How important loyalty in love?

Malaysia
June 23, 2012 3:41am CST
Loyalty is make the relationship in love is strong. Do you think every love's have this? Loving, sometime make someone to over care and loyal and caring every time, but sometime is opposite? Any comment, about loyalty.
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23 responses
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
23 Jun 12
I guess that is really important in my perspective. If you are not loyal at all, why would you expect people around you be loyal to you. How do you feel if someone you love so much also betray you? That is the same question you ask before you are going to do something off track. There were many relationships I saw in reality, they are lack of loyalty, and lack of real love. I guess the equation between loyalty and love can be equal.
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• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
Thats 100% correct. Love loves loyalty.
@BysenBase (190)
23 Jun 12
its important but so are many other aspects... trust, forgiveness, empathy, support & respect if you can't be loyal then you do not love the person. if one side won't stay loyal there can be no relationship.
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• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
The love can be burst out if no loyalty. Loyal is must.
@derek_a (10874)
24 Jun 12
Yes, I would say that loyalty and honesty makes a relationship strong. If somebody is going to go along with lies in their relationship, I can't see any point in that at all. It would bring about mistrust, or the partners would stop caring at the end of the day and more likely to go their separate ways. _Derek
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
Sometimes, weird why they could cheat their partner and for what purpose? They just don't wan to realize they are trust and loyal to them. hmm
@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
24 Jun 12
Loyalty is important. But Loyalty is always an issue to those new couples or in early stage of relationship, in reality loyalty is forgotten by those martyr wives, they chose to disregard this loyalty in their relationship than permanently losing their partners in life. I know a lot of martyr wives..they chose to accept their husband's disloyalty than losing them forever.
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
There is no use to regret after all happen. No uses. Think before act in relationship.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
24 Jun 12
I think this applies to all - lovers, friends or even family. I believe, love can exist without loyalty. But true loyalty cannot exist without love. We can still love that person even not being without him/her. Example, you choose to let him/her go and leave you just for his/her own happiness and not yours. How can you be loyal without loving him/her? That would be a fake loyalty if you are just loyal because of the benefits you may received from him/her. I'm doing my best to be loyal to my wife and to love her genuinely. Thanks
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
wow, good and one of the good example. Nice comment from you mikyung.
• Thailand
23 Jun 12
Loyalty is one of the factors that can make a relationship last...love has been turned into hatred, heart have been torned apart and without it many family have been broken. Loyalty is essencial to build a good foundation of a strong connection with too people in love... But not everyone can love and be loyal, there are a lot of temptations around, some might even love their partner but week in terms of other points... sexually then loyalty is not anymore there...then everything will turn into a bunch of lies that will lead to another fail engagement...
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
lying is not such nice idea. However sometime, the partner is love to do so.
@GemmaR (8517)
23 Jun 12
You have to be loyal to your partner, because if you get married to them then you have made that promise and I don't think that it is fair for you to break the vows that you made on your wedding day. If you were planning on not keeping your vows then there would have been no point in making them in the first place. Your partner is supposed to be the one person who you are able to talk to about anything that you like, and this means that you need to be able to trust that they're going to be loyal to you in any situation.
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
yeah, breaking is could be the result finally.
• Philippines
23 Jun 12
Loyalty is vry important in every relationship. Without this factor, there is no way that relationship will grow. Sometimes a lot of men can't handle this, they are only good at the start of relationship but they cannot maintain to hold it. When they are away from each other one can cheat easily because they believe that their special someone would not know what they've been doing. I hope to find someone who is lyal to me.
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
Sure you will find someone that you can trust and loyal to you. My best wishes.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
23 Jun 12
Loyalty in love for me as a married person was very important because this is the foundation of the relationship, without it the relationship will fall apart into pieces. I think in very couple have a loyalty in love because they will never enter in a relation if they are not loyal and love each other.
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
Nice experience from you, Thanks for sharing. Have a nice day.
• India
23 Jun 12
Hi friend, loyalty is important in a relationship. Every one expects that their partner must be loyal to them. In the same way, we must be loyal to our partner and never try to betray them. Surely we will lose our good relationship if we betray our partner and s/he found out our secret. Better to avoid cheating activities to keep the relationship in a good manner forever
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
Love is exist is only the loyalty is there. So, no betray and cheating in love. Nice message.
@Shazooo (296)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 12
I think loyalty one of the most important part of being in a relationship. You should always be loyal to your partner no matter what. Whether every love have this? In the past maybe, but in a world like today, loyalty in a relationship is getting lesser and lesser. Why is it lesser, because people are being more and more selfish and don't trust their partners. A guy might say, hey i bet my partner may be checking out some other guys ( not trusting) , if she can do it, then I can do it too! ( Selfish.)
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
Hmm weird,!!
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Jun 12
Yes, loyalty is very important because without it, it only means there is not enough love involve in the relationship.
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
Thats true, Have a nice day.
@neerruu (134)
• India
23 Jun 12
no not every one. i have saw couples who just pretend to being in love just for the physical pleasure.even myself was engaged in that.but yeah true love is a real special thing. i really fell for one girl but she did'nt want relationship....damn she was so cute :p
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
To get a loyal and trust partner is not easy, and if get so easy mean not exist too long.
@Valy21 (3)
• Italy
23 Jun 12
what is love without loyalty? is loyal love's friend or enemy? well i think it depends in the relationship in my case there wouldn't be love without loyalty.
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
Nice explain from you Valy.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
4 Jul 12
Loyalty in love is very important. I believe without it and if one isn't loyal, that makes the relationship fail in some point. It will also be the reason why one couldn't trust the other. I am in a long distance relationship and I really think that we have to be loyal despite the distance for our relationship to last long.
@Harold_ks (1673)
23 Jun 12
Loyalty is very important in love. It can also be a basis on knowing how much you love your partner. Without loyalty, relationship will not be strong and can easily break by temptations. We should always be faithful and stick to our partner. We should dedicate 100% love to our partner. Good day!
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
They just want a real loyalty that can make them to trust in love. If not problem only comes often.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
for me loyalty is very important in love or in a relationship because this will be the protector of each other to make the relationship more stronger and more healthier,and i think that not all have this loyalty to their partner.only few of them and you can count them now a days.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
25 Jun 12
It's sad that people think they love anyone but themselves. It's like the toddler who thinks he can steer a car from the back-seat with his seat-belt-buckle. The type of relationship you're talking about: one loves oneself through the other person (thus treating the other person the same way one wants to be treated by them oneself). If you want them to treat you as something so valuable that they can't stand to share you with others, treat them that way.
@taura2p (349)
• Romania
23 Jun 12
I think that loyalty is one of the most important things in a relationship. If one of the partners cheats, for me it means the lack of respect, and also, even that the love is not so strong. If you refer to loyalty as being caring for the other doing everything for the other and so on, I think that this kind of loyalty should not be taken to exteme. Too much attention might get you suffocated.
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
There is a strong evedence that i found in your comment. One of the partner is not loyal means there not a strong love.
• India
23 Jun 12
Yes loyality is very important , if they loose it then the lovers break ....
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
Short and sweet answer.