Be happy,everyone.

@Vivianh (331)
China
May 1, 2012 7:44pm CST
I think about many things recently,like baby,job,family,life,and so on.There're 1 month for the birth of my baby.It become more tired in the evening.Now I can feel the hard work of being a mom ,and it's also amazing of course.I know I have to be more and more happy and prepare everything ready for that day coming.
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@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
5 May 12
Don't think too much. Concentrate on your little angle who will soon lights up your day. I am pretty sure you are the most happiest mom the first time you hear your baby cries as if saying thank you mom for taking care of me for the past 9 months and thank you in advance for the tender loving care for the rest of my life.
@Vivianh (331)
• China
6 May 12
Thank you,Lance26.Yes,I will be the most happiest mom when the baby's coming
@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Is he/she your first baby? No wonder if you think too much. All first time moms are going through like you are. By the way Congratulations in advance.
• Russian Federation
2 May 12
yeah, happiness is the only reason of life we should do everything to make oneself happy. it depends on our attitude to people, job, ourselves. happiness isvery different. for some itis money, for others it is baby. but for me it isthat everything will be good to my parents. :)
@Vivianh (331)
• China
2 May 12
Thank u for your response.That's right.It's so different of everyone's happiness.We need to find ourselves.
• Russian Federation
2 May 12
i am happy you get me right. :) happy mylotting. :)
@dong88 (795)
• China
2 May 12
Congratulations to you soon to be a mom! Yes, with children, life becomes more busy, and even more tired, also, of course, will be more happy. Because of the child, life becomes very happy!
• India
2 May 12
Hey dong88 , Are you happy now ?
• Russian Federation
2 May 12
yes, i congratulate you too. it is a relly happiness to be a mom :) best wishes
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
5 May 12
Congratulations. I hope that your new lifestyle will be a smooth adjustment for you. It requires love and patience to take care of your child. Especially when we are new to the whole situation. Have patience and try not to get overly stressed. Remember children grow up so fast, so they will not always be that little.
@troore (1)
• China
2 May 12
Hi! Vivianh, congratulations to you firstly! I think the sense of pride and the surge of happiness of being a mom will worth all the weariness and hardships. So, keep going and the dawn is coming.
@Vivianh (331)
• China
2 May 12
Thank u for your response,troore!
@krupar5 (287)
• United States
2 May 12
Congrats Vivianh! The thought of motherhood can be overwhelming and I do not think any new mom really is ever prepared for their first child. People can read all the books on parenting, but you never know what to expect until you see the baby in your arms for the first time. It is truly an amzing experience, and no book in the world will answer all the questions you have. Do not feel upset if you are not overjoyed about the baby, that also is normal. There is alot that changes when we have children, but in the end it goes fast and treasure the time you have.As long as you give the child unconditional love you will succeed at being a good mother.
@Vivianh (331)
• China
2 May 12
Hi,krupar5!You're right.There's no book will answer the questions about the baby and how to be good parents.Maybe we just have to pay more attention for the new role,of course it will be more tired than before.I agree with u that maybe I'm not prepared everything for the baby.What I think about all the time is the articles for daily use but the mood.Maybe I need pay more time for that plan.
@Archaiwy (599)
• China
2 May 12
Hi. Firstly congratulations .you are the mother of a newly baby.you must be very happy.but i think you must be very tired at the present time. because feeding the newly baby calls for much work like feeding milk to the baby,exchanging diapers, cooking nourishing dishes for the mother.but it's a happy thing ,just like somebody said,they are tired and happy.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
2 May 12
Hi Vivianh, first congrats on the up coming one of greatest day if not the greatest, in life. Children are certain a blessing in a parents life,they do truly bring happiness to our lives.. hang in there, it will be "soup" soon...lol.. I am sure you are totally prepared for the newby.. Congrats again...
• India
2 May 12
Hey Vivianh, First of all congrats for being a father. It is quite common to become tired by our works and we people know that we have a very hot dry climate this is the one of the reason for it. Any way this the time you couple need your presence. Try to stay from your works and keep little time with her. Try to find smile in your couples lips. I am telling so becuase the attitude and the present condition of your wife reflect in your child. Try to make her happy. Be at your best you can.
@Lida2010 (84)
• Colombia
2 May 12
Hi Vivianh. Hang in there. Believe me it gets a bit better as the child starts growing, then you will be able to have fun with the baby. Starting out as a new mom is overwhelming, as there is no manual for that, but I do recommend that you enjoy every moment. Children are blessings and although they can make us want to pull our hair out at times, motherhood is rewarding.