How to find, and interact with the girlfriend?Get married?
By obey39
@obey39 (125)
China
May 27, 2012 7:32am CST
Now I am 28 years old while I am still single, which makes my parents very crazy.Everyday they ask me:it is time that you should master how to make an appointment with you girl,how to interact with her.
SInce 2010, I have met with several girls until now.And I feel that my performance is not bad, but finally the result is the same:I am not qualified for this requirment.
My friends, please give me some suggestions, thanks
2 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
27 May 12
Age has nothing to do with being married. There is no age perfect for that. I think you are a cheater if you just pick out someone because otherwise it would drive your parents crazy. I also wonder why they want you to get married. Are you not able to make your own income? To take care of yourself? To cook and clean yourself? To make your own life beautiful or better? To go for your own goals?
Because if you are not and you need a girl for that you will lost the game also.
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
27 May 12
You should know that in some country, like mine.
Specially in the country side, some parents believe that 25 was the maximum age to get married.
If not the parents, the neighborhood will try to give advices (sometime forces).
They will try to help to find a couple for him/her.
@obey39 (125)
• China
27 May 12
Hello,friend.Thank you for your reply.of course, your nice suggestion makes me enlightened to some extent.Firstly,I have a full-time job.And I am willing to get married is not only for the purpose of meeting the demand of my parents, but for find a new style of life in the future.Undoubtedly, I am very lonely, so it is my will to find a girl who could go with me to share opinion, strive for the common goal to achieve what we need.And I could clean the house, poor at cooking.But I cuold seize the time to improve or study from the scratch.
@obey39 (125)
• China
27 May 12
Dear Devilova,Thank you for your understanding.And I do appreciate your nice words.And could you kindly give me some useful suggestions on it?I know, for the male, 30-year-old is also a golden age to meet with female.But with the time passage, 30 is drawing near.But I still find difficulty in finding a girlfriend at all.And I am quite worried about my situation
Thanks
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
27 May 12
It looks like you need to find a way out of the prison. Really, you have a lot of choices. It's a matter of finding which one does you a good favor with no chance of failing. Start figuring just what is that.
@obey39 (125)
• China
28 May 12
Thank you, friend.when could I free myself from this dilemna will determine when I could understand what is a true love.Yeah, I have so many choices to taka action.But it is uneasy to find who is my favorite or favors my sentiment.I will try my best to find,find, and find until god blesses me!
