial (977)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
Oh! you have a lot of opportunity to apply to other offices...
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Apr 12
then you can go look for work in many p laces and l ots of places in any country will be happy to get a good secretary . I wish you the best and remember G od loves you and so do I. let us know how this all comes out,. hoping for a great new job for you.do try to be the best you can b e at your job as that will influence the powers that be. Here in the US a good to great secreta
@geen1234 (111)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
life is beautiful, so do not think about ending up your life, i Know life is not easy and life is hard. But prayers can help to ease the burden and pain in your heart.
try to have a vacation, or go and look for a place where you can find a peace of mind. like by the sea, seeing sunset or sunrise, be a nature lover, at least even for a while you can have a peace in your mind.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
30 Apr 12
Sometimes I wish I were a dog, where the owner loves me much, and I do nothing but eat, sleep and play.
@Jevendiran (778)
• India
1 May 12
First of all, don't think of loosing your life! It's GOD's gift and you can't throw away a gift just like that. I can completely understand your situation as I'm also a soft natured, submissive type person. You should understand people first. Try to understand each and everyone's character and act accordingly. There are things which irritate a person, and it depends on his character. Once you thoroughly understand his character, you can easily make him feel comfortable and perhaps very happy by your presence. I suggest you read some books on personalities and dealing with people. Here are some books I suggest:
1. Personality Plus - Florence Littauer
2. How to Win Friends And Influence People - Dale Carnegie
These books can give you thorough insight into the aspect of dealing with people. You have to choose the right place and the right kind of job that suit you character for a better working condition. Based on your skills, interests and your character I think I can give you some valuable suggestions.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
There are bad days, and there are good days, and you're having one bad day. Don't be saddened or angered as these are negative emotions that would lead you nowhere. The issue at hand is a mere challenge that you have to prove them wrong with regard to how they see you. A good follower would be a great leader someday, so just go with the flow, take things at work as they are, and learn to smile and think of happy thoughts, so you could release positivity.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
You can make it,just be positive try it,think that you are not alone,and also you have boss to command only if your boss,nothing to force you to do.
That's life,its hard to find own work these days,but try to plan the good way for you.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
30 Apr 12
Hi wongchoiyee, first of all come out of that dipression. Dont ever feel that you are not capable of anything. God has gifted us with one or the other, gift which we have to recognize.
People mistreat and disrespect us only when we allow them to do so, so never ever allow anybody to do that. Dont ever think of ending your life.People in the society (especially talking about work place) they tend to do so, as they feel very superior, but there is a limit for everything, dont allow them to cross that limit. Its in your hands.
Talking about mom, dont worry, may be she is more worried about your future, so she dont want you to depend on others for your livelihood. As she knows that your brother is not going to help you( as you mentioned), so dont feel that your mother is commanding you. Just feel that what ever she is saying is for your benefit...
thank you
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@GemmaR (8517)
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30 Apr 12
You should not be treated in a way that you don't like at work, and you should be able to talk to your manager about it if you think that things need to change in your life. You could stop work and start working for yourself on the internet, but there is no guarantee that this would suit you and that you would be able to make the profits that you needed in order to pay your bills and feed your family. However, I have managed to work online for the past three years, so it is certainly not something that you should rule out if you have the drive to succeed in your ambitions.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Sorry to hear about what your experiencing regarding your work and the treatment your brother is giving you. Also the nagging your Mom is doing. Control yourself and always look on the bright side of life. Your still young and I know you have a great future ahead. Remember life is too precious to think of something different. Be confident and learn from your mistakes and use your experiences as your guide to move forward.
@Zer0Stats (1147)
• India
30 Apr 12
You know we get out of life just about what we put into it.Our environment becomes a mirror of our spirit,our attitude,and expectations.If we keep a great attitude,we get great results.If we have a fair attitude,we accomplish fair results,and if we have a poor attitude,we accomplish poor results.The world will give you back what you expect,so expect the very best.Don't be defensive or doubtful.Nothing changes unless you do.Before you can do something,you've got to be something.Know that you have worth and value.Show that to the world.
Peace!!!
@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
30 Apr 12
You are pretty. You have a very good age. Very young or being old is sometimes not as welcome as having life experiences but still lots of youthful vitality. You are a person with bunny ears and smile. I think you have skills and education that you can be happy about too. You can be as you put it “be on myself” because you are a nice person I think, even though we are far away, I do sense this somehow. So perhaps you can find a way to make this happen. (I mean inside of you)
Someone wrote do not work for a corporation, let the corporation work for you. Do not let these people hurt you. People bully other people it is true but there are ways to handle bullies. It is doable skill to learn.
How do you feel today? How we feel today is never forever, for we do change how we feel often. When you started this discussion you felt sad I think. I’ve never been sad and angry at the same time. I get angry very angry and then I get sad after. Maybe, it is the same for you?
