Do you say "sorry" in every fault you've done in your partner?

@mobhomeir (7565)
Philippines
May 3, 2012 6:21pm CST
Hello again guys, I was wondering how many of us who cares for a relationship (husband and wife or sweethearts) would care to say sorry in every mistakes done on both sides.Well, it is most likely no problem with sweethearts because it is far more different than being husband and wife already. I am just honest, we never do it in our relationship right now. Whenever both of committed mistakes or whatever wrongly done it is really hard for both of us to say sorry though obviously it was really his/her mistakes. Most likely no one would admit that leads to big arguments instead. What's your share of this my friend... Mobhomeir here 050412 0720hrs
11 responses
@dubbc3 (125)
• United States
4 May 12
If I feel I'm wrong in a relationship, I apologize. Even if I feel I'm not wrong, I apologize if I see my mate is hurt. I think it's important to apologize. It's just another way to let your mate know you care. Some people think it's unneccesary to say "sorry" for every little thing that hurts their partner. The more you know about your mate, the better. You know what bothers him/her so well, an apology is easy when you know you've messed up with them.
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
5 May 12
Perfectly said my friend, I sincerely appreciate your attitude. How I wish I could also be like you. Well, I know I could do that for as long pride will be lowered down. Happy weekend my friend..and thanks for your respond.. Mobhomeir here 050512 1122hrs
@loonys (418)
13 May 12
Lol he never did reply to me.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Hi loonys I am sorry i thought you're not interested my number anymore because I am already married.....No, the figures you saw were not my number but "a date and time" when I replied any discussions...thanks and I am sorry.. Mobhomeir here 051712 1504hrs
@vaishnavc (556)
• India
4 May 12
I don't always say sorry.When we are having arguments,i will not care if it is my fault or not.I will yell at her.But once i calm down,i will feel sorry for it and i will apologise.But i don't apologise to just anyone.I apologise to her because i love her and i don't want to see her cry anymore.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
5 May 12
Hello my friend. Let me have a wild guess why you are like that..just a wild guess. Your just maybe spoiled by your girl friend. Maybe you know pretty sure how much she loves you. But, as what you said, you can't afford to see your girl crying because of your mess up.Don't get mad...I am just kidding because we have same attitude...Nice weekend my friend..be at peace always at your girlfriend. Mobhomeir here 050512 1157hrs
• India
5 May 12
I don't know about being spoiled by my girlfriend.But i guess you are right that i love her and she loves me.
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
4 May 12
I say sorry when i make a fault with my boyfriend. Sometime i want to stop debating about who makes mistakes, i also say sorry too. I hate arguing then even i don't make a mistake, i will say sorry and then the debate is end.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
5 May 12
That/s right my friend, keep on arguing something between two people and no one will low down creates huge trouble...you have a good quality attitude, you're a humble person I guess. Keep it up..humble person reach farther in his life... Thanks for responding my friend.. Mobhomeir here 050512 1125hrs
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
6 May 12
a humble person? umh, you are the first person who told me like that. I have to ask some my closed friend to know whether i am a humble person or not...
@ShyBear88 (17062)
• United States
4 May 12
Any time I do something wrong or hurt my husband I tell him sorry and any time he does something to me he says he sorry. If we didn't do anything then that person isn't going to say sorry for what the other did. I'll own up to my mistakes and my husband will own up to his own as well.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
5 May 12
I envy my friend. I wish we could do it also. Honestly it never happened to us. We just keep quite and let the time heal the trouble. I am just afraid - what if tomorrow never comes after the UN-pacified quarrel. Hope not to us... Thanks my friend for responding... Mobhomeir here 050512 1119hrs
@ShyBear88 (17062)
• United States
5 May 12
Well to me that means you two aren't honest and open with each other. If one of us did something we will admit because its clarly one of our faults and will man up to, weather it makes us both or one of us upset. It wasn't mean to hurt each other but in love you have to fight and work it out other wise its never really over just letting it go is putting it on the back burner for later when things get over filled with emotions that it just burst out in all the wrong places.
