How close in age are your kids?

@lynboobsy11 (11343)
Philippines
June 19, 2012 12:43am CST
Mine is 6 years away from the eldest. Ann is 21 now and my Jul is 14, I'm just wondering how the parents can manage their kids with so close in age. Specially here in my country in some rural areas who has the highest poverty in rate can manage to have kids that are consecutively every year has a new born. That most of the families have 7 up to 10 kids. I feel for those kids who sometimes lived in the street and beg for food and money just to lived. I hope parents nowadays can think of the responsibilities of having children not even so close of their age. Your thought in this friends.
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@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
19 Jun 12
My daughter is eldest, 47 now, next is son 45, next is son 40, all grown up, having their own kids, here in our time people used to go for 3 kids, now it is just 2, if one has more, he/she can't enjoy certain facilities; in slum you can see couple having 10 kids, they live like pigs..
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
It is fun to have more kids only if they can support them. I'm the one only one child of my parents that makes me sad when I'm alone.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
19 Jun 12
My own kids (also been foster parent for 11 years) have the ages of: 28 (daughter) 26 (daughter), 22 (daughter), 9 (son) and 6 (daughter). They all are very close and no, none of the eldest ever found it weird to get a little baby brother or sister.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
I'm glad that your been a foster parent for that long you have a good heart.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
19 Jun 12
Our first two girls are 4 1/2 years apart and the third daughter is 2 1/2 years younger than our middle daughter. So there is a span of 7 years between all of them, from the oldest to the youngest. Am so proud of our girls. They are adults now and have children so it's been a fun and interesting life. Being a grandma is so much easier and exciting.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 Jun 12
I'm a grandma too to Ann and your right the feeling is great to be a grandma.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
19 Jun 12
well the first 2 was not quite a year apart and the 3rd was 16mths from second. so my first husband used to joke that he couldnt take his pants off without ending up with a kid i remarried and took pills for 5 yrs till that one wanted a kid and taLKED ME INTO IT AND 4TH WAS 6YRS FROM 3RD. THEN I REMARRIED AND THE SAME HAPPENED, 6YRS. so now they are like 47yrs, 46yrs, 44yrs, 38 yrs and 32 yrs.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
Your late husband is a joker.
@oldchem1 (8132)
19 Jun 12
I have 5 children who range between 40 and 16!!! I had my first three girls in my early 20's and there was 18 months to 2 years between them all. My eldest being almost 5 when my third was born. I loved that time of having three little girls together, there were many rows and fights between them but life was good.Getting three of them ready in a morning was tough but we got by! That was supposed to be my family complete and when they were all at school I went back to work teaching. However, despite being on the mini pill I became pregnant when I was 38 with my fourth daughter - she was a shock but we all loved having a baby in the house again. Once more I gave up work to look after her. Returning to work I started to become quite poorly in my mid 40's, my doctor diagnosed the start of the menopause; I was again on the mini pill. When I started to think that the menopause symptoms were so very like pregnancy I did a test - I was 16 weeks pregnant!! Both I and 2 of my elder daughters were pregnant together. I gave birth to my son when I was 45, my first grandchild was born 11 weeks later and my 2nd 2 weeks after that. I am 61 now with a 16 year old son at home - but I love him to bits1! He towers over me and I am so very proud of him!! Guess my 2 'extra' kids were gifts from God!!
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
Yhea viju is right it is very interesting for having babies that your in 45, I know my mom was also 45 when I was born too. All children are gifts form God specially if we can provide them the needs that they want.
@oldchem1 (8132)
19 Jun 12
I was quite poorly during my pregnancy and was gestational diabetic and insulin dependant. however as soon as Jack was born I was fine, he certainly keeps me young!! Picture enclosed!
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
19 Jun 12
hi, It really seems to be very interesting and having babies at 45.. wow and you are so blessed to be fine healthwise. Wishing you all the best.
