Can we change our destiny or not?

Bulgaria
June 10, 2012 9:32am CST
Can we change our destiny or not this wonder. When I talk with different people all telling me different things. Some people tell us what is written in our destiny, we can not change it and yet others say that we dictate the rules and what they will do that is our lives, our destiny now. What do you think friends? nice day!
11 responses
@plekenut (365)
• Indonesia
10 Jun 12
yes we can. Do you know that, God will not change our destiny if we don't? I think, God change too much plan if our try hard to change those plan. We may not only surrender with our condition all time..
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11 Jun 12
based on my experience my answer is no, we can not change our destiny. if God wants us to get sick, so be it, there is nothing in the world we can do about that. however we can do a little effort to ease whatever comes along our way.
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@plekenut (365)
• Indonesia
11 Jun 12
yupz.. Many people actually don't realize it. Surely, half part of the destiny cannot changed by us, for example; the earthquake and other disaster.., an accident too..
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• Kottayam, India
11 Jun 12
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• United States
7 Jul 12
I don't think so. We live in a largely mechanical, deterministic circumstance, as governed by the laws of the universe, which we can't fight against. However, life does provide a convincing illusion, at times, that we can rise above this, even if we actually can't. (My apologies if this seems offensively aromantic. I certainly wouldn't like to believe the above, but as far as I can tell, it's true.)
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• Bulgaria
7 Jul 12
I respect the opinion of each and every one can say what you think. Still, you're right because sometimes we can not change our lives because some things are written about to happen. There is no way to fight some things. Thanks for the reply.
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
I do think it's up to us to control our destiny. Although there is already a plan for us from God, it's up to us to alter it and make it our destiny.
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• Bulgaria
4 Jul 12
so very true. their fate is ours and only we can change and we can take decisions by themselves and motives, then the consequences. Thanks for the reply.
@mythociate (15186)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
13 Jun 12
You can change 'where you actually go' (no matter where it looks like you're going). For proof, read The Holy Bible: it tells how God made us to be like Him and live in peace, how we screwed that up & set our 'destiny' in destruction (and how people continue to screw that up every day) and yet how we always have the chance to 'change our destiny'
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• Bulgaria
4 Jul 12
It's absolutely true what you wrote. Anyone can change their destiny and their lives because we are thoughtful and reasonable people should know what we do and why we do it. Our fate depends on us. Thanks for the reply.
@caenear (28)
• Poland
11 Jun 12
I think there is some kind of destiny for all of us, but I also think it is flexible in a way, because you have free will, you're making decisions, there will be no sense in living if you would have just destiny and you knew that you can do nothing to bypass it, to chane anything at all. This would be horrible, and also not logical at all, because what would be the point in living that way? You could just easily lay down and wait untill you die because 'my destiny is 'this' and 'this' so why trying?'. There probably is something destined for us, but we can reach for it or not, we can get round it even by coincidence. The thinking about is will be different for each one, because we're looking at the world in different ways, but I think that we are leading our lives, and even if there is destiny we can't possibly change it is better for us to not know about it and think as I do, because then our life would make a sense, at least to us.
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• Bulgaria
4 Jul 12
we can change our lives because we can not wait for everything ready. It is important not to think that our way is written we just need to believe in what we do and then he immae success and many will rejoice. need to know that we ourselves take decisions themselves, and they are dictated by our thoughts and feelings. Thanks for the reply.
@viji_v2 (727)
• India
11 Jun 12
We can change the destiny only when we can do it through our brain or work. But certain things we can't predict in our life and we can't do in our life. It will happen in front of us which we can't change by any means. Always our life runs in a path which is written earlier or at that time. In this world we can't change something in our life.
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• Bulgaria
4 Jul 12
we can do many things if we want this and we want to do it. I personally love to do things my own way and so far I've always been on the winning side. I hope when all is well. thanks for the reply.
@hestylim (1211)
• Indonesia
11 Jun 12
hi, according to my way of thinking, you can.change your destiny. All depends on your attitude towards life and your dedication towards your career..
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• Bulgaria
4 Jul 12
true. if we have good fortune we will reward you if you will not draw the other side of the fate of that which is never pleasant. Thanks for the reply.
@sql_cell (1429)
• Indonesia
11 Jun 12
I do not know if destiny can be changed or not. But, we must be ready to face our destiny.
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• Bulgaria
4 Jul 12
fate depends on us. but we must be ready at any moment ready to meet because it is ours. We can make our lives better as long as you want it strong. thanks for the reply.
@dobsyto (299)
• Bulgaria
10 Jun 12
Well I think that we can change everything in the future especially our destiny. I think that not the destiny find us but not we just are searching for it. We make our life how we want to and we love to. If we want to success in something than we just fight for it and we make it happen. So I think we can change our destiny and this depends only in us.
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• Bulgaria
4 Jul 12
really depends only on us. We alone decide what to do now and it is very important that we be good to think positive and the rest of the ranks themselves. I can truly say that fate is changed it is important to know what you want and how to achieve it. thanks for the reply.
@HosmanF (93)
• Belgium
10 Jun 12
Good evening dear mylloter friend , well this kind of topic has been debated for quite a good while in human kind history , so i am kind of happy that you created this discussion , hence this is one of my favourite opinion that i'd like to share ( thanks for giving me the chance ) ,; aniway this is my own personall opinion , two years ago i used to be a totally different person then i am now , i used to do alot of bad things and used to be what people call a jerk and an egoist , i used to think oly at myself and used to do anything so thingz go my way , untill i got my eyes openned by my own sister , wich i will always be gratefull to her for that , she was the one that helped me change and become a totally different person ,so i cann say that i do not believe in destiny or that people are ment to be a certain thingz , believe we are the ones controll our life , with the decisions and actions we take. I wish you a verry great evening dear mylloter friend. HosmanF.
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• Bulgaria
4 Jul 12
Hey now, when you write to me a good morning and wish you a good morning. I thank you for responding to this discussion and it is because you at least a little. Anyone can flush a little fortune, or to get a little better to be yourself and everything changes so each day we change our destiny with our actions and decisions. Thanks for the reply.
• India
10 Jun 12
It is very doubt full question form the long time. But the fact, as far as i concerned, When we do good, we get food. Destiny depends upon our thoughts and deeds. If we are good and honest, god will rule our destiny. Because he the powerful. If we are genuine to hem, he will be helpful to us.
• Bulgaria
4 Jul 12
absolutely you're right the more we think about the good we do good things to be nice and better the more those feelings back to us. It all depends on ourselves by what we wear a soul to be good and kind. Thanks for the reply!