Going 32 and still single.

Philippines
June 25, 2012 11:55pm CST
I'm going 32 years old and i am still single. Some says, this age is hard to get married or having a child. I am not worry if i will marry or not. I still have other priorities right now and i am more happier with no relationship or partner. Only few guys are can be trusted nowadays. Mostly of them are irresponsible and unfaithful which i hated the most. It hard to accept the fact that guys are vulnerable and they can have two woman at the same time. I am not a Man hater, though i respect them but i just don't like the things that they do.
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11 responses
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
26 Jun 12
They don't all do the same things. And it is not too old to get married and have kids. My wife and I had a kid 8 months ago and she is 42.
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
I have to agree with you. My wife is always suspicious of me eventhough I do nothing that she has to worry about. I love her and promised to respect and love her only for the rest of our lives. I know that if I do something bad, she would never hesitate to leave my side so I am always cautious of my actions. I don't know what other guys do but definitely, every man is different from one another. I am not saying that I am perfect or something, I still do things that make my wife angry some times but I know my limitations and boundaries. I respect her and our marriage.
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
I did not say ALL MEN but only few of them are straight in being strong to be a real MAN. Good to hear that you are not one of those unfaithful and irresponsible being. keep it up.
• United States
26 Jun 12
At 32, you are quite lucky to not have accidentally had children already. It's not hard to find someone, though it does sound like you would need to let your guard down more. I was still single at 31, then I met my fiance. Keep living your life, eventually the fates will show you what they have in store.
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
thanks for you advice PhillyDreamer!
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
i am 29 and still single and i'll probably still be when i reach 32. I dream of having kids and a family but if it means i would have to settle for a guy who would just give me a headache then i'd rather stay single and be happy. like you. cheers!
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
agree! thanks for you comment. cheers!
@safety69 (592)
• Taiwan
26 Jun 12
Thats good that you are not worry about getting marry. I got marry when I was 31 years old, In my life when I was single , I wanted 2 things, to be a nun or to get marry, I didnt want to be alone, I tryed both , and decided to have a family and I am so proud of it. My husband is a good man, you know men are different from us ,they are confused to who has to serve more in the house , but , I keep reminding him that I am not his servant, that I am his wife and has to treat me nice , other than that we are fine. Marriages not always are bad , everybody has their own and different experiences. Dont rush into it , just let it come, but, if you want to have a family dont wait more than 40 years old , its very tyred for us. Good luck and enjoy as much as you can your single life... so , you wont have regrets.
26 Jun 12
I'm with you, most men can't have one as enough. But not all men act the same, some are faithful and lovable. But as you already told, only few have these qualities. So I think, you made the right thinking about marrying. Don't rush, there's no need to. Marrying doesn't goes with the age but it depends on your heart, if you truly find the one. Hope you will find your partner in life soon coz it's so nice to love.
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
Actually, still hoping to find someone that i can trusted with.But i am not rushing. Maybe i don't feel it yet (to be in love). Time can tell.
• United States
26 Jun 12
If you are not happy with two people together, it's much better to be by yourself indeed. Bad partner can completely ruined your life, even steal your money nowadays, we all need to be careful. Well, I wish u all the best and good luck to you.
• United States
26 Jun 12
I got married at the age of 32 and Randy was 42. I have no children yet, but that is because we cannot afford them at the moment. I am hoping to have children in the next year.; There is nothing wrong with being single. As long as you are happy that is all that is important.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
26 Jun 12
Now a days this age is common in our community most of the boy are unmarried till 35 age because in our community girls are more educated than boy so she not ready to marry with businessman and in our community businessman is more than job persons. Dont worry God made a sweet girl for you also and dont think negative you should happy after marriage because marriage is the most important part of our life.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
26 Jun 12
I can understand your thinking. You are right, age is not a big problem as long as we live in happiness and can find a right man later. To be single is good sometime, you can do whatever you want: You can go travel, study, go home late, make friends with men, meet friends whenever you want...no one blames about it.
@Mashnn (4501)
26 Jun 12
The most important thing is to find happiness in life. If you are happy been single, then I do not see anything wrong with it. On the other hand, not all men are unfaithful, I still believe that they are a few good men left.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
26 Jun 12
It's not yet too late to find a partner. But sometimes if are really that busy, we just don't have time anymore for our social life. But being single is also good. You can devote your time to help your family and other relatives.