How to deal with your step mother?

Philippines
May 6, 2012 6:25am CST
let me know your advice guys... thanks...
3 responses
@cupkitties (7176)
• United States
6 May 12
Is there a specific problem that you are having with your step mother? We can better help you if we knew this.
• Philippines
6 May 12
hi tnx for your reply, actually its my friend, she's having dealing with her step mom, maybe bec. lack of communication
• United States
6 May 12
Ah. well, the best way I've found in dealing with my step mom is to just not expect anything from her because she isn't my mom after all. Everyone has a different relationship with their step parents though. If her problem is just communication then she needs to put forward the effort to fix it. She should get her step mom to herself some time and have a talk with her. Perhaps this can help to solve her issues.
• Pasay, Philippines
6 May 12
"How to deal with her" in terms of what, Ed? If you're going to ask me; don't deal with it. Nothing will change -_-") Stay the same stepson as it should be. Do not please her in a lot of ways and such. She's still going to think of youas it is. Trust me; call it an advice from a "stepdaughter". Based in experience; no matter how much I make the most to please her; nothing change. That's it. If you can't stand her; then get off from the heat if you can't bear it. Have a happy day mylotting.
• Canada
6 May 12
Well, I may not be of much help to you but I will share anyway. One of my parents is gay so I have two stepmothers. One I have absolutely no contact with and the other is such an amazing person, I really don't find myself having to deal with her. I enjoy having her in my life and love her dearly. Step parents can come with challenges or can be absolutely wonderful...and everything in between. You may be someone that needs to avoid your stepmother or not take her too seriously. Whatever the situation, best of luck.