When I said "SORRY" it doesn't mean you are right and I am wrong, it means ,,,,,

Hello my dear jai! Your post reminds me of my hubby,you made me miss him. I know that even if it's my fault,it's he who says sorry first for me not to be angry. That's why I consider him as my water 'cause he always washes away my fire(anger). I do agree with what you've said that one values a relationship,a reason for saying sorry to someone he/she loves. Have a great weekend too my dear jai!

Hi jai, Yes its true, it is very hard to say sorry specially if it is not your fault but to value a relationship it is better to take the first moved for the person who deserved it. Happy rainy weekends to you.

Jaiho2009 you are so right. When someone says sorry it doesn't mean they are wrong It means i feel bad for what i did or said and i want to make it right.yes a sincere sorry does mean a lot and make the person you say it to feel better. It shows the person saying sorry cares about you and how you are feeling and wants the friendship marriage relationship to continue. What is a pat on the back anyway? To me it's like just tapping a person and when it's done quickly or hard it doesn't mean a thing. I don't mind the rain too much but i don't like storms at all. When it rains you can't usually go outside unless you want to be wet and cold.

"SORRY" So why this "sorry" then? Didi... the answer is.... guess. Have a nice time.

hi jai, I know how to say sorry and when to say sorry you know me I am the person who can't take back my words and when I say sorry I mean it I say sorry to the people I care and love even it's not my fault simply because I want to have a healthy relationship with them. miss yah

Telling sorry to a person when one commit a mistake, it doesn't mean that one is true and the other is wrong. Really the real meaning is that you had mentioned it. IE, a person value your relation and he doesn't need to break it for simple reasons. So the word Sorry plays a whital role in human life and every one should make use of it needed situations.

words mean it by its meaning but sometimes word is not enough or it's not enough without showing it with the action. a kiss and embrace are much better than saying the word SORRY.

hello jaiho, when i say sorry, it is because i mean the word - i am sorry. i guess no one will say sorry if they feel that the other person has wronged them. i dont think that is sincere. i would request for another talk after, when both "steams" have let go. but if i feel its not my fault, even for the sake of friendship - i will not say it first. ann

Hi jaiho: I think your message is deep. I agree with you. Sometimes the person that says first "I'm sorry" is the one who cares the most for a relationship and suffers the most when something is not going alright. Even with that, there's a point, when it's all about dignity and you need to be strong and defend your position. Both parts on a relationship must be responsible to keep their love. Thanks for sharing your thought. ALVARO

yes, sometimes we need to say 'sorry' just to make neutral the hot situation. We don't want break our good relationship just for small things, so say 'sorry' will be the best solution, don't care we false or not. Have a nice day, my friend.

I agree with you madam If i think i did some wrong or hurt a person, i always say 'Sorry' and beg apology, i don't mind if he is younger in age.

I agree jaiho, that when you say sorry it doesn't mean that the other person is right and you are wrong. There was an incident when i have to say sorry to an office mate for having spoken some not nice word in a very angry manner. She provoked me in doing it. So , after we were heard by the HR manager to find out what really happened, i said sorry to that office mate. But it doesn't mean that i am entirely in the wrong . I said it, because i said those words that hurt her also. But, in my mind she should have been the first one to say sorry, because she did say demeaning words first , for everybody at the office to hear. I kept controlling myself, but when it was too much, i explode. But she never did say sorry , even if the HR manager kept saying, it is good to be humble, seemingly telling her to do so also.

The word can also mean that we are sorry for some reason, either admit to committing an error

Apologizing doesn't always mean that you are wrong, i would say it means you understand were the other person is coming from or their frame of thinking and Sometime apologizing is saying you willing to listen to what that the other person has to say. witch usually comes to a understanding between to people.

To say sorry sincerely includes an admission of guilt, to apologise without such is bogus all the best urban

good day jaiho2009, indeed. telling sorry does not really mean that you are wrong and the other one is right. hence, there are some instances, when you just need to say it because you do not want to prolong the argument. and that you are just setting aside the ego that can ruin the relationship. that, this is what i am also practicing, setting aside the ego for the sake of a good relationship.

Hi jai Very true! We say sorry not only because we are wrong. If saying sorry can save a relationship/friendship even if the one saying it has not done anythign wrong - then it must be done. Only those who really appreciates the relationship/friendship are brave enough to tell those words. Hey I love it when it rains in the evening

Agree in times I would resort to saying sorry even if I know I didn't do anything wrong, but it shouldn't be the only answer to a problem, saying sorry just to end a dispute or an argument will only be misleading. A nice talk with reconciliation would be nice and it would make a relationship stronger, but if it fails, and all other options have been done, then for me, it would be best to end the relationship(easier said then done). hope you have a great weekend too

We formally say sorry to express a wrong action what should not be so. But this saying sorry does not relate as to why I acted like so or how much humane I was.

Hi jai, i agree, a simple sorry is having various meanings. It is not a symbol of our failure, but sorry is the symbol of our kindness and polite. Our sorry shows that we are a humble person and give importance to the opposite person