they are together again as what i expected!

Philippines
May 16, 2012 12:11am CST
As what i am expecting, despite the fact that i and my bestfriend was hurt, she's back with his stupid psycho guy! My bestfriend just got back in that guy who just tried to ruin my family and hit her. Now my best friend did not talked to me neither go to m son's first birthday knowing that she's my son's God mother. I do not know what's the matter why she doesn't talk to me even text me or call me. Maybe that guy just twisted the whole story and made her believed that i was the one flirting him. Oh i am very paranoid. That giy would ruin our relationship as best friends. He's so psycho! I just hope he will not hit my best friend again and cheat again for the fourth time agaoin.
16 responses
@lynboobsy11 (11347)
• Philippines
16 May 12
I don't blame her maybe she's too blind because she is inlove. I know someday she will realize it when he hit your bestfriend again and regretting she chooses that psycho over you.
• Philippines
16 May 12
Yeah mom.. maybe someday she'll realize that she made the wrong decision.. goodluck to her.
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@jaiho2009 (39084)
• Philippines
16 May 12
I also wonder if martyr's still exists in this modern times :xx
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@lynboobsy11 (11347)
• Philippines
16 May 12
hehehe at the same time Jai she is blind.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
16 May 12
What???? she still did not come to her senses? oh man love is blind..or that even love at all? i do not know what to say as your friend is pretty naive and stupid... sorry for using that word, but maybe this time let her decide on her own and i hope she won't get hurt again.
• Philippines
17 May 12
It's just feels bad..really.. i feel like i was out of placed.. she's not calling me and texting me.. am i that stupid for her to treat me like this? If she wants to be with him, she should have told me in the first place so i won't bother her anymore.. sigh..
@GemmaR (8527)
16 May 12
I had a friend like this when I was younger, and would always be in this situation. The guy in question would always pretend that I had been flirting with him in order to try and make my friend stay away from me so that he could have her all to himself. I didn't think that this was fair at the time, but she was blinded by love and therefore there was absolutely nothing that we could do about it. The only thing that you can really do is to stay loyal to her and make sure that you're there for her when this guy hurts her again, which he certainly will if he is everything that you say that he is.
• Philippines
17 May 12
Well i guess.. there are many people like her.. really.. well there's nothing i can do but to wait for her to call me again.. anyway if anything happens to her again.. it will be her own fault because i warned her. Its juat too sad that she did not considered that her guy was yo destroy my own family. Ppfftt.. sigh..
@jaiho2009 (39084)
• Philippines
16 May 12
hello ann, I have faced this kind of situation. I never thought, never in my wildest dream that after helping and giving all my best, I was crucified in the end. I hope your friend will realize how much you care for her. Sometimes- we've given too much, but the other party didn't seem to feel or appreciate everything we did. Anyway, you have done your part and that matters most. Someday your friend will see/find the truth and hope it's not too late. have a good day and belated Happy Birthday to your son
• Philippines
17 May 12
Thank you jai.. it just feels bad when youve' done everything and in the end, you are out of place.. well if she really love that guy, she should have told me so i won't be hurt. Anyway i cannot do anythinh if that's her decision right.
• United States
16 May 12
man i can't believe she went back with him! what happened..... she doesn't know that he flirted with you and wanted to do stuff with you? i feel bad for her and especially you the know who has to take the blame and not talk to your bestie
• Philippines
16 May 12
Me too.. i cannot believe it.. maybe that psycho guy just casted spells to my friend that's why she cannot resist the guy! Well too bad for her.. she'll undergo a series of changes again..
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
8 Aug 12
I think you need to talk personally to your best friend for you to hear her side. If you think the guy twisted the story, it is better for you to tell her the real story and if your friend don't believe in what you will say, let he believe what she want to believe because in the right time she will know what is really true.
@dpk262006 (52377)
• Delhi, India
17 May 12
Hi ann! I think if your friend is not concerned about you and she is reportedly back with a psycho guy, my view is - you should distance yourself away from her.
@Janky23 (54)
17 May 12
Just let your bestfriend be what she wanted. Later on she will realize that what she did to her life is not good knowing that her boyfriend cheated her. Don't bother to call her let her the one to contact you. She will realize someday that what you are doing is to make her on the right path and also you should stay away from that psycho guy.[b][/b][i][/i][u][/u]
• Canada
17 May 12
Jerry, Jerry, Jerry..!! Sorry, couldn't pass that up... Sounds to me this lady is possessed with the feeling of helplessness, and the fact that she feels that she cannot find a better guy. There are so many women out there that are like that, it sad! I seen my mother go through this while growing up, she was afraid that she wouldn't find anyone else to love her, as this man made her feel unattractive, and abused her on a daily basis. ... She's not talking to you because her bf is controlling her every move.
• United States
16 May 12
That reminds me of the loser my child is with after he hit her a few times. I cant stand the loser. He could never say a word to me ever again. I would not show him any respect at all. Your friend listened to what that man said to her that is why you have not heard from her. she deserves what she gets if she take him back after all he did to her.
• Philippines
16 May 12
This is a sad thing to happen and I am sorry to hear this. I guess you just wait for your friend to realize what she has gotten her self into. Abusive relationship is something we never wanted to happen to our friends but if you have done your part in saving her and still she opt to stay in the relationship, then I guess you are not liable in case something bad happened to the relationship again. Let's just hope for the best that your friend will come to her senses soon.
@apickett (123)
• United States
16 May 12
There are some women that just seem as though they feel that they can not do any better so they get with or stay with abusive men. I'm sorry that your friend has not talked to you or texted you. That's sad that she would choose this man over you all's friendship, but sadly "love is blind" so the saying goes. I hope your friend wakes up and realizes that this man is no good for her and he will just continue to try to ruin her in the long run. People can change, but his track record isn't too good from what you say. Blessings!
@obe212003 (2302)
• Philippines
16 May 12
For some obvious reason, your friend's affection for this guy is undeniable. The rationality of her believing in this nutcase guy is probably the overwhelming emotion that have blinded her to see the truth and just felt being happy and content in his arms despite your warnings.
@WakeUpKitty (8711)
• Netherlands
16 May 12
Why you blame that guy for what your friend is doing? It is/was her decision to be with him again. So it's her decision too to ignore your calls/text and not to show up at your son's birthday! If that guy is able to ruin your friendship it's only because your friend is accepting it, is willin to do more for him as for you. So you better ask yourself what this friendship is really worth. Sounds to me she prefers to stay with him, no matter if he hits her or not. Otherwise she would have quit with the relationship since she know she would be not alone and have you for a friend. So till the moment she will decide to leave him because she doesn't like the beating ups and cheating anymore, there is nothing left over for you as to accept this relationship and her choice(s).
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
16 May 12
Maybe she is avoiding you for now because her boyfriend doesn't want her to hang out or talk to you. I think your friend really love that man even she knew the truth. Maybe she forgave him. I think you just need to wait until she calls you back.
• Philippines
16 May 12
hi ann, this is sad I also had issues with my bestfriend before but we both tried to fixed things up I don't see her for a years but last month she tried to contact me and we are trying to patch things up. Well just try to understand her in time she will realized how much you mean to her if she is crazy in love with this guy then he can make your bestfriend believe eveything he says. happy mylotting