see theres another good thing to be said about responses/comments

HI BON, Myloty is a great place to make friends & i feel i have made many on here present company included. Hope u are having a great weekend.

I'm SO far behind on my notifications I'm probably not responding to folks everyday - and if you've turned me off - well, know that I might post 4 discussions in one day but I only do it about once a week... I probably have well over 800 notifications and I'm sure I won't be getting back to all of them.

It is good to check up on our friends. I had some e mail issues and a busy day yesterday, so I have quite a bit to look at and comment on. It is nice to have friends.

Hi bunnybon! I wish I could respond to a lot more discussions than what I'm able to do these days but I can't. Since my dad's passing last November, I've been really busy caring for my mom since she's severely disabilied and on SS. I'm at her place a lot more than my own anymore and so it's very hard to keep up with mylot although I do the best that I can. None of you, my dear friends are forgotten though! Trust me on that!

hibunnybon yes we all should be more aware of keeping in tou ch with our friends here even if we just comment on their discussions but a response too is better. I have not had the troubvle of getting notifications in email some have had. but stillhere on mylot there are some discussions that if you try to respoond you get nowhere. the response willnot post. now this one lady has only one response and I am sure she usually gets quite a few, i hope mylot can remedy this soon as I can imagine how she feels thinking perhaps my discussion must not be interesting enough.I have been driven to stay off of some who post 20 discussions in only an hour or so as I just cannot respond or comment to so many and still respond to all my other close friends here.I am proud of my friends who do respond to my discussions and bless them all.

I try to keep up with all my friends' discussions, but there are times that I can't answer them all either. As far as mine, I understand my friends can't respond to all of mine either but if they are super active, it does make me wonder what I am doing wrong if they never answer any of mine. I love the participation and my friends here too.

Hi Bon, I've been skipping discussions I can't think of a reply to as I am in catch up mode. I've been more than a week behind for a long time and now I'm slowly catching up. However, next week I will be away from the computer for the best part of 3 days so I will get behind again. Many of my friends don't post discussions often, thank goodness so the number of alerts I have in my email are only ever about 100, at least that's when I'm in catch up mode.

Hi bunnybon, I only have some people on notification. If I had everyone I'd have way too many emails daily and that would drive me crazy. I come here to check in and usually see everyone's discussions. If I have time I'll post a comment and move on to the next. Mylot is a fun place to come and chat and see what's happening all over the world.

I'm one of those who is not receiving notifications. I haven't received any for quite awhile now. I was getting them sporadically for awhile, then none at all. I come in here and check under "discussions" but sometimes I can't get through all of them and miss some of those my friends have written. I'm sorry! I hope they get this little glitch (this HUGE glitch to some of us) fixed one of these days. Sometimes, though, I can't even log on here for a day or two because of other things happening and that will be happening again VERY soon. My son's partner is one centimeter dialated (as of yesterday) and will probably be giving birth within the week so I'll be VERY busy, being the grandma who lives the closest to them. Naturally, I'll be helping out as much as I can once the new mom is home from the hospital. So, if you or anyone notices that I've disappeared for awhile, that would most likely be the reason. And I apologize in advance for missing some discussions. However, I hope to be able to get online from the hospital when the big event is taking place to let everyone know.

Hi, bon....For a while there I wasn't receiving notifications. And then I broke my left wrist and it was pain to try to type and when I did try, I was having to do the hunt and peck with my one hand. It's still somewhat difficult with the cast but it's better. I haven't taken anyone off notivication but some days I wished I had. I also rate the maximum amout when I'm at myLot. I think a lot of people are forgetting to do this. I think that this is also an obligation you have to your friends.

I turn my notifications off when I am going away for a long period, because I have many friends and I would drown in notifications if I am unable to check my email for a month or two months. When I am at home I am usually online every day and I am able to check the notifications daily. Some of my notifications are turned on and some of them are turned off. I don't respond to all of my friends' discussions, I only respond if I feel that I know something about the topic. Sometimes I just read the discussions without responding. I am have some good friends who often respond to my discussions and I always appreciate that

For me, it is honestly my goal to respond to each and every discussion that my friends have started. But, I will also admit that there are some times that I miss responding to some discussions that people have started because of the fact that there are times that life outside of the computer really gets in the way. However, when I do miss responding to discussions that friends have started, then I will try to make up for it by responding new discussions that they've started.

I keep all my friends on notify all the time. I know I get lots of emails, but I do check all of them and only respond to the ones that I find interesting. It does take some time to get through the emails, but I don't mind. I am playing catch up right now. I try and chop away a little each day. I check my notifications every once in a while to make sure they are still active.

hi bunnybon, sometimes I just need time till I can answer discussions. I have almost all friends with notify on and am wading through looots of notifications right now. As I have today, Monday, off I can answer as early as this but normally you would have to wait till next weekend when I have online time again or even longer. Hope that doesnt make me a bad friend in your eyes.

I comment on my friends stuff and they comment on mine. If I put up a lot of discussions i don't expect anyone to comment on everyone, but I just like to have a regular readership and I response in kind. I think of you as a friend and not just a name on the screen. We have been together so to speak for many years now.

I don't get notifications anymore. Haven't for two-three months now. I have to do it all manually so if I don't answer yours right away I'm living life or just not into Mylot right now. I can usually depend on certain mylot friends to answer all my discussions. I am glad I have these friends.

I have a few on not notify. The rest of mine are on notify. I respond to all I have something to say. I don't stay on forever because I just can't.