my sweet wife's birthday

India
May 21, 2012 12:07pm CST
i am little confused because on may 22 is our 1st wedding annuvesary and may24 is my wife's 2nd birthday after our marriage...today my pocket was empty..so little confused,what i have to give to her? i know she knows the weight od my pocket.. she can understand...that is the big problem...really i love her
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22 responses
@irene66 (1671)
• Philippines
22 May 12
soorajsrs, do not pumper your wife with something material. I mean, giving material things to your wifey might spoil her Besides your wife is understands your "pocket" Better get her to bed and do your thing!
@irene66 (1671)
• Philippines
22 May 12
pink flowers - this is not just a bunch of flowers but the most thoughtful way of celebrating birthday
oooopppppssss! ! I am not yet finish. You might add a bunch of flowers to be placed on the bedside table if you wish before you grab her on bed. My hubby did the same giving me flowers on my birthday and it is what is more important than buying expensive things. Just the thought of giving lovely flowers or making an effort is enough!
@ravisivan (14053)
• India
22 May 12
irene: yes you also concur with my views. great. getting a few flowers or sweets on birth day+anniversary is good. also tell a few good points about her to her. she will feel happy.
• India
22 May 12
ok irene,getting her to bed is a fixed only...everybody should do it na..yesterday my pocket was empty..but now its filled with indian bugs.irene when is your wedding anniversary
@else22 (4319)
• India
22 May 12
Congratulations.You really are a nice and happy couple.Why are you worrying?If she understands your financial condition,then I think,there's nothing for you to worry.And never forget one thing.Marriage is all about love.Money has nothing to do with it.Money is essential for survival.So we can't avoid it,but if your wife is aware of the weight on your pocket,then that's more than ok.You needn't give anything to your dear wife.Give her the most precious thing- your love.She will never forget it.And I am sure she would understand it.
• India
24 May 12
first of all thanks for your wish..i am not worring because she knows the weight of my wallet. so she never argue anything that she need it. i have purchased something specials...that i mentioned in a new discussion.
@else22 (4319)
• India
24 May 12
Something special! Great! The one thing she needs most is your love and your love only.You are fortunate,dear,to be blessed with such a nice and loving life partner.I wish you both an exceptionally great,colorful and evergreen married life.
• United States
21 May 12
Why don't you look around your kitchen an see if you can make a special meal for her. That would be something you could do an she will love it.
• India
22 May 12
thats already fixed..we planned to arrange a party on 24 may evening....chicken biriyani...chef is me itself
• India
22 May 12
is it your own site ? worderfull... i couldnt open this site...SCAMMMMMMMMM
@louievill (20321)
• Philippines
21 May 12
No problem if you are really hard pressed then just join the 2 occasions to a single one and give a gift that is befitting 2 occasions ( you already saved). I understand what you mean and you want to give your wife the best, I'm like you, but if like you said your pocket is really empty then good wives understand, save for next year, promise , and do not break the promise.... or else haha...., I'm sure she will still understand cause she is a good wife
@ravisivan (14053)
• India
22 May 12
louievill: do not worry. somehow somebody will come by evening and give some thing to rejoice or remember. you can dispose off some old newspaper, get some money and buy some sweets for your better half. convey our birth day greeting to her and happy marriage anniversary.
• India
22 May 12
hai ravisivan,you are really great.. thats the best idea.. already i could arrange money.otherwise i would surely do what u said..thanks
@thanks1961 (7046)
• India
22 May 12
Hi Soorja, Just buying and giving can be ignored and go for a economy dinner and and get something cheap but worth and memorable to her. It can be anything small and sweet but less costlier. Find somethig like and as it is your first in the series, think of something can be kept for long and can be preserved for ever. I am not suggesting anything because what comes your mind is the best and it should be of your own choice. My best wishes in advance. Nice day
• India
24 May 12
really thanks a lot for your wishess. anyway i have submitted
@bagumbayan (2707)
• Philippines
22 May 12
JUST SAY I love you happy birthday and happy anniversary with feelings. Thats all
• India
22 May 12
that i said as u told...
22 May 12
True love never needs a big thing to prove that it's really true. Your wife already knows that you are having problem about the budget. Why not make simple things but romantic. Just like surprise her something the first time she open her eyes. Or do things that you think it's really special for her and she couldn't forget it. If you want to ask her for a date, why not make it in your home. You can use candles to light your special night.
• India
22 May 12
wow....romantic guy you are... from your words i felt u have a big experience in this field..right?
@ravisivan (14053)
• India
22 May 12
sooraj: you are also from India - kerala. relax. this was situation when i was in your age. Get her Cadburys milk chocolate for Rs.5 or Rs.10 and take her to nearby temple. There if she likes wearing flowers you can spend Rs.10 and get her that. she will regard them more valuable. it is not the money that is required to make your wife happy.
