Fight between sisters

Philippines
May 27, 2012 10:14am CST
My stepmom nieces are always fighting, they are sisters. And they are really so annoying. One of the many reasons why I don't like to stay at home anymore. Ages 22 and 25. My stepmom is sending them to school. Same course. And same school. The never end without them talking $#!+ to each other. (Sorry for the word) But they are really talking like they aren't sisters. Me and my sister never fought like that. Even when we're kids. Though when we we're kids, we used to fight like boxing and martial arts but, never did we sleep that we're not okay. We make sure that all things are good the next hour. After a fight we'll just laugh. Cuz we look crazy. In short we're not like them. They are really east and west. They should not meet. How about you? How is your relationship with your sisters? And what kind of fight or battle you had before? or even until now?
8 responses
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
31 May 12
When we were growing up, there were some times that I did have difficulties with my sister and I think that a big part of the reason that we did have the difficulties with one another that we did have was because of the fact that there was a pretty big difference in our ages, so we really didn't have anything in common. We are both adults now, however, and because of that we are able to get along a lot better than we did when we were kids. We talk to each other on a regular basis and even hang out together from time to time.
• Philippines
7 Jun 12
Time and age really has something to do with attitude. Maybe when they get old too. And both of then have stable jobs and a family of their own, they'll just laugh on their past. About their fights and pointless arguments.
@edsss17 (4398)
• Philippines
28 May 12
I haven't had such a fight with my sisters as they are really young. But, me and my brother usually fight despite the 5 years gap between us. I'm 18 and he's 13. When I recall every fight we had since then, it just made me laugh. Jealousy is one of the reason why we fight. He thought that I get all the attention of our parents which actually isn't true after all. Our parents have an equal way of looking after us, its just that he misunderstood it. But now, we are in good terms. We haven't fight for a while and I hope we never will be. About that issue, I remember my auntie saying this: No matter how sisters fight, in the end (somehow) they'll just end up looking and caring for each other. Those two may not show the care and love for each other by now, but maybe (let's hope) that one day soon, they'll fix their issues.
• Philippines
7 Jun 12
Thats what we're praying too. I do believe God will make a way to make their relationship better. Though how stubborn they are today. By the way, considering your brother , i guess that is normal feeling from a younger sibling but, soon as they age that fades also.
• United States
27 May 12
well i never had that problem..i was the oldest and i had two sisters and a brother that lived with me..but my sisters used to argue all the time which are four years apart..but they still dont see eye to eye on things but they still love each other the same..
• Philippines
7 Jun 12
That should be the attitude.
• United States
27 May 12
Sometime sibling can be night and day, i knew two brothers like that growing up as a child...They constantly stayed into it about the silliest things...do i think its okay? not at all, i believe family should never have those hateful feeling towards one another....i have a younger sister, and growing up me being the oldest i use to torture my lil sister, mainly because she was always around me and it irritated me not know she was only looking up to her big brother...when i realized that i felt bad for all the things i did in the past even tho we have a great relationship now, we're like best friends now...i had to apologize to her, my kids made me realize what i did was mean cause my oldest does the same thing to her brother...lol..funny how life explains alot of things..
• Philippines
7 Jun 12
That hows life tell us what we do to others have something to do to us in the near future.
@zip12ph (179)
• Philippines
27 May 12
I cant imagine this from happening between me and my 2 sisters, i do admit we also have some misunderstandings but not to the point that we shout at each other and say things that are bad, we still do respect each others and forget things that will affect our relationship especially with our parents, we cant really avoid conflicts since even sisters have different point of views but i guess this will now depend on how the guardian or parents address this matters to them.
• Philippines
7 Jun 12
That is one of the big factors . Since then, from their childhood , their parents are so considerate. So i guess, they carry that attitude upto now. And now, that they are staying with us they are getting worse cuz, they dont have parents anf my stepmom as their guardian is always at work or at her business . Nobody really guides them. Or my dad gets tired of scolding them, and couselling them. Neither of us, know what to do. It the end we are all so annoyed by both of them.
@maezee (31520)
• United States
27 May 12
That's annoying to be around. I'm like you - me and my sister are pretty tight. I am 21 and she is 24, so we are close in age to your step-neices (if there is such a thing - lol). We can sometimes get into little spats, but like you said, we make up the next day. I love having my sis as a friend. I can't imagine HATING my sister, my own flesh and blood! It sounds like maybe part of the problem is that these two girls spend WAY too much time together. I know that back when me and my sister lived together, we didn't get along as great as we do now when we live apart and don't see each other every day. It probably doesn't help that they go to the same school and take the same classes, either. They probably need some personal space.
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
They had been apart so many years, but nothing happen. So funny, cuz everytime they meet its like oil and water. Never blend together. We did lots of counselling yet nothing happened. Even their aunts and family member can't control them.
@GemmaR (8526)
27 May 12
It can be horrible when you see people you love fighting, but it is just a fact of life. I know of a pair of sisters who are always arguing and getting to each other, yet I know that that love each other more than anything else in the world, and that is what is so lovely about the love between a sibling. No matter what happens, even if you know that you are going to do something that will annoy them, you know that at the end of the day you're there for each other because you're family, and that's what family do for each other!
• Philippines
27 May 12
Yeah, you are true. But, two sisters that I'm saying are far away from what you are describing. They used to backstab each other and as if they are not sisters. That's what annoys me. Well, I'm praying for them. To realize how blessed a person is with a sister or any sibling.
@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
hi, when i was a kid maybe i was 12 years old during that time,me and my sister always fighting,but not the fight that we are really hurting each other,we fight in the way of we much in talking,shouting like that.but now we are best friend maybe i am matured already.