love really hurts :(
By arceusvb25
@arceusvb25 (45)
Philippines
9 responses
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
12 May 12
Yeah I agree with you.It is really crazy the amount of hurt and pain we feel when someone doesn't love us. When they don't love us enough to spend time with us or tell us how much they appreciate us. It is often too late when they realize just how important we are to them or that we could have been. I hope that within time you will find someone who loves you back.
@BetterDays4Me (3777)
• Philippines
12 May 12
Yes, I too experienced loving someone who didn't return the love I was giving or expecting in return. Anyway, what comes into my mind when a certain relationship you wanted to happen didn't happen are the words "it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all..." Experiencing failure in love I believe is a way to strengthen us and give us more wisdom and experience to deal better with the future love that we will experience...and at the same time, I do feel blest having experienced that 'loving feeling' and oftentimes we may not know that the other person loves us too but felt some hesitation due to some reasons that probably make them feel the relationship won't work in the end. I always keep in mind that we only choose the right partner once, and it should be someone I would be willing to spend my whole life with in my lifetime...
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
16 May 12
I agree with you completely. I have thought about that saying many times in my past. When I had a relationship that I wanted to work but didn't. I thought about it for many years afterwards as well. Hopefully even though we have been through those hard times we will be able to still find a great love in the future.
@kajal1992 (354)
• India
12 May 12
Hmm my dear friend :) seems to be newbie in love! Yeah love tastes good at begenning at it hurts as its grow old, generally it happens at your teen ages, love is something which essence lots of care an responsibility which is very tough to maintain by every person, you might care about these and he/she might not care about these and vice versa. Love is not enjoyable until you both don't get to know what we need to do. Its better now to keep concentrate on your life and studies. Don't love anyone that you can't concentrate on anything else other than love.
@sayo13 (414)
• India
12 May 12
hello friend,
love is not any easy task and it takes a lot of pain and dedication to make the realtionship work and stand on its feet.
yes one sided love is the painful one and i wish no one face this kind of pain in life.The person whom you love so much do not love you, and it is more painful to watch him/her with some one else.
I have one friend in college life, she was madly in love with a guy in her class,she used to think that this guy liked her, but in realty this guy fall for another girl of the same class.my friend used to think that this guy knows about her feeling, and some day he will propose to her,but it turns out to be a complete different scenario.he was going around with that other girl and when my friend came to know about this she had cried the hell out of her, she even stopped studying.I was the one who was aware of all this and i had to keep her strong, consoling her in what ever way possible.that moment i realized how much it hurts for this one sided love. I wish no one face this kind of pain in life.
@limechavez05 (67)
• Philippines
15 May 12
Always expect for the worse, so that in the end, you don't hurt yourself that much.
@cloud31 (5809)
•
12 May 12
It hurts when you love a person who can't love you back. But it hurts more when you force yourself to love a person you really don't.
If the one close to you has a feeling on you then you feel the same rather fall inlove with that person otherwise it cause you pain...
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
12 May 12
Were you committed to that person? If that so, it is going to be very painful. I have been there and honestly I am still not prepared to see them personally though they didn't last.
