Does you worry about youself??

Malaysia
June 7, 2012 9:34pm CST
Some of people are believe that they having some weakness that cannot be changeable like height, or sometime weight, being fat. Is that this could bring you upset all of the life? Does you worry anything like these?
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17 responses
• China
8 Jun 12
"Change what can be changed, accept what is unalterable." More over, isn`t height or weight too small question during our whole life? No perfect, even a person is a shorty, he might have his strong aspect. Conversely, even though one is tall, handsome, so what? Is that all in life? In my opinion, beauty is indeed good, it is a gift of our life and everyone aspires to it. But, firstly beauty doesn`t only mean good appearance. on the other hand, if one has too much external superiority, will he ignore more internal things? We know how wonderful life is, so it is really unworthy to worry something which is not big. More people have more encounter, but some are more strong... so I think we shouldn`t be upset, at least try our best to be happy.
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• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Hi Coralguan, Superb, really everyone should know what you did you said about Internal and external. Nice explanation.
• China
8 Jun 12
You give us a good topic, I like it :) By the way, how can you add icon of expression? I can`t do it.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Thanks, You only can add icon once you reach 200 post in mylot. Have a nice day.
@thesids (22358)
• Bhubaneswar, India
8 Jun 12
Hi Victor Almost all above say that it is useless to worry or worrying about things you do not have is not healthy. Whatever, but the fact is that we all worry about what we do not have sometime or the other. I had only a few things which worried me - like during college - I wanted to work and earn instead of studying and so I always was worried - when this study thing ends and I start making some money. Today, I am ill, stay at home, and the only worry that I have is - I do not want to be a burden or a poor person who is completely dependent on others for everything. I pray to the Lord, that I never fall to the bed again and I do keep earning some amount so that I am not dependent on others ever.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Hi sids, First, i totally impressed in what you told above. I am proud of you my friend. All we need is a confidence and willingness. Let me pray for you too.
@thesids (22358)
• Bhubaneswar, India
8 Jun 12
• China
8 Jun 12
Iam a litter worried of my weight,and from now on ,i will keep a balanced diet and do some exercise.Even In this ways ,it may not help for lose some weight ,it won't get worse,right?
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Eating much is okay, if you took less at night only. Most of people don't eat much at night. But too much carbon hydrate is the cause of fat lor, so less taking it and do some a little exercise that easy for you 10 t0 20 minutes. Anyway welcome to Mylot. Have a nice day.
• China
8 Jun 12
Thanks for you advice,have a nice day too,glad to meet you
• Malaysia
9 Jun 12
Same to you.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
8 Jun 12
Nope, i don't worry anything about myself...all is perfect with me...because it is me who i am... Better we should do something to get more happiness than just do worry some crazy things like that...
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Hello ryanong, Sometime we accept that we just being a simple human and seek happiness always. Happiness is around, nothing to worry,hehe. Have a nice day.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
9 Jun 12
Ya, happiness is around, we don't need to worry ...
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
8 Jun 12
When i was younger I used to worry about my wants and needs. then when i got married and had children my worries seemed to turn to them. it seems that there is always someone else or something to worry about besides yourself. there will be plenty of time left for that.
• Malaysia
9 Jun 12
Sometime we should worry on our self about the future, this is why because we can change a better future.
@thanks1961 (7046)
• India
8 Jun 12
HI, This is a nice topic and there are a lot to write on it. Normally such feelings or say, inferiority complexes never get expressed largely by the people. It can be expressed at times when they are indulged in certain related activities. Many people purposively ignore such situations. However, I think that this feeling would be carried always with them, but they simply suffer the consequences, because they are helpless as which is not happened as per their wish!
• Malaysia
9 Jun 12
Heelo thanks, Thank for joining, Nice sharing here. Have a nice day.
@Morgus (14)
• Denmark
8 Jun 12
I'm afraid of heights. It can be changed but you might have to be exposed to something extreme like for heights jumping out of a plane with a parachute would be extreme. I truly believe it can be changed, you might have to be exposed like I said but I've heard about alot of people changing their "weaknesses".
• Malaysia
9 Jun 12
Hi MOrgus, It is a like a kind of phobia. Phobia of height, lol. Confidence is the key.
@fran07 (1)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
Worrying is something that we normally feel when we think that something cannot be done. Sometimes it really hurts to have those negative thoughts specially when it concerns our future. But to lift up a spirit, it is best to say to ones self, "Worry later and just start doing something." Sometimes, it is just difficult to start, but once you are on it, amazingly, things just go our way. And, don't forget, do what u can do, and leave the rest to God. :))
• Malaysia
9 Jun 12
Just change what you can, and just need some willingness and some effort to change those negative.
@Harold_ks (1674)
8 Jun 12
I have also lots of weaknesses and insecurities in my life but of course I also have good aspects and those are the things that lifting up my confidence. I am now focusing on my strengths and trying to improve and lessen my weaknesses. In our minds, we should make the positives win against the negatives. And trust ourselves.
• Malaysia
9 Jun 12
Hi Harold. The information i needed to share with you is Analyses, think and react. Sure can overcome our weakness.
• India
8 Jun 12
I think most of people get worried about non growth of their heiht and weight. But i never faced that problem.
• Malaysia
9 Jun 12
Do you have some other experience, rather than height and weight?
@cloud31 (5811)
8 Jun 12
I never been worry about myself.I'm happy of what had given me.And I'm thankful about it.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
@Bhebelen14 (5206)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
No I never worried about myself, I might be small but my capabilities and abilities are unmeasurable. You might not change youre height but if you have enough courage, self-esteem and self confidence anything is possible. Weakness can be defeat just be brave and learn how to love yourself.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
wow, good motive from you Bhebelen. Tats nice. Have a nice day.
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 12
I never worried, my weight, my height, or in connection with the physical. What I'm worried about, is the continuation of my life, a very chaotic.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
HI, Hehe, There is not thrilling if doesn't have some suspense, joy, tear and so on in our life. So enjoy it. Happy day.
@Paper_Doll (2375)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
I think that there is no use worrying about something that you can no longer change. The best we can do is to accept them. All people have their own weaknesses, but we should not use them to prevent us from living a normal life.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Definitely, everyone should turn their weakness to a positive approach. Their should not regret what their weakness and sharpen their other good indeed inside them, Good response Paper Doll.
8 Jun 12
I don't worry that much. Our physical appearances may vanished in the passing of time but our good qualities may remain. It's not even a basis of having many friends. Besides, we cannot change how do we look unless we are willing to spend to much for a make over through surgery or anything like that. We have to be happy for what we are.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Will happiness is forever or just end like that only?
@xb5409 (6)
8 Jun 12
Never. Useless to worry on something cannot change. Better to spend time to develop others strength.
@cloud31 (5811)
8 Jun 12
Very well said xb! Nice one! I agree with you! Welcome to myLot!!
@thanks1961 (7046)
• India
8 Jun 12
HI, This is a nice topic and there are a lot to write on it. Normally such feelings or say, inferiority complexes never get expressed largely by the people. It can be expressed at times when they are indulged in certain related activities. Many people purposively ignore such situations. However, I think that this feeling would be carried always with them, but they simply suffer the consequences, because they are helpless as which is not happened as per their wish!