Painfully Departed

Philippines
July 10, 2012 1:03am CST
As I'm travelling in our town, I've noticed my phone had a message from a social network. When I read the message, I'm wondering if whom is sending these private message saying a mournful news to me. As I'm reading those messages I wanna shed some tears. The message was sent by my cousin saying that my father had passed away. It was very unfair to my side. Because I had not talk to my father ever since my mother died last 2004. My parents we're separated. But I lived with my mother, then my father lives in there hometown in Mindanao. And my mother and were here at Iloilo. Going back to my father we separated our ways with the hurt feelings in our hearts last 2004 due to some personal problems. That problem is specifically about financial aspect.. About the benefits of my mother he processed the papers of my mother, then leaves without saying goodbye that he will resides to there hometown. I'm just that hurt of what he's done. We never talked as if his motives are clear.Just a pity incident of mine, but all is done. But despite of it my prayers for him that he shall be rest in peace in other world.. And prayers for the healing process of all wounds. Literally speaking I'm all alone they will met there in other life.. But both of them will keep dearly to my heart no matter had happened still I will not be here if not with them.. Hope this be gone as time heals it..
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@kkaria309 (297)
• United States
10 Jul 12
I am sorry for your loss, I hope your father will rest in Peace. I am sure he is happy wherever he is, and sees you now.
• Philippines
10 Jul 12
Thank you kkaria309. I know he's in the right place and I already forgive him.. through prayers..
@usemyname (640)
• Philippines
10 Jul 12
My heartfelt condolences! By the way, where's the wake? Iloilo or Mindanao? It's good that you have forgiven your father despite of what he have done. If I were in your shoes, I don't know if I could forgive him. Kudos to you, my friend! You sure have a heart of gold!
• India
5 Feb 13
Sorry to hear this and thanks for sharing, you are a brave girl and kind too, you forgave him inspite of what you say here, god will reward you.
• Philippines
10 Jul 12
sorry... wish you had a chance to have a family time with him though.