The negativity shows

@toniganzon (53392)
Philippines
June 19, 2012 8:26pm CST
Some people couldn't just take an information. Like when you suggest something, not really giving an advice or dictating, they take it offensively. This only shows one thing. That person has so much negativity in her that she just couldn't seem to take anything positively and getting offended though none was thrown to her. I don't like these kind of people, i don't like pessimism, don't like people that are too serious with no sense of humor at all! Do you have patience for this kind of person?
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@Rick1950 (1577)
• Lima, Peru
25 Jun 12
Well, Tony, any person is different and we should show patience with all people, then I'd like that people have also patience with me.
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@toniganzon (53392)
• Philippines
25 Jun 12
I respect the fact that people are different, but i cannot stand rudeness. I have a lot of patience but i don't waste my patience to those who can't also be patient.
20 Jun 12
I don't really understand what kind of person you are talking about. If you are saying its someone that takes things badly, or the wrong way, they may not be a pessimist, but rather they may just be a little insecure and take things the wrong way because they are a little paranoid due to their insecurities. if this is not the case, then i don't really understand the discussion.. sorry lol!
@toniganzon (53392)
• Philippines
20 Jun 12
They always take things negatively. Insecure too. The more they are being negative about things, they don't see your opinion as one that's positive at all.
21 Jun 12
People like that though need a lot more reassurance than probably people are willing to give them. Try to stay positive with this person, and in time their barriers should break down and they should be able to see things, some things, in a better light. My insecurities can make me quite negative at times.
@toniganzon (53392)
• Philippines
4 Jul 12
I cannot do that. I cannot push myself unto people who don't welcome me in their lives.
@dfollin (12777)
• United States
20 Jun 12
I don't let those kind of people bother me.If they don't want to hear it then they don't....that's their problem.
@toniganzon (53392)
• Philippines
20 Jun 12
They don't bother me. They're just a source of another discussion i could start on mylot! There are a number of people like that on here. Glad they're not on my friends list. Wouldn't accept them anyway.
• Philippines
20 Jun 12
There was this Indian mylotter who was too serious with his discussion and probably too sensitive that he kept mentioning of quitting mylot. with him i realize that being too serious can give a bad image too so i stay away from him and recently he wasn't active anymore. except that one time he registered as a female and a veteran noticed the lotters discussion pattern
@SIMPLYD (84951)
• Philippines
21 Jun 12
Me too Toni, i don't like this type of people. If ever i meet one i would avoid him/her the next time around. I don't like people who dampens my positive attitude in life and has no sense of humor or cannot take a joke .
@toniganzon (53392)
• Philippines
4 Jul 12
Trying to avoid that in here D! I'll respond to their discussion once and when i find out what they are, i just try to avoid all their discussions.
• Philippines
20 Jun 12
Hello toni, what made you hate those people? I wonder what would you react if I tell you that I too had a lot of Negative Vibes in my life right now. that I too, am pessimistic and have been a lot more negatives these past few years? I wonder if you have ever ask why a person have so much negativity in his or her heart with out hating them first? I can tell you, when people have something heavy and they couldn't tell every one,it turned them on something that is not good. Next time, better not say anymore, i think this person is sensitive and going through a lot of problems of insecurities right now. better yet, stay away...
@toniganzon (53392)
• Philippines
20 Jun 12
I'm not the type of person who would judge easily unless i'm being attacked. In fact i'm very sensitive to those who are. It was a discussion, she should expect people to say something but she always take it negatively. So why start something and then can't accept what others would say? So it's more than just being pessimistic that i hate, it's the behavior you show to others that is annoying. Have you ever attacked me because you were being negative? You haven't right? And i don't stay too long with people like that.
@Mashnn (4503)
20 Jun 12
I have learned to live with different type of people. If i find that we cannot understand each other anymore, the best thing that I do is keep off from you or avoid have a conversation that will bring some argument.
@toniganzon (53392)
• Philippines
20 Jun 12
I just avoid them. They're such sour losers don't have to waste my time on them at all.
• India
4 Jul 12
Hi friend, i am also in your sort, not interested in keeping friendship with this kind of persons, it is really hard to move with them, as they always see the negative in our positive things. Better to avoid them and keep friendship with like minded persons