I want to cry.

@lynboobsy11 (11343)
Philippines
June 11, 2012 9:01pm CST
Is it okay to cry? I'm just want to cry all the pains that I kept inside, my worries and some happy times that been through. Compassion for so many things that I made wrong. I know I can't bring back the time to do the things from wrong to right. I just felt sad I choose the wrong path. Only If I have a choice. I want to fight and have a good life. I will not allow anyone to hurt me again. I don't need them in my life. It hurts it really hurts but I know God will always there for me. I really have to thank you all mylot friends for reading this. I just have to vent and release thanks for the support and encouraging words It is really a big help for me.
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29 responses
• Philippines
25 Jun 12
hi lyn, it is ok I do that most of the time I think Next time you cry make sure I am around so we can have some bottles with us happy mylotting
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
25 Jun 12
Hmm I like that. That's what I'm always wanted to do but I don't like it when I'm alone there is no trill.
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
It's a great therapy to release all the pains, burdens, problems, worries through crying. Even men cry. Crying is not a sign of defeat, it is just an act of letting go all that are inside you that keep on tormenting you. I cry anytime, anywhere I want. You would feel better, after you cried it all.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
I feel better but I'm having a bad head ache from crying.
@oindy54 (3445)
• India
12 Jun 12
In my opinion it is very important to vent out pent up feelings.Of course it is okay to cry.It gives an immense sense of relief and lets you feel relaxed after the bout is over.No matter what you have done in life,you can always make amends.I believe in that philosophy.Rather than regretting I would like to move on in life.Of course there are some things we cannot forget and wish we had not done those.These are the moments we should talk to someone and tell him or her our deepest feelings.It really helps eliminate stress.I have tried this technique and it has really helped me to move on with life.I have cried on my own on repenting about a lot of things and after I stop I find a numbness and sense of peace coming over.So cry out your heart aloud.Wish you all the best with your future life.You have done the right thing by talking openly.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
13 Jun 12
thanks oindy, I really appreciate your concern and those inspiring word it really help me a lot.
@cloud31 (5809)
12 Jun 12
Its normal to feel that way when things went wrong.Worries,trouble,pains and burden of life never been easy to get through over them. You can cry for all those to release the burden in your heart.And that would make you feel better.Stay close to God he he will never leave you in times like this tell him all your woes for he always there to listen and cheer us up when down. Blessed day ahead!
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
Thanks Cloud, aside from Him I know mylot friends are here.
@cloud31 (5809)
12 Jun 12
Your welcome and Hope you will feel better soon with all your friends around you.I will keep you in my prayer and that God will give you enough courage to get through all these.Cheer up Lyn! God loves you and we are!
@cloud31 (5809)
12 Jun 12
* so we do!
@Harold_ks (1673)
12 Jun 12
Yes, of course it's ok to cry. I myself also cry when I am having a big problem. Even we men do cry. hehe. Well, what important is we learn from our mistakes and we should not lose our faith to God. He knows what is happening to us and He has a plan for us. Just be strong and live God in our hearts. Smile my friend coz there will still have a lot of blessings to come in our lives. Take care and God bless!
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
Thanks harold, those encouraging words from friends here give me strength to smile.
12 Jun 12
Hello lynn,i think it's okay to cry.for me,something bad uauslly make me cry,if after crying you will feel better,then cry!you are right,we can't bring back the time to do the things from wrong to right,so please don't blame yourself,live happily every day!we will always stay here by your side,god will always there for you too.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
Thanks yimsiupang, crying makes me feel sick now I'm having a bad head ache. I hope tomorrow I will feel better.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
14 Jun 12
I think many of us here can relate with this one my friend. There are so many of us who have been thru rough times in our lives, and many of us are continuing to go thru a lot as well. It is OK to cry sometimes or talk about things going on. Holding them in only makes us feel worthless, so go ahead and cry and then move on ahead. Many times in life God allows us to have a Good cry just to get us to Pray and seek him more and then contemplate our life as a whole, and what we are wanting and plan ahead from there.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
19 Jun 12
I think it is okay to cry and all humans cry sometimes in the life. I think when we cry we will feel better and it is okay to cry in life when we feel hurt. I think when we cry our worries and pain all goes and we will feel better after that.
@derek_a (10874)
14 Jun 12
I would say that it is 100% OK to cry if you feel the need to do so. Men usually find this hard, as I did myself, but on a personal development workshop about 20 years ago, much pain from the past came into my awareness and tears started to flow for the first time since childhood. They felt hot and strange, but I could feel the pain leaving my mind and body, and then felt as if I had moved on from my past pain. It is still not easy to cry, but if something does come up, and I can do it, then I will. It is a healthy and natural response given to us by nature to release pent-up energies. Society doesn't like to see it, so we pick up strange ideas about why it is bad to do it.. Like cowardly, and weak.. But quite often it takes a strong person to cry freely, especially if they have been ridiculed for crying during their younger days.. _Derek
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
16 Jun 12
Well, of course it is ok to cry, but I am thinking you might cry from happiness that you got rid of somebody who does not deserve you!
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
thanks
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
13 Jun 12
It is okay to cry and release the tension inside you. You can cry as much as you want until you feel okay. Sometimes, keeing it by yourself can affect your health resulting to some illness. What I can suggest to you is have a sheets of paper, torn it as if it was the one that hurts you teling all your hatred. Keep on tearing the paper until you have already released what's inside. It will be a nice way to release the tension in you. Good day!
• Chongqing, China
13 Jun 12
i want to cry now, really so sorrow. what will my life be in the future. something that i went through before was messed up,how can i fix it up.
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
Crying is good when we have a reason to cry. I believe that all of us, with probably some select few, have cried at some time in our lives. Some have cried with just drops of tears; some have cried a river; while some may have cried a bottle of tears. However, all our tears will be seen by our Creator who created us in His own image and likeness. Know well that He will not forsake us.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
12 Jun 12
Instead of regret you might want to go back and revisit the situations that put you in this mood. We are all human and wish we had been smarter in the past but we need to remember that when things go wrong is the best time for lessons. As soon as we have alittle space we can look back and see the lesson, then be thankful. This is life.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
Hi lyn, you need hugs and more of it. It is ok to cry, i do that too when i just have too much inside and there is no other way to let it out but just to cry and after crying i find myself light and i know somehow i sent my worries and pains together with my tears and prayers to God. Vent it out and pray and somehow it will be fine.
• India
12 Jun 12
i dont know what should i tell to you. Only thing i have to say, if you are really sad, then dont control your tears. cry it out. i suggest cry alone in your room and sit calm for some time. i think that will give some relax to your mind. if you control your tears then the problem will turn out to a more hurting one for you.
• United States
12 Jun 12
dear Its ok to cry! It can make you feel better.I would also recommend to tell a friend about all the worries and pain you are having your friends will help you too.It does feel better talking about it doesnt it?I think i said this to someone else here on mylot but i am going to tell it to you too.There will always be flaws in life and in everything you do but dont let it get to you!focas on the good things in life and you will be happier.
@shaqziad (655)
• Malaysia
12 Jun 12
Just cry all the way you want. it's your own tears, not others.
12 Jun 12
everybody makes wrong decisions at some point in their life.its natural as we are humans. forget the past. start a fresh. go out and do what you like. always be with people who are positive.catch up with old friends and plan an outing. time is best healer. slowly you will realise that you have become capable of handling situations. best of luck dear. bye