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@Jessi_T (379)
• United States
19 Jun 12
I have seven kids counting my stepdaughter (which I always count) There ages vary. My oldest is going to be 15 in Sept. My stepdaughter will be 15 in August. Those two being almost the exact same age are trying to say the least. My oldest son is 12, I have a 8 year old daughter, a 5 year old daughter, a 2 year old son and a 1 year old son. Growing up my older siblings were 18, 17 and 16 yrs older than me and my younger brother was 11 years younger than me.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
You have a bog family Jessi, that was nice specially when there are all around.
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
8 Aug 12
Mine are 7,10,13,16 so they are all just about 3 years apart. I really like the age spacing. I am not having anymore children. We decided right after my youngest was born. Mainly due to health reasons, my doctor told my husband that I could not have anymore children because I could die giving birth again. She actually took him aside and told him this. And he didnt tell me until this year! I guess it was as bad as I thought. I think that we would not have had any more really because of the fact that once you have them you also need to be able to care for them. We live a modest lifestyle and get what we need. But any more children and that would change drastically.
• Canada
19 Jun 12
I don't have kids, but I have step-kids from my husband. 10 of them all born between 1966, and 1991.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
They are all grown ups.
@AmbiePam (85441)
• United States
23 Jun 12
My sister and I are two years and one month apart. My dad was one of 16 children.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
24 Jun 12
My children are each 5 years a part. I have three. That five year thing tends to bleed over in to other aspects of my life as well. I think it is a significant number for me although I have never studied numerology.
• United States
19 Jun 12
My kids are almost four years apart. My daughter just turned 8 in May, and my son will be 12 in July.
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@viju0410 (2286)
• India
19 Jun 12
Hi, We have two children and my daughter is 14 and son 11. They fight a lot but at least they both help each other and share/care at times. I must appreciate my daughter as when she was around 8, she used to care for her little brother after school till we (me & husband) reach home in the evening. Hope the age factor will not matter for both for a smooth/sweet relationship.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
When my daughters are growing up Ann was really a big sister to Jul, so far they have a good relationship till now. I know I'm happy if I left them both coz I know they are loving and caring to each other.
@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
19 Jun 12
My children are about one to two years apart. It was hectic when they were small at times; but it is also very nice to see them grow up together with such close age range. They are all teenagers now, all four of them boys!
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
Yhea because of the tantrums sometimes it is really stressful, but when they are grown up you will proud of them that you manage them when there are still young.
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23 Jun 12
It is terrible that some children are brought into poverty stricken situations. It is wise for parents to consider whether they are able to support the children they have. At the same time parents can be a little ill educated when it comes to birth control and the like. In western society we are a little luckier, however there are still families having to stretch themselves to make ends meet and provide for all their children. The age gap between children is not often planned. Many mothers will have one baby after another simply because after one baby is born there is a window when the mother is far more fertile. That is why you see some families with one baby following on from another, and another. There are no real rules about age gaps. Some parents prefer to have their children close together whilst others like a little distance between each one.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
20 Jun 12
Well, if you want to get down to the day my kids are 3 years and 15 days apart. Both of my kids have birthdays coming up. My oldest will be 15 in a few days, my youngest will be 12 next month. Happy mylotting!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Jun 12
There is almost four years age difference between my daughter and my son. My daughter was two months short of her fourth birthday when my son was born and they are now nine and five years old. The reason that I have this age difference between my children is because I wanted the first one to be out of diapers before I had another child. This had to do with budget because diapers are expensive and to have to buy diapers for more than one child at a time would have been too much for me.
@jeth88 (68)
• Manila, Philippines
20 Jun 12
I wish I could meet your daughter Ann, lol! Ahaha! Anyway, I'm still young and single so I can not give my answer to this post but I enjoy reading others' discussion. :)
@TheIzers (680)
21 Jun 12
I agree with you, I think with high expense of education and living parents should reconsider before they decide to have many children. It is parents job to prepare children for a better future.
20 Jun 12
Well,i have only one child,my son is 4 months old,i think i have no plan to want another child,the same to my husband,we respond to the call of our country,only one child.
• India
21 Jun 12
Hi friend, i have two little sons, elder son is with 5 years and younger one is with 3 years, it is not easy to take care of little kids with this age gape. My wife struggles a lot with them. They started their schooling and went to school for aroud 4 hours per day, my wife will get some relaxation while they are in school