I just want to have the friendship again, I really feel sad...

Philippines
June 28, 2012 10:13am CST
Good day dear Fellow Mylotters, For the past few weeks, I was able to gain new friends. However, due to some reason, I felt that I somehow hurted them due to a miscommunication. Although it is not really tough one but, how I wish I can go back to that time. As I really feel sorry for what happened. Aside from that, if I will be given another chance I will not go on that direction again for me not to encounter the communication gap. I just want to have the friendship again. I really feel sad for those things that have had happened.
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10 responses
• United States
28 Jun 12
I feel like i lost touch with so many of my friends since i graduated high school over a year ago.
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• France
28 Jun 12
Well then, the same has happened to me. I think it is very normal since we have our own business to take care of. Everybody is so busy studying or working and we hardly have any time to catch up with each other. It is a pity but this is how our life works. Maybe during this coming summer break, you guys can squeeze some time out and spend some previous moment together, who knows?
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• United States
28 Jun 12
I, too, have lost contact with a lot of my friends since I graduated high school. I think it partly has to do with the fact that I moved an hour away so I don't really see the people I went to school with on a daily basis. I agree that it is normal because everyone has their own life, jobs, careers, family, etc. It is good however to at least keep in touch with some friends and get together sometime.
• United States
28 Jun 12
Yeah, i hope i can have some time to see my friend this summer. It is i guess normal everyone has there own thing going on. One of my friends now even has a baby but, shes the one that moved about an hour and a half away. I am still where i always been.
• United States
28 Jun 12
Maybe you should have a talk with them and tell them you are sorry. If you do this I am sire they will come around and like you again. u have nothing to lose b trying this out.
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@ardoy0731 (6865)
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
Talk to your friend and explain what really happened that time and start again the friendship that you had before. Communication is really important to avoid misunderstanding.
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• China
28 Jun 12
Don't worry,nowthat you have rocogenize your fault,you already get the chance to get the friendship back.I deem you should know a fact that your sincere attitute is what matters most,open your mind and tell them the truth bravely,trust me, you will feel happy with them again.
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
Honestly, I do forwarded a mail stating my apology for the miscommunication that has been happened. I am just really praying that our friendship will revive once again. And wishing that friend will give me another chance to fill in what has been lost due to my fault.
@hsofyan (3448)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
20 Jul 12
Don't be sad. Sad can not you return to the past. Sad does not solve the problem, but create new problems. Sad makes beauty / delicacy to be bad. Sad eliminate your energy. Sad do not have a future.
@chiyosan (30205)
• Philippines
7 Jul 12
with all sincerity and with all the great things you have shared with your friends i am sure if you try harder and reach out to them and try to clarify the issues that blew up you would be able to restore this lost friendship.
• Jacksonville, Florida
28 Jun 12
I usually give people a little "cool down" time. Let them be for a little while so they have time to be angry for a little bit. Some people need time to get over things. After that I would try to talk it over with them and try to make things better. I would definitely tell them how sorry you are. =( I hope you get your friends back soon!
• United States
28 Jun 12
Hi airasheila, I think that everyone has a time they go through where communication is an issue. It's normal, but talk to your friends, explain what happened, and if they are your friends they should be there for you. Communication is a big part of any type of relationship, whether it's a love relationship, or in this case a friendship.
@bLadeee (403)
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
If you have time to fantasize things you've done in the past, why not live your life looking for a better tomorrow. There's only one permanent thing here on earth which is "change". Sometimes we lost our friends, and meet new one's. If it's your fault why they leave you, don't do it again if you don't like it to happen again. Try to apologize to them. If they are really you're true friend, they will accept your apology. Be true to yourself, be true to your friends to make your bonds unbreakable.
@Hatley (164471)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Jun 12
hi airasheila go talk to your friends again and tell them what you have told us,a few times I have felt sad like that as a friend got upset with me so I talked it out with them and now our friendships are so much better,it was all just a misunderstanding all the way through. good luck and G God bless.