Getting Married.

United States
May 1, 2012 4:39pm CST
I am in love with the man I am with. We are getting married before the end of the year. I told this smooth talking loser to leave me alone. He refused to take no for an answer. My fiancee was sitting right next to me when I told that loser to leave me alone! How many men/women want to talk to those who they tell to leave them alone because they do not like them and never need to deal with anyone who cheats and wants more than one person to date? What would you say to someone who says you have major self esteem issues because you don't want to be bothered by anyone that you tell to leave you alone? Only people who have self esteem issues are those who will never be faithful to the ones they are with! Also, to me, those who don't know you, because you do not want to deal with those you choose, should never make certain remarks when they do not know you at all! Who needs to deal with anyone, male or female that never takes no for an answer, then makes more comments when they never should have talked to you to begin with?
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8 responses
@yel812 (174)
1 May 12
damn, I never thought that there are people who does that in real life, maybe they are people who over watched those romantic movies where the man aggressively pursue the girl to make her belong to him again, but they are forgetting something, this is real life. What kind of a man will do that? I mean who does that? Try to call a police or hire a bodyguard, maybe that will do xD. Be careful when you're outside and just enjoy the moment getting married to the guy that you love. Just ignore that jerk guy and maybe he'll get tired of pursuing you. By the way, have you told him that his a jerk? Be careful with him, maybe he is a psycho xD TC always, enjoy the moment xD
• United States
1 May 12
Thank you. : ) There was a couple more times when this guy was bothering me. He was looking for a girlfriend and going about it in all the wrong ways! I have not seen that guy and as for the loser from last night. I will never see him again! : )
@yel812 (174)
2 May 12
hello desertrose, Good for you, I hope you'll have a happy and long lasting marriage life xD good thing you found a better guy than that jerk pursuing lunatic xP. Tc always
@mythociate (13827)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
1 May 12
'Why turn away toward a zero when you can help out your hero?' If the guy is bugging you, you should be able to join in on a conversation with your hubby and just ignore the zero!
• United States
1 May 12
I told the guy to leave me alone. One more comment to me then he did. I do not want to deal with anyone like him. I have better things to do, better ways to spend my time. : )
@KrauseHome (33259)
• United States
8 May 12
Personally it is Sad that so many Men out there are like this. Especially when they know you are married or with someone. Yes, it is a Self Esteem issue on their part and for them to even have the nerve to make comments makes you wonder. I work with someone.. actually he is on a different shift, who is always making comments to me, and I am married, and he knows it. The one I work with even claims to be a Christian so it takes all types.
@Dominique25 (9476)
• United States
3 May 12
I'm glad that you are in love with the man you are with. That really is a wonderful thing. It's important to love one another and know what you expect from your relationship before taking that big step of marriage. The person who kept bothering you just wanted to say something to get under your skin probably because he was embarrassed that you said no. Keep saying no as people these days are persistent and they don't seem to care whether you are with someone or not.One guy when I was doing some work came over and talked to me and my manager and he said that we should get together some time. I told him that I was married and he said that it doesn't matter because he is engaged. He said that it didn't have to be anything serious just have some fun at a condo he could put me up in. I was shocked and my manager even stated how sorry she felt for the girl that he is with. Guys like that are only concerned about one thing. Stay with the person you love and that loves you and don't pay any attention to those other men.
@Zammeee (66)
• Belgium
2 May 12
Report him to the authorities, and get him to court law. That's what I would do.
• Philippines
2 May 12
Pardon me in this response since I don't know exactly what had happened and what transpired within you and the other person to whom you have some problem with. If you are not feeling good and getting some negative treatment, what you've done is the right thing to do. I hope the guy will truly leave you alone since he's not the person who's treating you well. People like that are too many so let's be careful of who to be friends with. Have a great day ahead.
@viji_v2 (727)
• India
2 May 12
If that person is not taking your words, keeping silent as the weapon to deal them is the right choice. Just avoid that person and try not to meet or see that person anywhere. It will solve problem many times.
@vaishnavc (556)
• India
2 May 12
Just tell them to the face that you are not interested in talking to people like him.And if he is still there,they you could either give him a piece of your mind or you could ignore him and just have a conversation with your fiancée.And if you want to make it even more evident that you are not interested,give your fiancee a nice long kiss.That ought to put him off.