Drawn to Someone...

Jacksonville, Florida
June 25, 2012 6:33pm CST
This is the second time this week that someone has told me they are drawn to me and they don't know why but they are. I am a little confused as to what they mean by that. Is it just because of my helpful nature? The way I treat people with respect? What is it about me that draws people to me? I don't think there is anything that special about me for people to feel this way. Have you ever been told that someone is drawn to you? Any idea why or what that meant?
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@celticeagle (119865)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Jun 12
In this world of hurried lives we may go through our days and see scads of people but rarely interact with any of them. And in your case it may very well be that you take the extra time to be helpful and be respectful of others. Not too many people do that now days and I think it means alot when someone is. ANd it leaves an impression too.
• Jacksonville, Florida
26 Jun 12
Thank you celticeagle. That is true that a lot of people are too busy with their own lives to worry about other's. When someone takes that time others notice I guess. =)
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@celticeagle (119865)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Jul 12
Yes, we are in such a hurry now days. We need to slow down and look at the other person we walk by on the street. Have you heard about the Colorado Massacre yet? Horrible.
• Jacksonville, Florida
21 Jul 12
I did hear about it. Absolutely horrible. I do not get it at all. He was a college graduate of med school is what I believe I read?? Why?!? I do not understand why, I just feel like he had no reason for this! Not that any reason would really be a good one but why would a person with such a bright future do something to throw all of his hard work away?? I am so confused by the whole thing...
• United States
25 Jun 12
All the friends I have ever had , started the friendship . So I assume something drew them to me, I don't know why either. You Are special. Not everyone is as selfless as you are. I hope the people you are attracting are good people.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
26 Jun 12
It sounds like a quality in you makes people feel the same way too. You are a great person and friend so I am definitely not surprised. =) Thank you sweetie. I think they are good people, only time will tell though of course...
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• United States
26 Jun 12
Thanks.
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@blue65packer (11835)
• United States
26 Jun 12
Drawn to you? Mmmm? Maybe they trying to say they like you. I know when someone likes me they pick up on my goofy personality and then tease me back in a good way! Maybe that is it. I can tell you lots of animals are drawn to me! Like horses,dogs and cats! I am an animal lover and that is probaly why that happens! Lol!
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• Jacksonville, Florida
26 Jun 12
Maybe that is what they meant. People seem to be drawn to me the way animals are drawn to you. I care about everyone and I try helping all people even though I don't have much myself. I just can't see people suffering...
• United States
26 Jun 12
hi lovingmybabies! i have had someone tell me that he was "quite taken with me"...that was the way that mr. psychoartist announced to me that he was in love with me....this is a really cherished memory! it is good that you have a helpful and respectful nature lovingmybabies...
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• Jacksonville, Florida
26 Jun 12
Oh wow. I hope those people were not saying they were in love with me. Lol. I'm glad you have a good memory from it. I don't want these 2 people to feel that way about me though. Lol. My husband would not like that too much! I do, I help and respect everyone. Even those I know do not deserve it.
• United States
26 Jun 12
People being drawn to you means your soul and heart are good and humans can feel this. They feel comfortable when your around and you most likely make people laugh. I bet you have a smile that lights up a room and jokes that leaves them laughing. Its a wonderful thing to have a natural connection with people. You never have to be someone else cause you are awesome. Im going to guess you are a mother to. A mom has a protectiveness that people can also feel. So if people arent having there time of there life just being around you. There wanting to open up to you. :) You lucky.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
26 Jun 12
That is a great explanation of what they meant, thank you for explaining it so well. =) I get it now, thanks to you. They both did say they love my smile. And that they are comfortable around me. I am a mommy too. =) Thank you, I feel lucky. It felt good hearing someone say that, I knew it was a good thing even though I wasn't sure what they meant. =)
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@AmbiePam (50127)
• United States
4 Jul 12
Well, if they are male, stay away unless you're looking to change men.
• Jacksonville, Florida
4 Jul 12
They were both men that said this. I will stay away because I am happy with the man I have. No one will replace my husband.
@inertia4 (27713)
• United States
4 Jul 12
I have never felt that in my life. And I know no one was ever drawn to me for anything. It could mean that they are attracted to you, or it could mean that you are just a really nice person or a combination of both. Maybe you're magic. LOL. Nice!!!
• Jacksonville, Florida
4 Jul 12
I never felt drawn to anyone except my husband and that is why it confused me so much! I am definitely Not magic, Lol.
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
Yeah many times but it's just we are different coz they told me the reasons why they drawn to me. I think they drawn to you because as what you said you are being helpful and also for being respectful.....May be you are a lovable lady and sure you are pretty too.
• Jacksonville, Florida
26 Jun 12
Yeah these 2 people did not tell me. They both just said they were drawn to me. I do try to help anyone I can and I respect everyone. Thank you mg, your so sweet! =)
• India
26 Jun 12
Hi friend, i think you are very kind and helpful, so only people are telling in this sort. You must be proud about this complement.
• Jacksonville, Florida
26 Jun 12
Thank you. I try to be kind and helpful. I treat people the way I want to be treated. I think it was a nice compliment. =)
@derek_a (10902)
26 Jun 12
If you are a friendly person who is interested in others and listens sympathetically to what they have to say, you will radiate a magnetism that will attract people. Just a look or a way of being is enough without you having to say anything at all - and they will feel an attraction. It always seemed to happen to me and I used to wonder about it too. I eventually became a therapist as that seemed to be my purpose in life. I didn't plan it, it just sort of happened. I consider it a privilege and a gift to be able to help others and whilst it may be difficult to accept that people are drawn to you, if you can just go with it and accept it, I think you will find your life becomes more fulfilling. _Derek
• Jacksonville, Florida
26 Jun 12
I am a friendly person I would say. And I definitely listen to people all the time. I love to help. I am definitely more of a listener than a talker. I wish I could be a therapist as well because I think my personality fits it. But I do not want to have to go for more schooling so it will never happen for me. I really wish I could help more people in a job I love doing so I could reach more people. But that will never happen for me... I am happy about people being drawn to me because they see good in me, I like that. I just didn't understand it until I started this discussion.
@thesids (22358)
• Bhubaneswar, India
26 Jun 12
Hi LovingMyBabies Fortunately, no one ever told me that he/she is drawn to me and I prefer it that way. Many a times, people think their own way and your helping them or even standing by them at the time of their need gets interpreted in a wrong way. I have experienced that.
• Jacksonville, Florida
26 Jun 12
I thought it was a big compliment. I think they said that because they see good in me. That is a great thing and I think it says something about me.
@bjc66bjc (6745)
• United States
25 Jun 12
Hi Loving my babies. I have been told the same thng,,,I've had people tell me they see an aura around me that draws people to me...I have had people whomI do not know, sit and talk to me about their lives and they say they had not even mentioned it to her families...I don't question it...I am blessed when people feel they can talk to me in confidence...It make me feel good to know they trust me in that way...Its a good feeling....
• Jacksonville, Florida
25 Jun 12
I agree with you that it is a good thing. I just don't know why they feel that way... It kind of confused me a little. =) I do feel Blessed that people feel that way about me too. I just always like finding answers I guess...
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