Feeling so alone

@jharia20 (365)
Philippines
July 8, 2012 7:27pm CST
it's been quite sometime since I felt the feeling of being in love. I always hope and pray that the right one comes my way. I always feel so alone cause no one text me, no one chat me. its kinda hard to think that you are alone. I don't know what to do I always feel sad and empty
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12 responses
@simonelee (2718)
• China
11 Jul 12
Hi, Jharia! Are you living alone or move to another city? Your feelings maybe cause of hormonal imbalance specially when your period is coming or the weather affects it. If these factors are not the reason maybe you are really feeling unloved and alone. I was once in this situation and coping up from depression is a bit hard. The feeling of being left alone,left out and no one cares even though i am surrounded by people whom they express their love is not enough. I feel so empty at that time though my partner is always there but still not enough. Anyway, you don't need a partner to be happy, you only need to see the beauty around you and appreciate everything specially the smallest things, then in that way you'll see happiness behind it that you are too busy and blind to see it. Trust me. Don't focus on things who aren't there, it will make your life miserable. I've been there. Just pray and apply what i said and soon you'll see light. Take care! Ciao.
10 Jul 12
I lost mine a few months ago (though I haven't seen him for years since I came to this other place). It sucks to be alone. I understand you when you said you feel sad and empty. I hope you find someone who would treat your right and least make you one of his priorities if not the top one. Some people would say it's okay to be alone, but we all have our different opinions about it. I'd still say I would like company. I do now, but I am not really expecting much.
@dodo19 (33577)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
9 Jul 12
I'm really sorry you feel this way. I'm sure that there are friends that you can talk to, and hang out with. Just hang in there. I'm sure that love will come your way. I'm sure that it's out there.
• Latvia
9 Jul 12
Don't worry. Eventuly you find someone. It's just not right now.
• Philippines
9 Jul 12
Sometimes, I also feel the same way especially when I'm surrounded by people who are in a relationship. I feel so out of place. But life doesn't revolve around boyfriends/girlfriends. We also have our family, friends, hobbies, job, church, etc. Why don't you grab this opportunity to learn something new? That's the good thing about being single, you have more time for YOU. Just continue improving yourself. Remember that even if you're growing older, you're becoming wiser and more mature. By the time you've met someone, you will be a much better version of yourself.
• Jacksonville, Florida
9 Jul 12
I think you should definitely keep busy with things you enjoy doing. Try not to think about being so lonely. Once you enjoy being by yourself and are confident enough to be by yourself and be okay with that the right person will come into your life! I know this for a fact. =) I know it is hard but once you can do this you will see the right person will show up when you least expect it.
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
9 Jul 12
Well, don't bother about it,friend. Just be patient and being alone might not be the same the other but someone will come to your heart and door. To say how beautiful you are... If you want I will be your chatmate here
@shylade (3137)
• Philippines
9 Jul 12
I think you should go out and free yourself from thinking that you are alone. Dine out with your friends, your mom, sister or brother. Go out and explore the world. Don't let it bring you down. No one can help you but yourself. Happiness is a choice so if you won't choose it then you won't be happy. I wish you well jharia!
@kelzbelz (36)
• United States
9 Jul 12
try and hang with friends or something like or Facebook its ok though life will get better mine did i mean it took time like five years but i got it now. so will you
@davaome (1828)
• Philippines
9 Jul 12
You should go out with your friends, have some fun. I sure your just bored of not being able to do anything as of the moment. Find new friends in your neighborhood, or socialize with your current friends. Have asleep over, watch a movie, or just hang out at the park. :D that way you won't be lonely, and you could add good memories every time. happy mylotting
@512771751 (1096)
• China
9 Jul 12
It is common for girls when they fall in love with somebody. In love, girls are always thinking they should be together with their lover all the time. But actually we forget our own habits and other things. So please be yourself.
@yoniarnon (1081)
• Israel
9 Jul 12
It sound like a song. I think you should feel better with your self and show more confidence people love someone that feeling good with him self, some one happy that make you happy. There are some bad times in life when you feel alone but then one day you meet someone and you feel so happy with him and you forget your bad days.. I think it is only a matter of time..