When in life have you felt most alone?

Alien in a strange place. - An lonely adventure
@kukueye (1759)
Malaysia
June 22, 2012 12:07pm CST
I remember i was going training in india banglore , the food was different , the culture shock of arriving in madras airport for transit flight , the smell . There was a cow on in the waiting lounge. Living alone in a small room, smoking alone on the cooling night on the roottop , i was so alone and lonely , an alien in a strange place. Spending few nights in hospital for food poisoning half nude alone in a single room.No one visit me.I check in myself and i check out myself.Initially they said i either have leukamie or bone cancer.Later opps..I just food poisoning. i was an adventure indeed.
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@keoni108 (42)
• United States
23 Jun 12
I am alone a lot, but I do not feel lonely. Probably the most lonely I have felt was after graduation, and everyone went off to go to college. Thats when I felt that I would never have friends anymore. That was extremely depressing. However, I have gotten a job which has made me tens of friends, and I am happy. Many of my high school friends still live in the same city as me, so i often see people I know. I can't believe that I was so sad.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 12
Yup , the change of college life to full time working life as an adult , do poses some cultural shock in the working environment.Time to be responsible and grow up.It quite a scary and lonely period , if the person does not have social skills.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
22 Jun 12
Before I felt alone and no one can relay on. Few years ago I decided to work far away from my family and I am new to that place even dont understand their language. First month was the worst ever, I got sick too, no one can take care of me and the worst I need to go to work even I am sick or else I will lose my job. But a few months I learned how to adopt the environment, I started to learned their native laguange and met lots of friends. I think in our life sometimes we need to experienced to feel alone to give time to ourself to adjust and to be strong that there are times in live that no one can help you but yourself.
23 Jun 12
Hi I like your respond here it makes us stronger.. being along doesn't always mean being lonely. I like the serenity it brings and the life of living independently. we learn so much in life.
• India
22 Jun 12
Hai kukueye .. You can impressed me . Feeling lonelyness is really a painfull thing . Even i am felt that more times . The thing happenes when there is no one for us to share the things . And then travelling alone some times i had felt like that . And also staying alone in the room sometimes .. So rightnow i am feeling alone because i am staying with my friends . So i avoid that . Happy mylotting dear friend . Have a nice day ..
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
23 Jun 12
We can feel alone even when we are surrounded by people. Loneliness can be just as much as state of mindas a state of being. I find that when I am saddened about something or depressed or anxious, that is when i feel the most alone whether i truly am or not.
• United States
22 Jun 12
Wow, that sounds like it was rough. Now my moment when I've felt most alone is going to seem like nothing lol. My moment is actually happening right now. About 5 weeks ago my boyfriend left for army boot camp. He's the love of my life and my best friend. We used to talk and hang out every day and now I can't have any of that. I get a letter almost once a week and that's it. I can't call him up just to talk to him and I can't see him. It's hard being here without him because I'm truly happy when he's around and since he's been gone, my life has felt so different. After going through this I'm not going to ever take him for granted and I'm going to cherish every hug, kiss, pretty much everything about him. It's been very hard for me and I'm looking forward to when I can see him again.
@GajaGamini (1065)
• India
23 Jun 12
feeling lonely is very bad feeling and we feel very bad because we miss all the old days and friends and family. we miss those days we were with our friends and lovers and we cannot avoid these because we are alone and their no on with whom we share our emotions. we feel very bad when we are alone and we watch anything emotional like emotional movies, emotional events, painting, song anything which make us realize that we are alone and we used to have good time in earlier life. we get our memories from college and schooldays when we used to be tension free and had a lot of friends and we used to have fun.
• India
22 Jun 12
There was several day in life. I could say that we feel alone when we are in alone in a room and no one can not understand our feelings. I could list out one of the situation, when I was in the hostel during my exam days I was caught by a fever, and there was no one to care me. Because they all were afraid of spreading fever. It was one of my terrible memory .