borrowing money

@swapmind (357)
Australia
May 12, 2012 11:13pm CST
I hate people who borrow money and never play a responsible role to return it back. I have seen the attitude of people varies at the time when they need money and entirely different when they are asked to return.This process has many a times hindered my investment process.
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
13 May 12
I have three friends who borrowed money from me and didn't return it back. I lost my money and I lost my friends.
@swapmind (357)
• Australia
13 May 12
yep it happens many times that we end up loosing relations.so the terms of lending and borrowing should be very clear even if it sometimes sound straight.
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
13 May 12
Yeah I know. I learned my lesson.
@Hadena (47)
• Indonesia
13 May 12
last year my neighbor borrow money, she reasoned to go out of town, she promised to return my money when she came back, but until now she has not return my money. once when we met in the street, she was pretending not to see me, lowered her head. lend money to people who need the money is good.but sometimes the person that loaned money can not be trusted, only a few people who can be trusted with its promised
@swapmind (357)
• Australia
13 May 12
rightly said but its hard to judge a person untill you have one bad experience with them.appearances are often depective.
• Malaysia
16 Feb 13
agree with you the different attitude that when my friend come to ask me to borrow him/her money, my standard answer would be hello bro I work as mechanic, earning is so low and not enough lo. is not that I don't want to borrow but I don't the money. actually I don't have the money and I don't want the issue of money become serious to broken the friendship that have built been long time lo. ya i did have observed the issue and hate it so much
@SomeCowgirl (32265)
• United States
31 Aug 12
My friends and I are the type of people that if we borrow money, we pay it back, or we give things for it. We never borrow too much from each other though. We're too close of friends to let money ruin our friendship. I don't like people who will borrow and never return it, I tend to not borrow from them.
• Philippines
13 May 12
Indeed they are really different when you ask for their payment. Sometimes they are not home, not feeling well and so many reasons. Why are they commiting and promising a date when they can't really pay on that day. So sad.