do you have a bf?

@lupeng (82)
China
June 19, 2012 10:18am CST
i was born at 1989years.and now dont have bf.so many people ask me :"how old are you?, have boyfriend?" i really don't want to repeat this question.so boring. don't i want to have a bf? i also want to have a good man can help me ,love me .and i can love him too.but now, i didn't find this man we can love eath other.life is very strange ,fate is very supernatural.so now,i have to waiting for my love.
13 responses
@taura2p (349)
• Romania
22 Jun 12
It will come when you least expect it. I have a boyfriend for over a year and a half now, and we get along very well. At first, I did not want a relationship, as I just got out of a very unhappy one. But things just happened, and now I am quite pleased with my emotional life.
@Bhebelen14 (5206)
• Philippines
21 Jun 12
Be patient and he will come, you dont know that of these days you find the good man for you. Theres a lots of women and man at your age are still single and no boyfriend/girlfriend, maybe you just need to wait for the perfect timing. Or much better if you try to go out with you friends or start to entertain suitors so that you can find the right person for you.
• Indonesia
20 Jun 12
o_O I met my 1st BF a year ago in online dating site and we r still loving each other till now. I am older than you :D just take it easy if people ask you. Its about time till you meet your Mr. Enjoy your young as there will many chance to meet new people and you will learn their character.
• China
20 Jun 12
Yeah,it is normal at your age that do not have bf.I am elder one year than you.I am the loss now.My bf gave up me two months ago, he was my first love.I used to be painful in my heart.But I must be lived forwards.Many person who ask questions like that mean they care about you. Do not be so boring,everything will be well,the true love is on the way possiblely.It is not so easy to find Mr.Right who will love you forever.Please await for the one with enough patience. Best wishes for you and await for your good news once you meet you Mr.Rigjht. Thanks
@katrinapaz (2438)
• Philippines
20 Jun 12
take advantage of the moment when you are single. you can attend any party you like, you can text any boy you like or you can go everywhere and have freedom. dont worry it will come in the right time and place
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
20 Jun 12
People are like that. Currently i have a boyfriend but whenever i meet people here in my working place, they always ask me when do you get married...
• Indonesia
20 Jun 12
No I dont have a boyfriend right now and I dont care when people asked me where is my boyfriend, when I'll get married. Yup, it is a boring question especially because they like to repeat it again and again, that is really annoying and really invade my privacy. I have friends who keep asking the same old boring question and she would said why dont you go date this guy or that guy, better than to be alone. ouch..that is not what I want. i dont want to date anyone just because i think having a boyfriend is better than being alone. What I want from my man is simple, aside from loving each other he should not stop me from my passion, because if he tried to stop me from my passion or pursue my dream then its like asking me to stop being me. actually I had a boyfriend before, and he was fair enough support me and my passions but we splitted because of something else. Then I met another guys, but I just dont like them because they tried to stop me from being me.
@Harold_ks (1674)
20 Jun 12
Yes, it's better to wait than rush and be sorry. The right guy will come at the right time. Just be patient and take care of yourself. By the way, for those guys who are asking if you have boyfriend, it might mean that they like you and just want to know if they still have a chance for your heart. Hehe. Good luck and stay good!
@cfelsen (22)
• United States
19 Jun 12
All through high school, I wanted a boyfriend but none of the guys I knew were interested in dating me. I thought I would have to bribe my best guy friend to kiss me before graduation so I would not have to go to college without ever being kissed. The whole time, my baby sister pointed out how unpopular and unattractive I must have been that no one was interested in dating me and it just made me feel worse. Since going to college (now almost 8 years ago), I have had a steady string of boyfriends and finally think I have found "the one". Sometimes it takes patience and ignoring all the annoying questions other people ask to finally get what you want!
• United States
19 Jun 12
You MUST love/like/tolerate/be content with yourself, before you can love others. You've got MANY years ahead of you, before rolling into bed with many strangers of what's called MAN. Believe me!!! If I could go back in time, oh say, Age 18, I would have played sports (Senior Year) and either went to college and hopefully got a career started and stayed single and adopted 3 or more children. Instead, I worked 2 Jobs, Took Care Of Grandma (RIP) and Graduated with a diploma and we roommated together until I was Age 24 and more that I won't go into detail about but...KEEP YOUR HEAD HIGH and DO NOT SETTLE. BE STRONG. BE VERBAL (COMMUNICATE).
@nicanorr (1789)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
Good morning, lupeng. Don't you worry if you've no bf for now. Just move on. Live life the most. Just get along well with people. God knows who your partner will be. He'll come to you in the nick of time.
@ShyBear88 (17420)
• United States
19 Jun 12
You got plenty of time your 23 years old there is no rush. I was born in 1988 and my husband was born in 1989 there is a 6 months difference between our age and I never really had a boyfriend even with my husband we where just friends for a long times and then just went from dating, to being engaged to being married, to being parents. So for us everything is on the fast track. There are people younger and older then us that do and do not have boyfriends or girlfriends or even a family. A lot of our friends aren't really married and the ones that are are not in the same boat we are in with having one child and almost ready here to have our second one born in a few weeks.
@wongchoiyee (7352)
• Malaysia
19 Jun 12
I also don't have boyfriend, never mind as long as we can take care of ourselves, other than that is not very important but also essential if God gives us.