When do you get married?
June 10, 2012 3:10am CST
When do you get married? is a question that i have to reply every day this time. I hate it. Whenever i meet any person in the office, they always ask that question. I am mad with it...It is very boring when i have to reply it over over many times. Some of them just asked me yesterday and today they ask me again... What's happen with them? Is it their favorite question?
10 Jun 12
When do you get married? Aren't you tired of hearing the same questions all over again and to the fact you really started discussion of it! Well, I don't know what they are thinking why they asked the question. Maybe you have the culture of at the age of something, you have to get married already, isn't it? :O Oh, well they just want to irritate you so they keep on asking the same thing... :O I wonder why you didn't ask them that, Is it their favorite question?
11 Jun 12
hihi, i never ask anyone that question, it is not my style. I never ask private questions if they are not my closed friends also. You are right, it is the style in here, people love to ask it as if they care much about me. Sometime instead of saying hi, they ask that question, it is weird...
12 Jun 12
Or maybe your office mate are just concern because they care for you. Also maybe they thought you are already the marrying kind. Anyway, for you it's no concern of them but if you really don't want to entertain such question just tell them you have not found the right partner yet.
11 Jun 12
I too often get this question, it is really annoying when we already told them Im not planning to get married yet I need to finish my study. My 22 years old friend just gave birth a baby girl and everyone was like "when is your turn", one of the girls said "if I was you I would be ashame to stay single until now", I think it is my privacy whether I stay single or is getting married soon. I dont want to get married just because my culture said it is the right age for me to get married, I want to get married because I found my trully one.
11 Jun 12
ya, i understand your feeling well because people in here act the same. I hate it. Why they do talk much about it as if it is their business. In here, i don't want to give them strong talk back, but when i was in Korea, i talk directly to one vietnamese guy that it is my private thing, it is not his business, he shuts up and never ask me that question any more.
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11 Jun 12
If the person who keeps asking me when I will get married is a close friend i would not snap him/her, instead I will joke and told them i would get married soon if they pay for the wedding party and the honeymoon expenses. I will repeat the same answer and they will get bored asking me the same old questions lol.