Best Friends Best Forever...!

@Rite17 (773)
United Kingdom
July 9, 2012 5:22pm CST
I grew up always thinking that you was only allowed to have 1 best friend. So you could spend all your time with them and no one else would know your secrets etc. But getting older, I developed more complex friendships with different people and ended up having 3 best friends who i share everything with and they love me as much as i love them. And yes, men can be a best friend as well as be a friend with a woman... We have always been close ever since we first met nearly 8+ yrs ago. We parted ways but always kept in contact and soon eh will be visiting again and am so excited!! We have been chatting online every night for the past 5 months or so and has been really weird when he has had family n friends visiting him so he hasn't been on as much as would like. But in a week's time, he will be over and i can get to finally hug n chat all sorts to him face to face! CAN'T WAIT!!!!
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@Dominique25 (9476)
• United States
10 Jul 12
It is a great thing to be able to have best friends. I'm sure that you both will enjoy each others company. It's a wonderful thing to be able to spend time with friends we haven't seen in awhile. Have fun.
@Rite17 (773)
• United Kingdom
12 Jul 12
Thanks for your post, that we definitely will do!
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• United States
13 Jul 12
You are welcome. I hope that if he has already visited that you both had a blast. Life is so much better when we have friends and family we can share it with. Have a great evening.
19 Jul 12
It is always nice to see a familiar face after a long time. My bestfriend and I haven't seen each other for years as well. She has been my bestfriend since we were like 8 :) We don't always communicate or update each other, but we just know that should there be anything that would happen, there's always someone we could turn to without being judged. That's real friendship I suppose.
@Rite17 (773)
• United Kingdom
20 Jul 12
Thanx hun for ur comment... Just loved being out with him yesterday n was hard saying byebto him today.. But hes round for a few days so if has time, will call me for a catch up before he leaves xx
@ryanong (9697)
• Vietnam
11 Jul 12
it is nice when you have some closed friends around and you can share and talking regularly. We all need friends and it is great when we have some closed friends who will accompany with us entire this life. I have some closed friends also and we have been being in nice friendships for long long time...however i don't share my secret life even though i can talk with them whole day from this thing to that thing... You know nice friends will stay with us forever...
@Rite17 (773)
• United Kingdom
12 Jul 12
thanks for the comment.. i find it strange that i can chat to my best friends about anything and everything for hours and days at a time and never run out of things to say.. and yet with other friends, can find it awkward when there is nothing much to say.. lol
@natliegleb (5186)
• India
10 Jul 12
I will be crazy and delighted like anything since i really cherish their valuable friendship so once i see them,i will hug them tight and give kisses and dance around them.its lovely to hang out after a huge break.they are the real strength of our life. for a fact a friendship can enlighten as well as dethrone a person career.so i will always keep them close and dedicate my life to them forever
@Rite17 (773)
• United Kingdom
12 Jul 12
thanks for ur comment... i dont think i will dance around them n hug n kiss them loads.. maybe squeel and hug them tight for a while n then sit them down once we have got a drink from the bar n chat loads!! lol
@ute124 (41)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 12
happy for you best friends are what keeps us going they are always there to watch our back and also do crazy and funny things with us. keep it going girl.
@Rite17 (773)
• United Kingdom
12 Jul 12
thanks dear.. Peeps should have ur back through thick n thin.. secrets kept locked between you and no one is able to break that bond - i had one who done just that though.. but looking back now, not much of a best friend. just wanted to hang out on nights out, that was it really.
@missjahn (4578)
• Philippines
9 Jul 12
a funny thought that you would end with one bestfriend in your entire life. as you grow up your world will spin much bigger compared from your younger years. you eventually met different persons along the way. some of them worth keeping and some of them were just good as for acquaintance. no matter what, just keep the old friends and befriended with a new one. so good for you that at long last you and your old friend will see each once more finally again.
@Rite17 (773)
• United Kingdom
11 Jul 12
Thanxs for our comment It is strange ow perceptions can change from when you are a child, life is only small - in a bubble kind of - to when we grow older, the world is much bigger. And so our way of thinking snd exploring expands. We end up loving n losing many people in our lives, but should never regret having them in our lives. We are not who we are today without them.. Good or bad