tell me how to love someone again

@adhyz82 (36289)
Indonesia
May 5, 2012 2:16am CST
its my feeling maybe i dont know how to love the first time someone is my feeling cold now?? or??
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11 responses
• Indonesia
12 May 12
I dont think I can give any advice regarding to your situation, actually I feel that way too. I could fall in crush easily but to fall in love with someone is a different thing. it will be awkward if I gave advice to you but then i dont even apply it in my life. To tell the truth, the only one who can answer the question you asked is you and yourself. you are the only one who knows what kind of person that suit you. Maybe you are afraid to be broken again. I dont want to say that you will find the right person at the right time, I believe it takes two to tango. what I mean is that aside from praying and waiting for the right person to come, you need to open yourself and your heart so your soulmate will find you.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
12 May 12
maybe the situation is suitable for you or maybe the story was inspired by your experienced.. c`mon..wake up... life is so short so why we must be sad because one person??
• Indonesia
12 May 12
Hahahahaha...why me? I dont have problem being a single. Im just too in love with me, myself and I. By the way, last friday I met my dad's ex employee and I was like "ouch...he is not as gorgeous as I thought, im dissapointed that I mistaken him with other person". Im hard to please, it is just too complicated for me to fall in love.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
13 May 12
wait a minute i really don`t understand.. you regret know your lover??
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• Russian Federation
5 May 12
the first time? you just are interested in one personand then the feelings begin to grow. i love one person now i think he feels the same way. but he behaves strange and i feel awkward. really awkward
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
5 May 12
why you must be awkward?? because you are shy?? its not the first time for me vic..it was not the first time you can read my tittle, again..it means i ever love someone..
• Russian Federation
6 May 12
haha i do not know. it just happens. may be shy may be not. it depends. aww then that is cool. :) you will be able to recognise if it is a real love or not.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
6 May 12
shy? shy because what?
@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
5 May 12
We really can't tell you how to love again. Just try to look for yourself first and when you are ready, you will know it eventually. You may be cold because you have recently been hurt or due to a bad experience with love, but love is a feeling that no one could ever escape. So, you will find love once you are ready to feel it.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
5 May 12
why you didn`t tell me??am i cold now? i dont know...maybe because iam tired too many bad action from someone in my past..maybe..
@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
6 May 12
No, you are not cold, you are just not ready to fall in love again. Just take your time and enjoy life.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
6 May 12
so what can i do now gaiza??
@celticeagle (117714)
• Boise, Idaho
6 May 12
Friendship is a good way to begin. Learn about this person and spend time. Love will either come or it won't. Life is such that people are brought into our lives for a reason. It is not always to love but to intertwine these people into our lives and learn something from them. Don't try to force feelings where ther are none.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
6 May 12
i see.. so love can be learnt by making friends with someone?
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@celticeagle (117714)
• Boise, Idaho
6 May 12
No. It can't be 'learnt'. A man and a woman who are friends may grow to love one another.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
6 May 12
i see so love is automatically grow..
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• Singapore
5 May 12
Hey,dude,try to be more optimistic. Love is not something that you can control. If you love someone, just speak it out and tell her, you can never get her if she does not know you love her~
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
5 May 12
i dont know how to be optimistic my friend
• Singapore
5 May 12
Just look at the bright side, my friend. There are millions of nice girls out there for you to choose from, there is no need for you to stick with one girl if she doesn't love you.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
5 May 12
really?? but iam afraid the millions girl hurt me again
@MoonGypsy (4613)
• United States
5 May 12
no one can teach to you love. love is THE CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE and a manifestation of THE CREATOR. it was in you when you were born. the more abstract it is the the more real it actually becomes.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
5 May 12
so do you think love did not need to be taught??
• Russian Federation
5 May 12
of course, it is a special feeling:)
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
5 May 12
so what about the special feeling?? we did not need learning our special feeling?? btw, i like your avatar..its very funny for me
@Renhard (3480)
• Jamaica
5 May 12
You see love you have to find on your own. You cant force it and you cant teach it. You will know once you have it. I know it is possible to feel cold hearted to somebody and sometimes you actually do love somebody but still because of some incident in the past or something, it puts a wall between that love. If you want to love some one, possibly the wall is in the way. No one can teach you how to love but possibly through practise and trial and error you might be able to weaken that wall so the love can come through. I hope I have helped even a little bit
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
6 May 12
renhard, so what can we do if we can`t force the love feeling??
@Renhard (3480)
• Jamaica
8 May 12
You cant force it but don't get me wrong you can truthfully start to love that person again. It all depends on how different you see that person. You may find that you just found out something new about the person and that brings out a new feeling. I can't tell you what exactly to do. But if I wanted to love someone, I would start doing some bonding activities with that person. grow a little bond. And through those activities i might find some interesting thing in the person that i adore.
@Zer0Stats (1316)
• India
5 May 12
Love is not something that you gotta have to learn it's something that just happens.You feel it deep within you..deeper than the ocean and feel like no matter the struggle you must go through.But I think it's not for everyone..
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
5 May 12
why??sometimes we must learn about love too..
@Zer0Stats (1316)
• India
13 May 12
Actually it lives within us,we just need to recognise it and nurture it to grow and spread,contagiously if possible.
@videnom (99)
• Romania
12 May 12
it has to be natural
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
13 May 12
why it become so natural??
• Philippines
7 May 12
I think love will come to you in the right time. Try to socialize, make new friends, go to new places and explore different things and someday, in your journey, you will find the right one for you. Goodluck! :)
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
7 May 12
so, if the loves never comes to us, what can we must to do??
@mikyung (2234)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Loving someone again is like returning to your hometown. Rediscover the things the things you loved about her or even discover a new reason to like and eventually love her. Love flows in a mysterious ways. Enjoy...
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
7 May 12
i try to enjoy the love situation mikyung... but sometimes the love can`t be understood and make many complicated situation for my life..