• India
22 May 12
ya i am from kerala..nice to meet you... i know most of the people have the same problem as i said. some of them will tell...some will hide.
@alberello (4755)
• Italy
21 May 12
Well, in the meantime, my best wishes for your first wedding anniversary! Consequently, it is also fair to remember precisely the date of May 24 is the birthday of your sweet wife. This I say, two parties in just two days, so it seems obvious, to celebrate the whole, a unique gift. I have no idea what to advise them to give, however, in all ways something not too exaggerated, because from what you wrote in your thread, say clearly that when "your pockets are empty!" What matters in these circumstances is the thought, or even a simple gift, but the important thing is that since the heart!
• India
22 May 12
HA HA ...U R ALSO IN MY STAGE....CONFUSION!!!!...good. any way thanks for the wishes..
• United States
21 May 12
Maybe get her a present that works for both days. Or at least a card for both. My birthday is two days from mother's day so when I have kids I imagine this will definately be a problem. I have a present this year to my mom that counted for her birthday which is also in May, and Mother's day as well because it was too expensive to do both. A card for both days works well though.
• India
22 May 12
thats a good idea. i thought about card before. but my parents said that if i buy a gift it should be useful for her.
@adhyz82 (36262)
• Indonesia
29 May 12
iam late responding here.. now it is 29 May in my time.. so whats happen in may 22 and May 24?/
• Pamplona, Spain
29 May 12
Hiya sooraj., Love is the best present really but of course you want to be able to give her a present. Have you managed to find a way to get her a present? If not I am sure she has understood that hard times can hit anyone but things can get better and buy her something then if not. xxx
@weye13 (114)
• Philippines
23 May 12
First of all, you are very sweet to think of a gift for your wife. Anyway, when it comes to gifts, you don't have to give material gifts for your anniversary and birthday. Perhaps you can make her breakfast or cook a romantic dinner for her. What is her favorite food? Perhaps that is what you should cook for her. Then you can decorate your place with some roses and have dinner by candlelight to add a romantic feel. You can also play romantic music. If you have a song that you both love, then you should include that in your playlist. If you feel that you must give her a material gift, then if it's a token make sure it is something that has meaning for the two of you and preferably something she can bring with her so she will always remember you. Advanced happy anniversary to you and your wife and happy birthday to her.
@cher913 (25890)
• Canada
22 May 12
you could write her a poem, write down all the things you love about her, make her a nice card or you could take her on a picnic. gifts don't have to cost a lot of money.
• China
22 May 12
Oh dear,why are you embarrassed and remorse?Since your wife can understand you,what a happy matter it is!You don't need to give her expensive things,but you must have a good expression of your mind,i believe preparing a sumptuous dinner for her is more than enough!
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
22 May 12
Gift her the most lovely gift 'flowers'...arrange your place with something special...more over be the romantic person you cud ever be..best of luck
@Manasha (2318)
• Pondicherry, India
22 May 12
everything happens in our life and never worry and you are the perfect gift to your wife on her birthday. GREAT WISHES
@cloud31 (5811)
22 May 12
Wedding anniversary and Birthday - Happy anniversary and Happy Birthday cake...
Hmppp...a romantic song will make her happy.There is no need to give her a thing to make woman happy. You can bring her to walk and sing while holding her hands.She would appreciate that and find it sweet.If you know how to play guitar that will be more romantic. She will understand that your pocket is empty so you can't afford something for her this time.In your previous discussion you describe her as open minded, so she will surely understand.Spend time with her and do something special and cook a simple meal for you to share not necessary a luxurious celebration. Husband and wife will can always fit themselves in everything that would make their marriage work and shows how they love each other. Happy Anniversary with you both and please extend my greeting to your wife, a blessed happy birthday.
• China
22 May 12
Are there any small mountain ?you can go there to pick a lot of flowers. then put them in front of your wife. Second, you have no money ?even one cent? Then you can to borrow some money from your friends to prepare some dinner never eaten before ,like other country's vegetables. then with cosmetic.some promise,some action! Congratulation it is your marriage aniversary! it is your wife's birthday!
• United States
22 May 12
for the wedding anivesary write your own poem or words to express how much she is loved by you and remembering always the love to share with one another. make her your own love letter to keepsake . enjoy a wonderful meal at home together. on her birthday tell her again the birthday is meant to be a little older but never changeing the love for it will grow more ..express an old fashion birthday cake at home even a home made one.. make her a home made birthday card by you. with special love bithday poems..like I love you more as the days go by, because you are older you are always the same and never change, your beauty is always in my heart and mind. these things do not cost nothing but your time and everyone likes to be remembered in love and words go along way..hint some good pictures are nice as memories together and movies at home..romantic moments...