How can you ask people for money?

She just as oblivious to the real world as he is. She thinks since her parents pay for everyhting so should his. I agree she will find a guy who owns his own car not drive his parents, and treats her and spends his money on her. Which my brother didnt even pay for her prom ticket, or buy her flowers.

I agree he thinks the world is in his hands. He doesnt see the big picture in life, and expects everyone just to hand it over. I mean if he was working and didnt have money I may consider but the fact hes too lazy to get a job to pay for what he already has. The other 3 of us kids at the age of 16 had to get out and get a job, and pay for everything including rent, and our other bills.

I agree completely on that. He has never had responsibility, and sint mature for his age. Why get a job when he gets it given to him for free by everyone else who feels sorry for him. When I was his age I worked 2 jobs while going to school full time I feel no pitty for him at all.

I wont give him a penny because he is fully capable of working, and hes just lazy. The others are just allowing him to be this way, my older brother was the same for years, and still my grandmother gives him money because he cant budget properly. It doesnt finished for a few more weeks, but he just doesnt see the point in going now. He is suppose to get a job, and earn money for college. But that has yet to happen. He wants everyone to do the work of applying for him, his attitude and behaviour shows when he applies and they simple dont want him. He applied to one place, and my SIL father took him in and knew the owner, and my brother has been ignoring the phone calls. But sooner or later people wont hand him money left and right. My parents are already fuming over his jack in insurance since he got in those accidents. His girlfriend and him think they are going the graduate and buy a house be together forever with no education, and nno jobs. I just sit back and laugh at how stupid they make themselves sound since both are living off their parents and never worked aday in their lives.

I think he is and since he is the baby its acceptable. Its funny as the other 3 of us once we turned 16 we had to find a job, and pay our own bills. He is almost 18 and has yet to lift a fiinger, and get money handed to him which I would never dream of in my life asking my parents. But I sit backa nd laugh at his excuses he has for not working, and everyone falls for it. I mean if he was working and suddenly something happened he needed the money I would reconsider but not when hes not working and I wouldnt see the money again.