@cloud31 (5811)
4 May 12
Hello again my friend, it was really sad when couples can't apologize with each other after long period staying together, or maybe the love that binds you make the relationship become more realistic.Have you heard about,"LOVE IS NEVER HAVING TO SAY YOUR SORRY"? maybe thats the reason.Let the love manage the rest of situations.Whoever get the fault just let it be since you love each other you can just forgive and let it past. During courtship maybe its easier to ask an apology otherwise it will end to break ups.But in your case,maybe the situations having a test to your patience and understanding. I never heard my parents saying "sorry" with each other.They explain and HUG! and forget. Just give a hug to her friend its more than saying sorry.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
5 May 12
That was sweet my friendit is like "action speaks louder than words" right? Appreciate that. For us, I think it happened once but that was few years after we got married...but now, i don't think we did it again. Well, just a sort of reminder for you my friend since you are still thinking of marrying or not..lol..before you got married you must have to have a signed contract from you husband to be that you would have to say sorry whoever did wrong, whoever the culprit of the trouble between you and him lol... Happy week end my dear friend... Mobhomeir here 050512 1116hrs
@cloud31 (5811)
6 May 12
I will keep your advice with me my friend..I will eventually do that. But it seems that I'm not going to marry this time yet uh'uh! I think you're guessing right now.. haha Have Blessed sunday!
• Philippines
5 May 12
I use to say sorry and apologize to my boyfriend whenever we have problems. Whether it my fault or him, I say sorry when I get mad on each other. But it's still depends on the situation. :)
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Oh I see, just be careful because if your realize this humble attitude you have to him he might be spoiled and you know what would happen next...just remember, everything that is too much is not really good...Thanks for responding my friend.. Mobhomeir here 050612 0941hrs
@yel812 (174)
4 May 12
There are some people who say sorry by doing or giving something after they have committed a mistake to the person that they love, in psychology it is a defense mechanism called "undoing". For other people, they can easily say sorry for the mistake that they have done.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
5 May 12
Yes my friend and there are still people doing it. Well, the phrase is really true, "action speaks louder than words"..Happy weekend my friend...and thanks a lot for responding my discussion... Mobhomeir here 050512 1209hrs
@arlera (86)
4 May 12
hi, im a person who will always say sorry if i was wrong,but what i have noticed my partner he may say it but its as if u have to beg him to.whats so wrong about saying sorry to the person you love rather than feeling youre to big to apologize its a small word,but sometimes it would mean so much if youre wrong to just say it.
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
5 May 12
Yes that's right my friend. For me being a husband I have also an attitude like your partner. I don't know why? I guess it is because of the pride of the husband. Yes, I admit that and I know I am really wrong. It is just that I can't really say so. But, deep in my heart I accept my fault, I said sorry to my self that supposedly for my partner. I am really crazy...I hope I can overcome it the soonest as possible before it would be too late...Nice weekend my friend.. Mobhomeir here 050512 1206hrs
• Philippines
4 May 12
yes indeed.I say sorry even if i think that he was wrong yet I hurt him with my words and actions.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
5 May 12
Yes..i understand. Most likely almost every one would be out of their mind whenever they are at the midst of anger. We uttered words that's impossible for us to say whenever we are at peace with anyone. As human being this is normal but if we know sincerely how to say how deep sorry we are - I think our apology would be acceptable to the concern party. Happy weekend my friend...and thanks for responding... Mobhomeir here 050512 1202hrs
@almond24 (1250)
• Hungary
4 May 12
It might change with time, but it's not that hard for me to say sorry. I apologize almost always when I make a mistake, or even if it was not my fault, but I see that my love is hurt (sometimes I just assume he is because I would be hurt if it was me). I can't stay angry for more than a few hours and can't stand being mad at either.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
5 May 12
You must be a humble kind of person my friend. That's one good quality that other people don't have. You're lucky to have that good quality, I envy. Keep it up. Thanks for responding..and happy weekend my dear friend.. Mobhomeir here 050512 1128hrs
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@loonys (418)
3 May 12
Is that your number? call me Oh I'm sorry your not single.
@dubbc3 (125)
• United States
4 May 12
loonys, I understand. (wink) He's not single.
@shibham (17025)
• India
13 May 12
@mel. Its is 5 April, 2012 ; 7:20am. So sad to u. Lol. Atleast i was single and offered love and u rejected. Huh.
@loonys (418)
13 May 12
question mark for shiby.