Am I that stupid?
By DenverLC
@DenverLC (1143)
Philippines
June 26, 2012 7:19pm CST
I got into a long relationship..Recently, things turn to be from best to worst. I want to move on but on the other side I want to bring back the old love lost. The question now is, i'm already with someone whom I learned to love a bit and who loves me most. My Ex is now trying to win me back...Am I that stupid if I will handle both relationship??
Your insights are mostly appreciated..Thanks!
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7 responses
@edisonbanglos (389)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
hello Denver, i guess you did love that woman who is with you now because you want to move on.. was that your former girlfriend's fault why you lose each other? if so, then you should have think twice.. she is not that sincere anymore... if you find comfort in that girl you have now, then go for it.. you and your former girlfriend should know that it is good to love the one you prefer but it's better to prefer the one you love..
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@pafjlh (6)
• United States
27 Jun 12
I don't think juggling both relationships is a good idea. I think you need to weight both choices carefully. Remember that the relationship with your ex didn't work out, why is that? Right now you maybe remembering good things about the past, but something went wrong, what was that, and will it be a factor this time around. Also, is going back to this person worth losing the person your with now. You may seem to think it might be, but sometimes you don't realize just what you had till you've lost it. So as I said weight this options carefully, and decide what you want to do. It won't be easy because regardless of what you decide to do someone will be hurt, but its best to make this decision now and not lead both people on.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
hahaha... I can relate to that bro. Its almost similar to my situation. Handling both would be the worst thing you would do for you can only love one person. Try to reflect on it and think about it many times. You might want to pray also for more divine intervention. And after all of those things, you can then make a rightful decision.
NOTE: You would not love another if you are most happy on the first.
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@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
Boy, you are in hot water. Never row your boat in two rivers. There's bound to be trouble. You have to be mature enough to choose who you really love at this point of your life. Do not live in lie. If you no longer love your ex, tell her so. Do not leave her hanging and expecting something when there is really nothing there anymore.
@Matpunk85 (1066)
• Italy
27 Jun 12
You have a choose to do. In one side you think about good time passed away and on the other one you see a new possibility to love another person. To handle both relationship is not a good choice and you will lost both people. I think you have to feel who you love the most and to take a decision.
@nagrohith (3)
• India
27 Jun 12
Dude this thing always happens in a relationship as it gets older it will ripp you off.sa take your own time and take a decision wisely
@ellegor (40)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
Follow your heart and choose only one to occupied it. Don't make a mistake that you will regret after. Avoid stupidity. BE A MAN to choose the right one.
